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In the midst of the hustle and bustle of the world, we are busy running for a livelihood day after day.
However, one day, we will usher in that long-awaited retirement time, so that we can slow down and savor the beauty of life.
For many retirees, how to spend the rest of their lives has become a question worth pondering.
Some people choose to continue to be busy, some people choose to live comfortably, and some people find the smartest way to live: don't listen, don't do, and don't talk.
1. Don't listen to gossip
In life, it is inevitable to encounter all kinds of troubles and right and wrong.
Especially after retirement, we have more time to socialize and spend time with family and friends.
However, in these gatherings, there are often people who like to talk about other people's private affairs and tell the truth.
For these words, smart retirees will choose to turn a deaf ear.
Because they understand that such gossip will only bring unnecessary annoyance to themselves and others.
Instead of wasting time on these unhelpful conversations, focus on the good things and keep your mood happy.
2. Don't do what you can't do
When we were young, we were always full of fighting spirit and courageous.
However, as we age, our physical strength and energy inevitably decline.
Therefore, after retirement, we should learn to accept our limitations and stop forcing ourselves to do things that we can't do.
This is not to say that we should give up the pursuit and progress, but to do what we love and are good at within the scope of our ability.
In this way, we can enjoy the pleasure and satisfaction of daily life while avoiding the potential damage caused by excessive fatigue to our physical and mental health.
3. Do not interfere excessively in the lives of your children
When children grow up, they have their own families and lifestyles.
As parents, we should respect their choices and give them enough space and support.
Rather than interfering too much in their lives and making them feel constrained and oppressed.
Smart retirees know how to keep a proper distance so that each other can enjoy the warmth and harmony of family.
4. Don't say hurtful words
Words are a double-edged sword, which can both warm people's hearts and hurt deeply.
After retirement, we should pay more attention to our words and deeds and avoid saying hurtful words.
When dealing with family, friends, and even strangers, we should use kindness and respect as the cornerstones of our interactions, and use gentle tones and appropriate language to accurately convey what we think and feel.
In this way, we can not only win the respect and friendship of others, but also create a harmonious and beautiful living environment for ourselves.
5. Don't complain
There are inevitably many unsatisfactory things in life, but complaining will not only not solve the problem, but will also lead us into a deeper spiral of negativity.
Smart retirees know how to adjust their mindset and face every challenge and dilemma in life with optimism and open-mindedness.
They tend to look at problems with optimism and focus on finding solutions, rather than indulging in endless complaints and blame.
6. Don't show off
After retirement, we may have more time and opportunities to travel, Xi, or engage in activities that interest us.
These experiences will undoubtedly enrich our lives.
However, when sharing these experiences with others, we should take care to avoid show-off and exaggeration.
Because sincerity and humility are the cornerstones of good relationships.
We should use plain language to describe our experiences and share our feelings and gains with others, rather than deliberately flaunting our achievements and wealth.
In short, "don't listen, don't do, and don't say" is undoubtedly one of the smartest ways for retired seniors to live.
It has taught us how to maintain inner peace and tranquility in this complex world, so that we can better enjoy the good times of retirement.
When we truly do these nine points, we will find that our lives become more fulfilling, happy, and meaningful.
I hope that every retiree can find his or her own smartest way to live and spend a happy old age.