Preamble:
The ups and downs of emotional experience are inevitable for everyone.
However, when a relationship lasts for 16 years and finally breaks down, it can be unexpected.
Yang Di, this comedy star who has risen from the grassroots, is his love really as he jokingly said, "lifting his pants and not recognizing people"?
What kind of inner story is hidden in this seemingly hasty breakup?
An honest boy from the countryside of Sichuan
In 1986, in the beautiful mountains and rivers of the Sichuan Basin, the boy Yang Di was born.
He seems ordinary, but he hides a unique soul - he has shown amazing acting talents since he was a child, and even in a group of hip-hop teenagers, he can easily attract everyone's attention.
However, God's favor for him seems to be limited to talent - because of his natural appearance, Yang Di's performances are often more laughable than admirable.
This predicament did not crush the Sichuan boy, but made him determined to find his own way out.
Yang Di resolutely chose the path of comedy performance, trying to let more people discover his talent through exaggerated body language.
It's a positive response to my own life, and it's also a brave discovery.
However, choosing the path of comedy also doomed Yang Di to face more accidents and risks.
As a comedian, he needs to maintain a higher level of interaction with the general audience, which undoubtedly increases the difficulty of his performance.
In the first few years, many of Yang Di's jokes and performances relied heavily on exaggerated movements, but he was unable to create laughter through witty language like a real comedian.
At this time, he is like a clown in a hurry, although he tries his best to make people laugh, he often receives cold and even mocking glances.
This kind of performance is like a mirror, ruthlessly revealing that Yang Di's talent and comedy skills still have great shortcomings.
But it was these grinds that allowed him to find a truly unique style of acting.
In this painful exploration, his mother's consistent encouragement was Yang Di's spiritual pillar.
Every time he came home lonely because of embarrassment, his mother would take him into her arms and listen patiently to what happened to him.
Gradually, under the guidance of his mother, Yang Di also learned to draw strength from these "shocking" experiences, and he became more forbearant and strong, laying the foundation for future success.
An unexpected bonus on "China's Got Talent".
In 2010, 24-year-old Yang Di walked into a turning point in his life - the talent show "China's Got Talent".
Met with fierce criticism on his first stage, Yang Di was not discouraged, but found his performance direction in reflection.
He adjusted his style, kept trying, and finally earned his first glory on this stage.
Yang Di successfully opened up his popularity with his unique and humorous performance style, and was named the "Emperor of Expressions" for a while.
What's more precious is that this stage also allowed him to get acquainted with the host Xie Na - the hostess was full of praise for Yang Di's comedic talent, which became an important pillar of his development in the entertainment industry.
However, there are also unknown twists and turns behind this successful experience.
Before appearing on the stage in 2010, Yang Di had signed up for "China's Got Talent" twice, but was eliminated in the pre-selection.
The two failed blows did not knock down the Sichuan boy, and he reflected on his shortcomings and made changes.
When this third opportunity came, Yang Di integrated many previous lessons and finally impressed the judges.
The response to the scene was not all smooth sailing.
Yang Di's exaggerated and funny performance style was not recognized by everyone at first, and there were many cases of sneering and loud ridicule in the audience.
But Yang Di did not back down, he relied on the tenacity and will he honed over the years to turn these negative emotions into motivation for performance.
Eventually, he earned applause with his outstanding performance and made his mark on the show.
This successful experience not only proves Yang Di's perseverance, but also confirms the importance of his years of hard work.
Perhaps it was the perseverance he learned to endure at a low point in his life that allowed him to finally shine at a critical moment.
relationship, a sticky period spanning 16 years
When Yang Di became famous in the entertainment industry, his love life also ushered in spring.
That year, the Sichuan boy met and knew a mysterious woman, and the two hearts began to be closely connected and affectionate to each other.
In the past 16 years, she has silently accompanied Yang Di through the ups and downs of life and has become his firmest backing.
Every setback and trough, every glory on the stage, she stays by Yang Di's side like a long stream.
Once upon a time, Yang Di shouted "I will never give up in this life" in a variety show, and made a solemn promise to this woman.
16 years have passed, and the bits and pieces they have experienced together seem to be pointing to a lifelong vow......
Regarding the identity of this mysterious woman, Yang Di has never revealed much in public.
But from the 16-year relationship between the two, we can still vaguely see her importance to Yang Di's inner world.
In the past 16 years, she has always supported Yang Di and spent the transformation from a nobody to a star with him.
Perhaps it is this kind of warm and long-lasting companionship that makes Yang Di determined to "never leave".
When he shouted his vows on stage, everyone could tell it was more than just a show.
He was genuinely looking forward to spending the rest of his life with this woman.
But in the end, it seems that the heavens are going to play a big joke on him.
When this 16-year relationship came to an abrupt end in a dramatic way, what kind of shock and torture would Yang Di's heart be?
Master's words woke up the dreamer
On the road to Yang Di's fame, mentor Huang An gave him the most important lesson in his career.
On stage that night, Yang Di amused the audience with his signature exaggerated body language.
When the laughter dissipated, Huang An threw out a seemingly simple question - "What is your dream?"
This question was like a thunderbolt, waking up Yang Di, who was stuck in the performance assembly line.
He began to re-examine himself, no longer devoting all his energy to exaggerated performances, but to pursue his true dreams and performance style.
What Yang Di found was not only the answer in his heart, but also the path that led him to a higher peak.
Before Huang An's words, Yang Di had always regarded acting as the only means to please the audience.
He used all kinds of exaggerated and gorgeous body movements just to win a few applause and whistles.
But gradually, Yang Di also felt the mechanical nature and emptiness of work.
Every time I perform on stage, I feel very little satisfaction.
Huang An's words undoubtedly touched a corner of Yang Di's heart.
Suddenly, he realized that his acting career so far seemed to be only performing to please the audience, but he had never found his true self.
This is the basic consciousness that an actor should have, and it is also a key moment for Yang Di to find his direction in confusion.
From then on, Yang Di began to think about deeper questions: what should my performance convey, what kind of thinking do I want to bring to the audience, and after brushing away the superficial sensationalism, Yang Di began to find his own style.
Instead of performing for the sake of laughter, he hopes to infect every audience through the inner temperature of his works.
This is the most fundamental transformation of Yang Di's career.
Mother, a solid shoulder on his way to growth
Looking back on Yang Di's life so far, his mother's companionship and support are his biggest source of motivation.
When he was a child, he was ridiculed by his classmates for his appearance, and his mother hugged him into her arms; When choosing the path of comedy, my mother's eyes were full of faithful encouragement...... She built a bridge with her hands, allowing Yang Di to fearlessly overcome the criticism of the outside world, and gradually grow from a country boy to a comedy superstar.
When the stage lights go out, Yang Di can still return to his mother to draw strength.
The gentleness and encouragement that never dry up is a safe haven for Yang Di in this impetuous world.
For Yang Di, motherhood is much more than just a companion in life.
During his crucial upbringing, his mother taught him many valuable life lessons, which became Yang Di's inner pillar in the face of later ups and downs.
When he was a child, he was ridiculed for his looks, and his mother comforted him, "Everyone is different, you have to learn to value your uniqueness".
This became the motivation for Yang Di to get out of his inferiority complex in the future.
Later, he chose the bumpy road of comedy, and his mother's words ignited his fighting spirit to continue to work hard: "As long as you love and devote yourself to it, you don't have to care about other people's teasing." ”
Yang Di, who has been famous for many years, still remembers his mother's teachings.
Every time he faced the capriciousness of public opinion, every time he was treated unkindly because of his performance, he would repeat his mother's words in his heart - no matter what the outside world thinks of him, as long as he is a good actor, it is enough.
Perhaps it is these inner strengths given by his mother that finally shaped Yang Di from an ordinary person to a top comedian who has made countless audiences laugh.
parted ways, and 16 years of love ended helplessly
However, when Yang Di soared, this 16-year relationship finally ended in a reluctant breakup.
The promise of "never leaving" that he once made with great ambition was shattered, and Yang Di was also criticized and suspicious after the breakup - why did he take three steps back and two steps on the emotional road?
Is it really as many people speculate, after his success, he "lifted his pants and didn't recognize people"?
In fact, the truth may not have so many twists and turns.
It has been too long, and it may have long since worn out the original passion and flying; The barriers of time and life may have quietly separated the two hearts...... When the fruit of love fails to bear sweet fruit in the end, the breakup becomes an almost inevitable result.
We can only guess whether that corner of Yang Di's heart has also turned back and forth - does he also regret not being able to fulfill the vow he made back then? What kind of torture and abandonment does this breakup mean to him now? These may no longer be known......
In fact, behind this seemingly hasty breakup, Yang Di and his girlfriend may have also experienced painful struggles and choices.
16 years of youth will not pass in vain, and the sincerity that has been delivered is not easy to get back.
We can imagine that in the days and nights before the breakup, Yang Di must have experienced the torture of various psychological struggles: should he continue this hopeless relationship, or choose to part ways? Proposing to break up is undoubtedly a bloody parting, but for them, I am afraid it is also the only way out.
When love comes to an end, no one really feels at ease.
Yang Di and his girlfriend undoubtedly shed painful tears, lingering on the memories of the past 16 years.
Admitting the failure of a relationship is never easy for any of them.
But in the end, the lovers who once depended on each other chose to separate.
The rupture of love does not mean that the good things in the past are illusory.
Epilogue:
When we set our eyes on Yang Di's sudden love, we can't help but think that the hot gossip may occupy our hearts.
However, in addition to crazy interpretation and suspicion, we should also have a tolerant heart to understand the ordinary people who have broken up in their lives.
It may be difficult to guess what Yang Di really thinks in his heart, but we at least remember that this boy who came out of the countryside in Sichuan was still the honest boy who had a passion for life.
Success and fame may have changed his external image, but we believe that Yang Di behind his fame still retains that simple and unpretentious heart.
This breakup must be a bloody torture for Yang Di and his ex-girlfriend.
16 years of youth will not be easily erased, and every moment is condensed with too much attachment and reluctance.
Maybe one day, when Yang Di thinks about this relationship again, those pictures of laughing together will still be vivid and tearful.
But in the end, we have to move on.
Choosing to break up does not mean that the good things in the past are empty.
The bits and pieces of those young and frivolous bits and pieces will become flashing photos in Yang Di's memory.
They will remind him that every stage of life is unique, to be celebrated and to remember.
May the separated lovers get out of their pain and regain their lives as soon as possible.
Maybe one day, when the dust settles, they can still remember the past and repay the 16 years of companionship with sincere blessings.
I believe that Yang Di and his ex-girlfriend will definitely become more sunny, wiser and broader people.