Recently, a news about Sun Yanzi's sister Sun Yanmei severing relations has attracted widespread attention. It is reported that Sun Yanmei herself is very good, she not only became a doctor, but also took a master's degree in economics and studied Xi law, trying to enrich herself. However, around 2020, Sun Yanmei chose to leave her hometown and settled in Australia because of conflicts with her family.
Sun Yanmei's move makes people sigh: this seemingly perfect girl hides so much helplessness and pain in her heart. She posted this kind of Weibo the day before her birthday, it seems that she is trying to get the attention of her family, and she is afraid that her birthday will be forgotten by her sister and parents. This is reminiscent of the saying: "People who lack love are always looking for opportunities to be loved." ”
When Sun Yanmei was growing up, the family environment and family care had a huge impact on her. As Stefanie Sun's younger sister, she has been living under her sister's aura, which puts her under a lot of pressure. And the preference and attention of her family also made her lose a lot of self-worth in the process of growing up. She worked hard to Xi and become a doctor, economist and lawyer, but none of this seemed to fill the emptiness and loneliness in her heart.
Behind this seemingly glamorous family, Sun Yanmei's heart is full of struggle and pain. She longed for her family's attention and love, but for various reasons, she couldn't. This long-term depression and helplessness made her choose to leave her hometown and start a new life in a strange country.
However, leaving her hometown will not solve Sun Yanmei's inner pain. Her birthday wish turned out to be that her family would pay attention to her existence. This feeling of longing to be loved makes people feel very distressed. We hope that Sun Yanmei can get out of this shadow as soon as possible, truly live herself, and find her own happiness.
Family relationships have an important impact on a person's development. Sun Yanmei's story tells us that we should pay attention to the emotional communication between family members and try to avoid the phenomenon of favoritism and neglect. At the same time, we should also pay attention to those children who seem to be perfect but have pain in their hearts, give them more love and support, so that they can bravely pursue their dreams and live their true selves.