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I am an ordinary middle-aged man named Zhang San. I have been married for many years and have a son named Xiao Ming with my wife Li Si. Our family of three has been living together for a long time, and life is plain but fulfilling.
Recently, my five-year-old parents asked me to take them into our house because they were too old to take care of them. I didn't agree because I thought it would be nice to live together as a family. Besides, Li Si and I often visit our parents, and they have no problem living alone. But my parents repeatedly urged me to say that it was too lonely to live alone, and I couldn't resist it, so I had to agree to let them come and live with us.
This incident caused me to have a big argument with Li Si. One day during dinner, Li Si suddenly put down the dishes and chopsticks and said to me solemnly: "You have already promised to let your parents come and live with us? I absolutely do not agree! I only want our small family, and I don't want to live with my in-laws." ”
I quickly persuaded her, "It's normal for relatives to live together." And my parents are old and need someone to take care of them. ”
"I don't care, anyway, I absolutely don't agree to let them move over! If you want to live together, you will divorce first!" Li Si said without concessions.
I was taken aback by her decision, and hurriedly said, "Calm down, let's talk, don't get excited." ”
"What are you talking about? This matter has been decided, and if I oppose it, I will oppose it!" After Li Si finished speaking, he slammed the door and left.
Now I am very embarrassed, my parents have begun to prepare to come and live together, and I have no problem with Li Si. In desperation, I could only go to my son Xiao Ming to discuss.
"Son, your mother won't let grandma and grandma come and live with us, what should I do?" I said anxiously.
Xiao Mingle said hehehe: "No problem, I miss grandma and grandma so much! At first, the three of us were quite bored, with grandma and grandma, how lively it is to chat, cook and go shopping every day!"
Hearing Xiao Ming say this, I was both happy and relieved. I hope he can help me convince Li Si.
When Li Si heard this, he became angry again: "I don't care what Xiao Ming thinks! Why should I let my in-laws take care of me? If they really come over, I promise that you two fathers and sons will have no good fruit to eat!"
I quickly advised her: "You have to believe me, I will never let my parents restrict your freedom." They just live here and don't interfere in our lives. ”
Before Li Si could finish speaking, Xiao Ming jumped over and looked at Li Si expectantly: "Mom, do you agree with grandma and grandma to live with us?"
Li Si glared at me fiercely and said to Xiao Ming, "No! Dad is lying to you, they can't come!"
Xiao Ming immediately cried and said, "Why, Mom, I miss them so much, why are you so bad!"
I hurriedly persuaded Xiao Ming: "It's my mother who needs to think about it again, don't worry." ”
Li Si unceremoniously yelled at Xiao Ming: "It's your father who is bad! This kind of thing doesn't need to be considered, there is only one answer, that is, disagree!"
Xiao Ming and I looked at each other, both stunned by Li Si's tough attitude. At this time, my phone rang suddenly, and I saw that it was my dad calling. I picked it up nervously, and my dad happily told me that he and my mom had disposed of the old house and booked a plane ticket to come and stay with us next week.
Before I could respond, Li Siyi snatched my phone and yelled at my dad angrily, "Who allowed you to come? Don't want to come to our house without my consent!" Then he hung up.
Xiao Ming and I were both frightened by Li Si's actions. I hurriedly called again to explain, but fortunately my parents were not angry. But I also showed my attitude that I would be flying over in a few days.
I hurriedly said to Li Si: "It's too rude for you to hang up my dad's phone so directly." People are ready to come, so don't be so ruthless, okay?"
"Otherwise, what?" I also lost my temper, "Are you going to divorce me?"
Li Si said coldly: "Try it and you'll know!"
Xiao Ming was afraid to persuade us not to quarrel, but Li Si didn't appreciate it. I was really angry, and I didn't want to persuade anymore, so I went straight back to my room.
After a while, Xiao Ming came in and said to me, "Dad, you have to think of a way, you must let grandma and grandma come over." Mom, she is so opposed, what must be the reason, can you talk to her well?"
I thought about it for a moment and said, "Okay, let's give Mom a little more time." She is stubborn, so try to persuade her. ”
Only then did Li Si calm down and said, "I just can't stand my in-laws' fingers and meddling in our family's affairs." I really want to live together all day and night, and I'm annoyed to death!"
Li Si didn't buy it, and immediately retorted: "That being said, who knows if they will change their hexagrams after they really live together? When the time comes, they will revolve around me all day long, point fingers at my food, and mix with me to educate Xiao Ming, then I will pay it back?"
I continued to persuade her: "You think too much, my parents are old, and they are not those daughters-in-law and mothers-in-law who like to manage everything, they just want to have a place to spend their old age in peace, and they will not bother you." ”
"With them living here, the air in the house has changed, so it's still called comfortable and relaxed? I can buy them a house to live in, but they can't live with us!" Li Si's position is still very resolute.
At this time, Xiao Ming also came over and begged Li Si: "Mom, just agree, I promise to take good care of grandma and grandma, and never cause you trouble." ”
"No, no!" Li Si didn't look at Xiao Ming, and then said to me viciously, "And I bought this house of ours alone, and you are not qualified to let anyone come and live with you on your own initiative! I will go to the real estate bureau to cancel your name now!"
Xiao Ming and I were dumbfounded, but we didn't expect Li Si to use such extraordinary means in order to achieve his goal. I advised her to calm down and we discussed a solution to the problem. Li Si extinguished the fire at this time, but his face still had a posture of not wanting to talk to me.
Xiao Ming and I were depressed for many days. Fortunately, my parents also knew Li Si's temper and didn't embarrass me, so they decided to come and live with us as originally planned.
When I was really at a loss, a college classmate came to my house. I told him the story before and after, but I didn't expect him to smile and say, "There are a lot of troubles for rich people!"
When I heard this, I suddenly realized that what he said made sense. It is really unkind to have so many empty rooms in my big house, but I don't let my parents and other elderly people live in them. Besides, with the character of his parents, he will never take care of everything.
I was so happy that I quickly called my parents to tell me the good news. Parents are also happy. In this way, this knot in my heart was finally untied.
I have come to appreciate how important it is for husbands and wives to understand and support each other. Without these, no matter how big the troubles in life are, they will not be solved. I sincerely hope that from now on, our family can live in harmony and happiness.
I have come to appreciate how important it is for husbands and wives to understand and support each other. Without these, no matter how big the troubles in life are, they will not be solved. I sincerely hope that from now on, our family can live in harmony and happiness.
After a few days, my parents finally showed up in front of our house with a large bag of small bags. I happily went up and carried their belongings into the house. Although Li Si still looked displeased, he didn't say anything more.
My parents happily walked around each room several times and said, "Look at how big your house is, what a pity it is to have so many empty rooms, if we let the old man and the old lady live in, this house will be lively!"
I hurriedly echoed: "Yes, you moved here just right, and we will live together as a family in the future, how happy it will be." ”
Li Si looked at me coldly and didn't speak. Xiao Ming ran over and took his grandmother's hand to welcome. My parents touched his head and smiled.
At dinner in the evening, the atmosphere was a little awkward. My parents laughed with Xiao Ming without any scruples, but Li Si kept a straight face and kept silent. I was secretly anxious, worried that she would suddenly go berserk.
Fortunately, Li Si waited until he finished eating, and then dropped the bowl and went back to the house. I hurriedly got up to clean up the dishes and chopsticks, and told my parents that Li Si might be a little tired from work, and let them rest earlier.