In an ordinary family in Fuzhou, Fujian Province, something that is both heartwarming and interesting happens. The older sister, Ms. Li, 24, and her younger brother, 18, live at home together. One day, the water in the house suddenly stopped, and someone needed to go downstairs to fetch water. My brother had already fetched water several times, but his mother told him to carry two more buckets. The younger brother was a little puzzled and couldn't understand why he always had to carry water. So, his mother explained to him the meaning of "patriarchy".
Mom told her brother that patriarchy is a traditional concept that means that in the family, men should have heavier responsibilities and labor, while women should have lesser responsibilities and labor. This idea stems from the division of labor in ancient societies, when men were mainly engaged in farming and outside the home, while women were responsible for household chores and childcare. However, with the development of the times, this concept has gradually become obsolete, and modern society advocates equality between men and women, believing that men and women should enjoy the same opportunities and rights.
After Ms. Li heard her mother's explanation, she felt warm and funny. She thinks that this is the norm for her mother, because she usually teaches her younger brother that boys should take on a little more responsibility. Ms. Li and her younger brother have a good relationship, they are supportive and understanding of each other. Although Mom sometimes emphasized the idea of patriarchy, she also encouraged her younger brother to respect and take care of his sister, which made their relationship more harmonious.
This little story reflects the changing gender perception in Chinese society. Although patriarchal attitudes persist in some places, more and more people are beginning to realize the irrationality and harmfulness of such ideas. In modern society, men and women should be treated equally, and men and women should be given the same opportunities and rights, both in the family and in society.
In the family, parents should lead by example, treat each child with respect and equality, and give them the same love and support. Whether it's a boy or a girl, they should be encouraged to pursue their dreams and development. Parents should also teach their children to respect and tolerate others, and develop their sense of social responsibility and citizenship. In this way, children can grow up healthily in an equal environment and become new people in society with modern concepts and humanistic qualities.
In addition, the Government and the media should strengthen information and education on gender equality and raise public awareness of the issue. The government can introduce relevant policies to protect the rights and status of women, such as strengthening women's employment security and improving women's education standards. The media can disseminate the concept of gender equality through various channels and guide the public to establish correct values.
In this process, everyone has a role to play and contribute to the advancement of gender equality. We can start with ourselves, respect and care for everyone around us, and do not discriminate against or exclude people of any gender. We can also actively participate in social welfare activities, speak for the disadvantaged, and promote social justice and equality.
Patriarchy is an outdated concept that should be phased out. In modern society, we should pursue gender equality, respect and care for everyone. Only in this way can we build a just, harmonious and progressive society in which everyone can enjoy equal rights and opportunities.