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Preface
There is a kind of thing, often people don't know how to cherish when they have it, and even become a bargaining chip to squander wantonly, but one day they really lose it, and they begin to regret it, this is health, once they get sick, it is definitely a huge catastrophe for an ordinary family.
There is a good saying that if you want to change your bourgeoisie and work upward, it may take decades, but if it is downward, it can often be done in an instant, especially when you are sick, most people cannot afford a long-term serious patient.
The husband was seriously ill and spent all his family savings
Recently, there was such a story in Shandong, both men and women were originally from the countryside, they worked in the city for more than ten years, and finally had their own family, also had children, and saved some money in their hands, originally felt that everything was developing in a good place.
But it backfired, the man was just a little uncomfortable at first, but he felt that this was because he was too tired, and he could get better for a few days, and he planned to take a little medicine and carry it over, but he didn't expect that the more he ate, the more uncomfortable it became, and finally he couldn't help it, so he went to the hospital for examination.
When he started to do the examination, the man had been looking forward to it, he was just a small problem, but when the results of the examination came out, he was dumbfounded, this notice almost pronounced his death sentence, and the man's good wishes were shattered in an instant.
He and his wife themselves love each other very much, the two have been married for so many years, they can still live a sweet life, and they may have wished to be together to the end of the head, but because of this illness, the pressure faced by the two people suddenly became serious.
When the doctor told the lady that her husband was seriously ill, the lady couldn't accept it, she felt that her lover was obviously fine, why did she come to the hospital for a check-up, and said that the person was going to die, the lady couldn't control her emotions all of a sudden, and began to cry bitterly.
In fact, at this moment, she can understand the deep emotions between this lady and her husband, this is not only love, this man is also the father of her children, an indispensable part of the family, she made up her mind at that time, even if she spent all the family's savings, she would save her lover.
Although this lady took out all the money in the family, it didn't take long for the money to be insufficient, and it was really useless to be in a hurry at this time.
Many people who have not been in contact with severe patients may not be able to understand why spending money in the hospital is so fast, in fact, this is mainly because severe cases need to be admitted to the ICU ward, and this cost is very high, the basic cost is at least 2,000 yuan a day, and the most may be 20,000 yuan a day.
Therefore, the ICU itself is a place to spend money, if you calculate an average value, it will cost about 6,000 yuan a day, if you don't count other expenses, just being hospitalized in the ICU, it will cost a full 180,000 yuan a month, not to mention other expenses.
Moreover, the most frightening thing is that the general ICU is not included in the medical insurance, which also includes some urgently needed drugs, etc., which require additional money, that is, a month of treatment is at least more than 200,000 yuan.
If this money is spent, people can really get better, then there is nothing to say, but in the vast majority of cases, it is difficult for people who have been admitted to the ICU to return to normal in a short time, and even the more treatment will occur, the more serious the situation.
The hospital is already a bottomless pit, and the physical condition of the person is also deteriorating, in this case, the patient's family has to face a very great pressure, empty their savings, and then borrow money to continue the treatment, but also face the crisis that the lover may die at any time.
Under pressure, I want to give up treatment
In the face of such a huge pressure, it is no longer possible to transfer with people's wishes, there is a good saying, no matter how great the psychological pressure is, you can still overcome it with your own efforts, but social pressure is not like this, once you face it, life has already written the answer.
This wife knows that her family has no way to come up with extra money to save her lover, and she has no way to smash the pot and sell iron, because they still have a child to raise, and she has invested all the energy she can put in, but it is useless.
The wife must have felt great sorrow, she thought about it for a long time at her husband's bedside, and finally cried and asked the other party if she chose to give up and no longer save the other party, whether the other party would resent her and blame her for the choice she made.
If his wife can ask this, he must have been forced into a desperate situation, but as a husband at home, he must have been very unhappy when he saw his wife so uncomfortable, but there was no way to help the other party.
This husband must be able to feel the efforts of his wife to save himself, and the determination in the process, but there is no way, his body just can't get better, and he will also think about what to do with this family in the future.
Especially as a husband, he will definitely think that if he leaves this world one day in the future, then all the money borrowed and the money owed will need to be responsible for his wife and his children, and they may be under great pressure for the rest of their lives.
Since this husband was willing to marry this lady home at that time, he must also have feelings for the other party, how could he watch his wife live such an embarrassing life, so in the face of his wife's question, he only answered one sentence, and he would not blame, but this wife followed the wrong person.
It can be seen from his words that he originally hoped that his wife could live a happier life, instead of being able to stay by his hospital bed like now, and he must have thought about these results in his mind a long time ago, so he did not blame, only guilt.
The wife burst into tears on the spot, if she could, how could she be willing to give up the person she loved the most, the other party's answer made her feel that she couldn't afford this affection, but at the moment, she had no other way.
There is a saying that there is no filial son in front of the bed for a long time, in fact, it is not only family affection, but also the same in front of love, if a person takes care of a patient all day long, and accepts the fact that the other party will leave at any time, it must be a situation that everyone is unwilling to face.
The most important thing in life is health
Although you can see the determination of the couple to face difficulties together, but this world is like this, the more sincere things are, the more polished they will be, and they have disregarded their health in order to make money, and in the end, this money will definitely be returned to their bodies.
After seeing the experience of this couple, some netizens substituted for this husband's perspective, and most importantly, he still has so many obligations and responsibilities that he has not done his best, and he is about to die directly, so what about his wife, children and parents.
The patient will think a lot, in the face of the patient, it is best not to convey this pessimistic emotion, it is best to always comfort the other party, it will definitely be fine, this wife should not show her difficulties to this man again.
Some netizens also said that they were the role of this wife at the time, and after her husband unfortunately had a cerebral infarction, she had been thinking about it all the time, feeling that she was very unlucky, maybe she would be happy with others, but she had been suffering since marrying herself.
This netizen will feel that hearing her husband keep talking about these things, her heart is as uncomfortable as being taken with a knife and scraped over one by one, no one will want to be sick, and after she is sick, she still thinks about each other, which is already a very precious emotion.
Some netizens said that in today's society, the only bad thing is that there is no euthanasia, if you have an incurable disease, the treatment process will not only cost a lot of money, but also make yourself very guilty, it is better to give up as soon as possible and leave a life for everyone.
Life is like this, there will be a death in the end, but this death comes in a different way, sometimes it will come in the form of an accident, sometimes it will come in the form of illness, sooner or later, it is a certain number that must be experienced in life.
It's just that this process of illness may make people's mood, including the whole family's mood, very bad, some people are more worried that it costs money to treat the disease, and some people are unwilling to experience the pain and suffering of treatment.
Especially now a lot of physical state has been in sub-health, which is already very important to pay attention to, not only the physical state, including a person's psychological state, but also need to pay attention to, modern scientific medical progress will definitely bring a better tomorrow to everyone.
epilogue
In fact, whether it is or death, it is determined by certain laws, this is not a matter of feeling scared, there will be changes, people live in this world, there must be things that need to be done by themselves, do not waste the opportunity to come to the world.
Especially for young people who are now in the working state of 996, they must take good care of their bodies, when there are elderly people and children below, they need to pay more attention to their health, and annual physical examinations are indispensable.
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Resources:
Sohu - ""Don't save it, do you hate me?" Shandong wife cried and asked her critically ill husband, and replied to cure everyone"
Xinhua Press Network - "Intersection Survey - When the "Crispy Youth" Begins to "Maintain Health", What is the Real Prescription for this Young Generation?