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In 2010, a 56-year-old lady gave birth to a pair of dragon and phoenix twins regardless of the danger of her life.
As soon as this news came out, it quickly caused extensive discussion among many netizens.
In order to be able to support her two children, she has to work seven jobs a day after retirement.
Why did she have to have another child when she should have enjoyed her old age?
Now that more than ten years have passed, how is their life going?
(All of the content stated in this article is based on reliable sources, and is repeated at the end of the article)
Hard life
In 1954, Guo Min was born in an ordinary family in Jiangxi, and when she was 14 years old, she followed her parents to the countryside. In the days in the countryside, Guo Min helped his parents cook and wash clothes every day, and picked up books to study by himself in his free time. After seven years in the countryside, she was admitted to a junior college with her own efforts.
In that era, there were very few people who could finish junior high school, let alone be admitted to a junior college, and Guo Min also became a rare talent at that time. After graduating from university, Guo Min studied hard to take the Xi exam, and finally successfully entered a state-owned enterprise as an accountant, and could get 300 yuan a month. This job not only pays well, but also is very easy and stable, and it is a proper "iron rice bowl".
In the unit, Guo Min met her first husband, the two were colleagues, they often worked together, and the two gradually came together in their daily relationship. After marriage, Guo Min gave birth to her daughter Liu Linghui, the arrival of her daughter brought them more laughter, and the life of a family of three was very happy, and under their cultivation, her daughter grew up healthily.
Later, Guo Min's mother-in-law wanted them to have another boy, but at that time, just in time for the country to implement family planning, they gave up having a second child. After that, the couple put all their energy on their daughter, and as her daughter grew older, their family's expenses increased. In order to improve his economic conditions, Guo Min decided to work for a private company in Beijing, where the salary is much higher.
In 1992, Guo Min left her husband and 11-year-old daughter to come to Beijing to work alone, and after arriving in Beijing, Guo Min could get a salary of 1,500 yuan per month, which was several times more than her original. Although the work is very tiring, it is all worth it in order to give their daughter a better life, but because their husband and wife are in a different place all the year round, the relationship between the two has gradually been exhausted.
In 1998, the two officially divorced, and although Guo Min won custody, she was too busy with work, so she could only give her daughter to her grandmother to raise. Guo Min, who is wandering alone, will inevitably feel lonely, and in 2001, she was introduced to Ren Hansheng and came together. Ren Hansheng, like Guo Min, was married once before, and he also brought a son.
Guo Min's second husband is very good to her, and her stepson is also very sensible, after Guo Min and Ren Hansheng got married, she also had a home in Beijing. So Guo Min took her daughter to her side to raise her, Liu Linghui knew that it was not easy for her mother, so she was very sensible. She never let her mother worry about her Xi school, and she was admitted to university with excellent grades.
The grief of bereavement
Seeing that life is developing in a good direction, they don't know that an accident is quietly approaching them. In 2003, when the SARS epidemic broke out, the situation in Beijing was the most serious, and her ex-husband in Jiangxi was worried about his daughter's safety, so he wanted his daughter to stay in his hometown for a while. Guo Min agreed for the sake of her daughter's health, but she never thought that her daughter's departure was a farewell.
On November 21, 2005, Guo Min suddenly received a call from her ex-husband, who told her that her daughter had been in a car accident and had passed away. Hearing the news of her daughter's death, Guo Min instantly sat on the ground, she felt as if the sky had fallen, and since then, Guo Min has been washing her face with tears all day long. She was haunted by her daughter's departure, and she spent her days thinking about how good it would be if her daughter was still there.
Guo Min often thinks about the meaning of living if she loses her daughter, and many times she thinks that it is better to die with her daughter. It wasn't until three years after her daughter's death that Guo Min saw a news item in the newspaper about a 60-year-old man in Japan who had successfully given birth to twins through embryo transfer technology, which instantly gave her hope.
Guo Min thought that everyone could give birth to a child at the age of 60, so he would definitely be able to have another child when he was only in his 50s. Guo Min didn't want much, she just wanted another daughter to accompany her, so she told her husband Ren Hansheng about this idea. When her husband learned that Guo Min wanted to have a child, he immediately refused, after all, she was so old that the risk of having a child was too great.
Even if they are born successfully, then they are all so old, and when they are old, who will support the children. No matter how her husband persuaded her, Guo Min was already determined to have another daughter, and her husband couldn't persuade her, so she could only agree. After getting her husband's consent, Guo Min went to the hospital with her husband to consult related questions.
When they arrived at the hospital, doctors learned of her age and refused to give her the surgery because she was too old for them to take the risk. After being rejected, Guo Min went to other hospitals for consultation, but was also refused. Guo Min, who did not give up, traveled all over Beijing's public hospitals, and the replies he got were all the same.
In order to have a child, Guo Min went to private hospitals again, and finally she got a positive answer in a private hospital. After examining her, the doctor found that although she was menopause, her uterus had not yet shrunk, which means that there was a possibility of childbirth. However, the risk and cost of surgery are high, and it may not be successful.
Give birth to a dragon and phoenix fetus
But Guo Min didn't want to let go of a glimmer of hope, she was willing to take the risk, and after a series of conditioning and preparation, the doctor was ready to start the operation. In order to improve the success rate of the operation, the doctor implanted three embryos in Guo Min's body, after which Guo Min went home and carefully waited for the results, and after a period of time, two of the three embryos in her body successfully survived.
Considering her age, the doctor suggested that she subtract an embryo, but Guo Min felt that both children were related to her, so both children stayed. On April 6, 2010, through caesarean section, Guo Min successfully gave birth to a pair of dragon and phoenix fetuses.
She named her two children, one named Ren Jiabin and the other Ren Jiamin. Before the child was born, their family lived together, but after the child was born, Guo Min felt that it was inconvenient to live with his stepson. The couple moved to the outskirts of Beijing with their children, and had to find new jobs after retirement because the surgery had cost the family.
However, when the children were three years old, her husband had a sudden cerebral infarction and went to the hospital, and Guo Min could only take care of the family. The husband lay in the hospital for several months before returning home, and in order not to burden Guo Min, he moved to his son's house. In order to give her children a good life, Guo Min will work up to seven jobs a day and sleep four or five hours a day.
Later, the suburb where they lived was demolished, and Guo Min had to return to the city with her children, who had bought a house for her before her eldest daughter died, but she had never been there since her death. Now that the house has been zoned for a school district, she has moved with her two children to the new home for her daughter.
In 2017, Guo Min had a sudden cerebral infarction, and she had to reduce her workload, and her life was even tighter. In 2018, Guo Min's husband died, leaving Guo Min alone to raise her two children. Today, Guo Min's children are running around to raise two children, and she often tells them that she will live to be 100 years old and watch them grow up safely and healthy.
Guo Min often thinks about what will happen to these two children if she dies, and she doesn't know how long she can stay with her children. In fact, there are many elderly people like Guo Min who have lost their independence, when they were young, they responded to the call of the country to have only one child, and when they lost their children, they had no relatives around them, how painful it was, all we could do was to understand and encourage them.
Source: https://baijiahao.baidu.com/s?id=1616483593790344378&wfr=spider&for=pc