In this busy city, we live in a building with a total of four families in our neighborhood. However, the busyness of life and the privacy of each other make our interactions scarce, and even some of our neighbors we have not yet met.
This is especially true of the relationship between the upper and lower class residents, where we are like strangers, each living in our own world.
I remember one time, Lao Li downstairs couldn't go out because of a sudden illness, and his wife anxiously asked for help. At this time, the usually inconspicuous neighbors reached out one after another, some helped call an ambulance, some helped contact Lao Li's family, and some went to the supermarket to buy daily necessities. With the concerted efforts of everyone, Lao Li received timely treatment. This experience made Lao Li feel warm, and also made us realize that although everyone is usually busy, we all rely on each other at critical moments.
There are many reasons for the indifference in relations between neighbours.
First of all, the pace of life in modern society is getting faster and faster, people are busy with work and Xi, and have little time to communicate with their neighbors.
Second, with the development of technology, people rely more on the internet and social media to communicate rather than interact with their neighbors face-to-face.
In addition, people are increasingly concerned about personal privacy and are reluctant to easily disclose their personal information and family status, which also leads to barriers between neighbors.
Of course, the more reason is that it is not necessary and no one has taken the first step of interaction.
Have we ever reflected on whether this way of life really makes us feel comfortable and satisfied? Does our alienation from our neighbors make us miss out on many beautiful moments in life? In this city full of high-rise buildings, have we forgotten that the emotional communication between people is the most valuable treasure in life?
As Li Ao said: "The distance between people is not measured by physical distance, but by the degree of spiritual fit." "In this day and age, even though we live in the same building, we are living in separate ways. It's time to break down that barrier and regain that lost neighborhood.
Imagine if the residents of this building could be like a family, taking care of each other and helping each other, it would be full of warmth and love. Today, we are like a group of strangers living under the same roof, and the distance between us is like an insurmountable chasm.
Mr. Yang Jiang once said: "The most beautiful scenery in life is the calmness and calmness of the heart." In this materialistic world, should we slow down, pay attention to those neglected people and things, and feel the warmth and beauty of those forgotten? Let us break the barriers in our hearts, bravely know our neighbors, and feel the warmth and beauty of this world.
Think about it, living in the same building, we could have helped each other and built a welcoming community together. However, the reality is that we are like strangers to each other, as if we live in separate islands. Are we really so indifferent and unwilling to communicate with our neighbors? Have we forgotten the truth that "distant relatives are better than close neighbors"?
Think about it again, living in the same building, we could have learned from each other through communication Xi and grew together. Why don't we take advantage of this opportunity to share our knowledge and experience with our neighbors?
Or, living in the same building, we could have held various events together to strengthen the bond between neighbors. Together, we can organise dinners, sports, cultural events, etc., to make this building a place full of life and energy.
Living in the same building, we had so many possibilities. As long as we are willing to step out of our own circle and take the initiative to communicate with our neighbors, we can create a better living environment.
Let's break down the barriers between neighbors and build a real neighborhood from now on!