What truth did you understand after raising a daughter?
author:Fish Fish DD
After giving birth to my daughter, I tried my best to understand her, empathize with her, talk to her well, do not shy away from any good and evil in the world, and enrich her spiritual world
Just after giving birth to a baby, girl, I love her very much, I feel very guilty when her eyes are red, I can't wait to give her all the good things, I want her to live wantonly, free and not restrained, that's what I don't have, I hope she has
I didn't sleep for half a day last night, I was sleepy, so I slapped her ass a few times, and the tone was fierce [embarrassed laughter], and I was a little embarrassed after the murder
When my daughter was strong, she didn't lose at all as I did back then, watching her roll from the bed to the ground, I didn't get angry but fell into deep thought, this familiar routine
My daughter's treasure will hug and kiss me, and at the age of 2, she will tell me that my mother has worked hard [呲tooth] I will apologize and say that my mother is sorry [crying silently] Who doesn't love this, my heart is melting, but this should have something to do with my personality
I thought that only my daughter's emotional needs are particularly large, and she needs to provide a lot of explanations, empathize a lot, and say a lot of boastful words, but it's really troublesome when I'm tired
I really rely on coaxing, she fell a dog and ate, and she didn't cry, she would come over and say you hug me, I need you to hug me now [covering my face]
I raised a female man, and every day I have to pull off Barbie's clothes for Ultraman to wear, well, I can't empathize, you reason with her and she will do magic for you.
My daughter will come to hug me and kiss me every day, saying that it is to replenish energy [呲tooth]
5-year-old daughter Pua me every day: Aren't you my good mother? How can you ......., you are my good mother [covering her face]
I don't need my daughter to be empathetic, not too gentle, and not all love in her head, I want her to dare to think and do, always love herself, clearly understand what she wants, what she likes, and work hard for it, live in this world, have the courage to accept and let go calmly, never be bound by love, and always be free
My daughter is only three years old, and she is generally very well-behaved, coquettish, and clingy, but her mouth is as fast as mine, and her temper is as big as mine, which is simply a copy of me. She cut her hair with scissors, and I said how dangerous she was and how pretty, and she retorted that it wasn't that she couldn't grow it again! She cut out the sticker book that she didn't play with, and I said why do you cut the book if you don't cut the paper, and it's not finished pasting yet. She said to me, "Don't talk about it!" Her brother asked her to help broadcast TV, and she said, "Then you can find me a remote control!" How can I broadcast without a remote control?
My goose only listens to hangers and sticks, and she doesn't listen to me, and she wants me to listen to her