It's not that God doesn't favor me, he really sent me a person who is very suitable for me, but I drove her away because I was too stupid and stupid.
I am three years older than this girl, the girl is 96 years old and 27 years old, I am 31 years old, I have a bachelor's degree to do technology, a girl with a college degree to do the Internet, our family is the same ordinary family, I have a younger brother who is seven years younger than me, she has a brother who is married and has a child, our two families are less than five kilometers away, the girl is smart, well-behaved and sensible, and has outstanding appearance, which is my favorite type.
After that, she and I met on December 30th, that is, four or five days ago, through a blind date introduced by a friend between the elders, and the first place we met was in front of her community, and the characters were: my father, her mother and the introducer, the three of them chatted outside, and I sat in the back of my car with the girl and started chatting.
It's completely different from what I expected, I was going to go through the process, the plan was to chat with me for more than ten minutes, I didn't expect her to be not only very good-looking, but also very generous and cheerful, we switched the topic very smoothly, and there was no such cold scene and then deliberately looking for the topic of the scene, so when the conversation reached more than 20 minutes, the girl took out her mobile phone to add WeChat with me, and we continued to chat for a few minutes after adding WeChat, this chat had more than 30 minutes, and the first side went smoothly.
The WeChat screenshot below is the chat history of the day, 31st, 1st, and 2nd after returning home, and the following will start to analyze the chat records of the past few days.
On the 30th, when the blind date met and separated, because the chat was good, I also took the initiative to make a vague invitation verbally, that is, I said that I came out to play together when I was free for two days (another day), the girl smiled and agreed, and when I left, I turned around twice and waved goodbye to me, and I took the initiative to make an opening statement after two hours after arriving home that day, and chatted a few words naturally.
If you look at all my chat history, you can't find a sentence to eat, what are you doing, because I don't like to post this kind of thing with girls, it's all about talking about things, and it's okay to chat and share what you did or what state you were in at the time
After 4 o'clock in the afternoon of the 31st, I directly made an invitation, because 31 was New Year's Eve, and at the same time it was the second day that I met the girl, so the girl had already arranged and told me the reason why she could not go to the appointment, and took the initiative to share the content of her activities on the night of New Year's Eve, so the invitation was not successful.
But it didn't prevent us from chatting later, but in the end when I proposed to exchange mobile phone numbers, the girl refused, which I think was that the girl didn't understand that I was wary of me at first, I didn't think much about it at the time, just replied to a um, and the day's chatter ended here.
I didn't talk to her during the day on the 1st, and at night the girl took the initiative to ask me if the New Year's Day holiday was over, I saw that the girl took the initiative to find me and brought an expression, judging that she should be in a good mood at the time, so I took advantage of the last invitation to ridicule her, the girl picked up the topic and continued to ridicule, the two sides chatted emotionally, the whole process was back in seconds, and they joked with each other until the end.
There is no screenshot of the chat record on the 2nd, I will briefly say that the girl took the initiative to share that she was late to work to catch the bus, and we chatted a few words along this topic until the evening, until I took the initiative to invite the next day, saying that I needed to go back to the house to pick up something after work and take the girl to have a meal with me by the way, and gladly accepted, so I decided to have dinner on the first date on the 3rd.
The date on the 3rd was both the first date and the last date, because this date was completely screwed up by myself, and I made many mistakes on this date, and these mistakes accumulated and all my previous efforts were in vain.
I arrived ten minutes early near the girl's company, parked on the side of the road and waited for her, the girl was about ten minutes late after work and explained to me as soon as she got in the car, the other party's emotional state looked good when she just got in the car, we said hello, I said: Come and let me take a good look, not bad, or as beautiful as you in my impression that day, even at night I didn't look away.
The girl said happily: Didn't you say that you forgot what I look like?
I said: I must not forget your moving appearance, the reason why I say that is to want to trick you a little, I want to cheat you from a beautiful photo, no, it should be several, anyway, I can deceive a few is a few, I didn't expect you to give a single one, it's too stingy, I don't want to be friends with you again.
The girl said, "I've never existed."
I said: I don't believe it, how could you not shoot if you love beauty so much.
Girl: Anyway, if you don't have it, you don't have it.
I said: passengers, please fasten your seat belt, sit tight, the vehicle is about to open the racing mode, because the car is too fast, the driver's skills are too good, hereby solemnly declare, do not enter, please be sure to be mentally prepared in advance, such as scared heart disease will not be responsible.
The girl smiled and said, "Aren't you more skilled than me?"
The time to pick her up was 5:40 p.m., we set off together to go to one of the most prosperous shopping malls nearby, on the way we just chatted a few clichés, nothing substance, to the parking lot to park the car, after entering the mall, I said I was a little thirsty, let's go buy a drink first, the first floor of the mall opened a Bawang tea Ji, I just had a coupon in my mobile phone, so the girl and I walked around on the first floor to find the store.
The girl is very familiar with the mall, or she found it first, when she went to the front of the six or seven orders, we waited together to get the tea process, the girl found a vacant seat and sat down and began to look down at the phone.
I didn't talk to her much, at this time my heart was already panicking, a little overwhelmed, began to look left and right, about a minute later the girl next to her got up and went, vacant position, I sat next to her, she didn't speak, I took out my phone at this time and pretended to look down at the phone, this process lasted for three minutes.
This short three minutes seems to me to be very long, the girl asked me what our number is, I quickly took it and said that we have two numbers in front of us, almost there, the girl looked up at the number screen hanging on the counter, just at this time to show our number, the girl reminded me to line up to ours, I stood up and walked to the counter to get it, the girl also stood up and followed me, when I got the tea handed to her because we ordered two flavors, I wanted osmanthus oolong milk tea, she ordered jasmine milk tea, the girl said: The two cups look the same, it is difficult to distinguish it。
I smiled and said, "You can try them all first, see which one you like."
The girl found that there was a New Year's good luck sign in the bag containing milk tea, and the girl took it out and opened it to see that it was a promotion and salary increase, and then she was very happy and said that she wanted to take a photo and send it to the circle of friends, and asked me what my sign was, and I opened it to see that it was the same as her.
The girl said: It seems that everyone should be like this. Then the girl took a photo while walking, this time point was half past 6, just in time for the meal, I proposed to go to a small restaurant on the fourth floor to eat, the store decoration atmosphere is very good, so we did the escalator together layer by layer up to the fourth floor, or the girl is familiar with the environment, she remembers the location of the store, found the store and went in after the waiter warmly received the two of us.
After eating, I walked to the escalator to continue, just when I went up the escalator, I reached out to help the girl's arm, the girl did not express any attitude, so I felt that I had hope for this date, and when I was about to get off the escalator, I reached out to hold her hand, I just touched her hand, the girl reacted quickly, she instantly raised that hand and grabbed the strap of her bag, which indicates that the current girl is not yet able to accept more physical contact with me, if I stop at this time, maybe there will be a great chance to remedy。
Then the girl came to the video game city with me, I bought 130 game coins for a hundred yuan, in the process of I went to the coin machine to withdraw coins, the girl has run to the end of the crane machine, and when I finished, she has seen all the dolls in the claw machine, she ran back to tell me which machine in the doll is cute, and we walked over together.
I said, "Will you catch the doll?" and the girl said, "Of course." I said: Then this is your home field, you are the protagonist of this game, you are responsible for catching, I am responsible for coins, cheering you on. Then the girl began to scratch, almost a dozen times, and each time the doll was clamped up, and as soon as she was about to move back, her claws were released.
The girl said: I'm going to be angry, this paw is too loose, there is obviously a problem, don't play, I quickly said: Then let's change the channel, we walked to another machine, the girl took out her mobile phone to show me the photos she took with the doll before.
She said: Look at it, I used to be able to clip seven or eight dolls for a hundred coins, but now I am almost forty, and I haven't caught it once, I'm so angry. I said then I will clip it, you put coins on the side of me, so the girl put two coins, who would have thought that I caught one for the first time, but the claw clamped the doll to the hole but did not let go, the doll was held by the claw all the time, I let the girl watch on the side, I went to find the staff to unlock the lock, and took it out.
Then the girl said to go and change to a new model to continue to clip, we changed again, I said this time you come first, she grabbed seven or eight times, still can't clip, she said you come to play, and then she took out the mobile phone and looked at the phone, I just played with myself, that day my luck was really good, played five times on a doll, I took the girl in front of the doll to shake the doll to her, she looked very happy, put the phone back in her pocket, pulled and changed to a machine, this time when I caught the remaining twenty coins, I caught another one, and then changed another one to continue to catch, until the coins were consumed, I caught a total of three dolls, the girl liked these three dolls very much, came out and hugged the doll along the way.
I smiled and said, "Give me one," and the girl smiled and said: No, these are all mine. I pretended to grab her doll, she bent down to protect the doll from me, she ran to the front, ran back, said give this to you, took out a bear and handed it to me, at this time I felt that she was in good shape, I just hugged her in my arms, she pressed the bear in her hand on my chest and pushed me away, at this time from the time she pushed me away very hard I knew that she was a little unhappy, I don't want me to touch her again, if I can stop moving my hands and feet at this time, then there is still a chance to save this period of time。
Walked out of the game hall I said that the time was less than half past eight, accompanied me to the lake fountain outside the mall, the girl said that she didn't want to go, wanted to go home, the girl said she was waiting for me at the gate on the first floor, let me go down and drive the car out, I said: Let's go together, just walked to the underground garage I went to hold the girl's hand again, the girl shook off, this time in fact, the girl was completely disappointed in me, I know that there should be no next chance after going back, and I can't make an appointment in the future.
After sitting in the car, the girl's face has been pulled down and she no longer said a word, and began to take out her mobile phone and has been sending messages to others, her mobile phone message prompt sounded all the way, and sent a message all the way without stopping, until the door of her community, the girl said that the place was place, and then said thank you today, do you want this doll, I said I don't want you to take it back.
The girl said thank you and closed the car door and left, and then I continued to drive the car, my mobile phone WeChat prompt sounded, I pulled over, opened WeChat and saw that the girl sent a message: thank you and then the following is two hundred red envelopes transferred to me, I knew that this date was completely messed up by me, and it has been completely over.
Tell those buddies like me that if your emotional intelligence is not high enough to easily find a girlfriend without a blind date, please don't believe those half-baked emotional counselors on the Internet who say to keep trying physical contact, this is what happened to me.
This paragraph is completely over, WeChat has been deleted, so far, it's over.
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