The other party was introduced by the matchmaker, who was the same age as me, and after only a week of chatting, the other party took the initiative to ask me to meet.
The first time I met this blind date, I thought it would be a pleasant experience, but I never thought it would become an "embarrassing" moment that I will never forget.
That day, as soon as he came up, he moved his hands and feet on me, trying to put his arms around me. I was stunned, and a strong antipathy welled up in my heart. Even though I immediately broke away from him, his actions still left me feeling very offended. In my opinion, this is disrespectful to others and a blasphemy in the form of blind dates.
What disappointed me even more was that instead of apologizing, he began to defend himself, trying to make excuses for his actions. I was deeply displeased by his attitude, and I felt that he lacked the most basic courtesy and respect.
Here's a transcript of the chat with him after we met:
As a girl, I can imagine my feelings when I encounter such an experience on a blind date. I felt angry and helpless at the same time. Why do some people always Xi seeing others as their own appendages and are unwilling to respect their feelings?
This blind date experience made me deeply reflect: in the interaction with people, respect is the foundation, without respect, how to talk about communication? For this blind date, I want to say, maybe you should reflect on your words and deeds, instead of rushing to justify your behavior.
After all, a true gentleman knows how to respect others, rather than imposing his own will on others.