"If you marry, marry Wu Jiafang. ”
After the Wenchuan earthquake in 2008, the short seven words became a "compliment" to a man named Wu Jiafang in Sichuan.
Applause, flowers, righteous men, thin lovers, unfilial sons...... Applause to scolding, how Wu Jiafang couldn't figure it out: I just want to be an ordinary person, why is it so difficult?
What has Wu Jiafang experienced over the years? Why did the story of Wu Jiafang ride behind his deceased wife caused a sensation? What happened from a righteous man to a thin lover? Why do you say that it is now a thing or a person?
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Righteous man thin lover
A motorcycle, a man who is anxious about his wife behind him, looks out of place with the shattering of the earthquake scene, and shockingly, the woman behind the man has already died in the earthquake, this photo was taken by a reporter, and it caused a sensation.
Love righteous man, love in the earthquake, tearful love, with large and small reports, Wu Jiafang's name officially entered the public eye.
And the woman behind Wu Jiafang is Shi Huaqiong, the wife who has been together since the two were young.
Wu Jiafang and his wife Shi Huaqiong are both from Sichuan, the two met on the construction site, the two knew each other at the age of only twenty-one or twelve years old, and they were already in love with each other and worked together, and the two chose to get married soon after falling in love.
After getting married, the two had a son, and although the living conditions were more difficult, life was much happier.
It's just that the two are affectionate, God is ruthless, the Wenchuan earthquake in 2008 deprived too many happy families, and Wu Jiafang is naturally no exception.
The wailing everywhere, the black smoke in the sky, and the ruins everywhere were stained with blood, Wu Jiafang also began to anxiously look for his wife who was not at home, shouting everywhere and looking for it, and finally with the hairpin on his wife's head when he went out, Wu Jiafang found Shi Huaqiong, who had long been out of breath.
Carefully wiping the bloodstains and the dirtiness on her face, Wu Jiafang had only one thought in her heart at this time, I wanted to take her home.
Tied with a rope around his waist, behind his wife who had long been lifeless, in order to prevent his wife from falling, Wu Jiafang wrapped it a few more times, for fear that his wife would have a good time, and it was also this worried look that was captured by the reporter and published in the British "Daily Mail".
Wu Jiafang is on fire, and even with Wu Jiafang's name, there are compliments everywhere, "affectionate man" and "marry Wu Jiafang when you marry"......
The praise everywhere made this ordinary man begin to become extraordinary, and the successive interviews broke through the door, and the reports everywhere made Wu Jiafang a big celebrity in the township and neighborhood.
The label of "love and righteous man" has always been a title that Wu Jiafang can't push off.
In the face of successive interviews, Wu Jiafang seemed a little at a loss, but the interview was continuing, and it was not a wave of people, one after another reporters from the village, and the people in the village said that Wu Jiafang seemed to be very popular.
Among them, Wu Jiafang almost answered the "greasy" question: Why did you carry back your wife who was killed, and how did you love your wife?
With cameras everywhere and several interviews, Wu Jiafang's image of a "righteous man" has also deepened.
For his deceased wife Shi Huaqiong, Wu Jiafang felt that she owed too much, and even in the days after her deceased wife left, Wu Jiafang looked at the grave of her deceased wife several times and found it difficult to come back to her senses.
Until the appearance of a woman, the man who had lost hope in life several times was redeemed for a short time, and with the arrival of the woman, Wu Jiafang's controversy became even greater.
I just want to be an ordinary person
Liu Rurong.
Like other women, Liu Rurong admires this affectionate man Wu Jiafang very much, since Wu Jiafang became popular, Wu Jiafang received the envelope sent by the woman and it has been a mountain of accumulation.
But Liu Rurong's appearance saved this lost man, and the two got married in a flash.
It wasn't until later that he accidentally exposed the news that he was married again, and Wu Jiafang was pushed to the forefront of public opinion.
Abuse, denunciation, "love man" to "thin love man", is just a short period of time, Wu Jiafang went from being sought after by everyone to "falling off the altar".
In the same way, the interview broke through Wu Jiafang's door again, but this time there were more different voices.
Some people in the village said that Wu Jiafang was not a "good person", he didn't even support his own father, and some people even said that Wu Jiafang and his ex-wife Shi Huaqiong did not have a good relationship, and the two quarreled for three days.
Doubts everywhere, with the whirlpool of public opinion, completely messed up Wu Jiafang's life.
And the questions of the interview also ranged from how to love his wife in the past, to discuss the relationship between Wu Jiafang and his father, and then to the relationship with his ex-wife.
Even the abuse on the Internet began to affect the lives of Wu Jiafang and Liu Rurong, but the words of abuse everywhere were particularly eye-catching in Liu Rurong's eyes.
Even with his father's problems, Wu Jiafang became "unkind and unjust".
The problem between Wu Jiafang and his father has occurred a long time ago, and it has been a pimple between the two for a long time, but although there is a gap between the two, Wu Jiafang knows that it is his father.
But netizens didn't listen or watch, followed the scolding, chasing and scolding, and the successive interviews did not enter the house, and the "beginning and end" was completed in the judgment voice of netizens.
After a long time, Wu Jiafang learned to "deal with interviews", and in the words of Wu Jiafang's experience accumulated several times, it is "to use your brain to think about problems".
Everyone's incomprehension and everyone's condemnation, Wu Jiafang's life has become "chickens and dogs".
His wife Liu Rurong works in Shenzhen, and Wu Jiafang finds some odd jobs in his hometown in Sichuan, renovating the house and renovating his ex-wife's tombstone, no matter which one needs money, so even though Wu Jiafang is helpless about the outside world's discussions, he also lets him go with the wind.
Work honestly and make money honestly.
However, in July 2010, just this marriage with Liu Rurong ended after more than a year.
Wu Jiafang chose to accept it calmly, and returned the 40,000 yuan that he originally borrowed from Liu Rurong to build a house.
Wu Jiafang became single again, as if he was an ordinary person but not an ordinary person, when it came to Wu Jiafang's name, there was always the widely circulated saying "marry Wu Jiafang if you marry".
Wu Jiafang didn't want to care about this, his life seemed to have been disturbed and he had regained his calm, seemingly calm but not calm.
Wu Jiafang's son is also growing up, Wu Jiafang chose to work in the cement floor, according to Wu Jiafang's words, as long as it doesn't rain, he will work hard and save more money to live.
A shovel of cement, a small car, a curved back, and a sweaty towel around his neck, this is Wu Jiafang's life after experiencing "negative".
Regardless of the outside world's discussions, Wu Jiafang chose to live an ordinary life with hard work.
No matter which one of them is, "Righteous Man" and "Thin Lover" are labels put on Wu Jiafang by the outside world, not what he took the initiative to take, but what the outside world took the initiative to put on.
"Label" makes ordinary Wu Jiafang into the public eye, and all aspects of life are "guided", even if he wants to be an ordinary person, but "label" makes him unusual, and even undergoes too many tests of life.
Now Wu Jiafang is being chased by the "label", and her life has long been a matter of people, so how can she say that it has nothing to do with this "label".
Resources:
[Return visit to the disaster area] Wu Jiafang: Do you know what true love is?—— CCTV
https://news.cctv.com/society/20090423/101948.shtml
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