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It happened on a cold winter night two years ago. I am a 52-year-old rural aunt named Li Fang. I have two daughters, the eldest daughter is married and has children, and the younger daughter is just a freshman. Two years ago, my wife passed away in a car accident, and since then I have lived a very hard life.
That day, I went to the vegetable market as usual to buy some vegetables and cook at home. It was getting late, the wind and snow were flying, and I rushed home with the food. As I walked, I felt a chill, and then I stumbled and fell to the ground. I spilled my food all over the floor, and my knee broke the skin on the ice, and it hurt terribly.
At this time, a middle-aged man ran over to help me up and asked with concern, "Auntie, are you okay?" ”
I wiped away my tears and whispered, "It's okay, I can get up myself." It's just that the snow is too slippery. ”
The man insisted on helping me up and said, "I'll take you to the hospital to treat your wounds so that you don't get infected." My name is Zhang Ming, what's your name?"
"Aunt Li, you are injured and said it's okay, I can't stand it. Come, pick up the dishes, and I'll take you to the hospital. Zhang Ming picked up all my dishes and helped me into his electric car.
We came to the county hospital. The doctor debrided and bandaged me, and Zhang Ming stayed by my side. I was touched by his kindness and asked him where he wanted to go for a hot meal and thanked him.
Zhang Ming smiled and said, "I'm also hungry, it's great for Aunt Li to invite me to dinner." I know there's a nice fish restaurant nearby, so let's go there. ”
So we went to the fish restaurant. After a meal, Zhang Ming and I chatted very speculatively. It turned out that he was also from this county, 9 years older than me, and was a retired teacher. His wife died of illness last year, and I couldn't stand this situation, so I would help.
I was very moved. I am also alone, and it is really providential to meet such a kind person.
After we finished eating, Zhang Ming offered to take me home. When he arrived at my door, he was a little surprised when he saw the dilapidated house I lived in: "Aunt Li, it's not safe for you to live in this kind of house alone, right?"
I smiled wryly: "I'm alone, and there is no one at home, so I can only live in this kind of cheap house." Sometimes it's a little scary to be alone at night. ”
Zhang Ming nodded, took out a pen and paper from his arms and wrote a number to me: "Then take care." If there's anything just call me. ”
I quickly thanked him and watched him leave. That night, I lay in bed tossing and turning, and my mind was full of Zhang Ming's shadow. A kind and considerate person, who else can I count on?
From that day on, I often called Zhang Ming. We will talk about family life, talk about ideals, and talk about our hearts. I feel like Zhang Ming is like my destined soulmate. Three months later, Zhang Ming plucked up the courage to confess to me. He said he was lonely and was looking for a soulmate who would be with him for the rest of his life. When I heard this, tears welled up in my eyes. I have had a hard time, and it is the greatest luck in my life to meet such a person who loves me. So, I agreed to be with him.
Soon, I moved in with Zhang Ming. Zhang Ming's house was very cozy, and I felt like I was coming home. Every morning, I cook a meal, and when Zhang Ming comes back from work, we eat and chat together. Sometimes Zhang Ming would sing and dance to me, and I looked at him, as if I had returned to my youth, and my heart was warm.
At first, Zhang Ming's life and I were very sweet. However, the good times were short-lived. After a month of living together, Zhang Ming's temper became very irritable, and he often yelled loudly for no reason. I tried to be as tolerant as I could, but sometimes he said something that made me sad.
One night, Zhang Ming drank too much. He pushed open the door, pointed his finger at my nose and yelled: "Li Fang, let me tell you, you old woman will pretend, don't pretend to be chaste for me!"
I was startled and asked him aggrievedly: "Zhang Ming, how can you say such a thing? I'm not kind to you, right?"
"Cut, don't be verbose! Hurry up and put me to sleep, don't bother me!" He snatched my pillow and lay down first, pushing me aside.
I ran to the balcony crying, I couldn't stand it. I have always been in love with him, how can he break my heart like this? At this moment, I broke down and decided to leave him forever.
Seeing how painful he was, my heart softened. It's too hard to be alone, and I can't do without him. So I decided to give him another chance.
Later, Zhang Ming went to see a psychiatrist as scheduled. He took his medicine on time every day, and his temper became better and better. I was there for him all the time, loved him as much as I could, and helped him get out of his illness. One day, Zhang Ming said to me: "Sister Fang, thanks to you who have always believed in me and supported me, I can face the difficulties in life." I can't lose you, I'm brave with you. ”
I shook his hand and replied, "If you are not a sage, who can be without fault?" I will forgive you if you correct your mistakes, so that we can walk through this life hand in hand, right?"
A happy life does not mean that there will be no difficulties and troubles. Although Zhang Ming's depression is relatively well treated, it still occasionally flares up. At this time, he will be emotionally unstable, and his words and actions will be more extreme. I did my best to take care of him, but I still couldn't avoid being hurt by him.
Once, during his illness, he yelled at me so loudly that the neighbors could hear him. I coaxed him back to sleep, and he kicked me open and slammed the door shut. I cowered in a corner and cried all night, I couldn't stand it.
As a result, Zhang Minghuo came to my rental room in a hurry, knelt down in front of me and begged bitterly: "Sister Fang, I really know that I am wrong! Please believe me this time, I will definitely be cured!"
I looked at his painful appearance, but my heart still relented. I think I'm getting old, and it's so lonely to be without him. So I decided to go back to live with him.
After I went back, I started learning about depression online Xi. I learned how to soothe Zhang Ming when he was in a bad mood and accompany him at all times. Gradually, with my help, Zhang Ming's condition was brought under control.
A year later, we moved to a quiet neighborhood. The environment here is beautiful, and Zhang Ming's physical and mental state is much better. One day we were sitting on a garden bench chatting, and Zhang Ming suddenly knelt down and said to me, "Sister Fang, I can't lose you." These days with you are the best time of my life. Marry me, and let me repay you for the rest of my life!"
I burst into tears of emotion. I nodded and made a lifelong engagement with Zhang Ming. After marriage, Zhang Ming loved me even more. He would surprise me on my birthday and give me a massage when I was tired. I also did my best to take care of his body.
Now that we are old together, our children will laugh and call us "grandma" and "grandpa". I am grateful to Zhang Ming for not giving up on me, and I am also grateful to God for letting me meet him. I know that if I have lost, I will know how to cherish it more. Being with my loved ones is the greatest happiness of my life.
Time flies, and in the blink of an eye, we have been married for ten years. The past ten years have not been smooth sailing, and there have been many ups and downs. Zhang Ming occasionally suffers from long-term malaise, and stays silent at home all day long. I tried my best to comfort him, but he still couldn't get out of the wall he had built.
For a while, Zhang Ming's condition was very bad. He locked himself in the house all day and didn't go out for a week. Every day I knocked on his door to ask him to come out to eat, but he was always silent. My heart was full of worries, and I even felt that our marriage had come to an end.
Finally, one day, when I begged Zhang Ming to come out to eat again, he angrily opened the door. His expression was withered, and he stared at me with red and swollen eyes, and yelled, "Li Fang, stay away from me! With that, he slammed the door slammed on.
At this moment I broke down and tears welled up in my eyes. I packed my bags with self-defeat, and I couldn't stand the torture anymore. Just as I turned to leave, Zhang Ming stumbled up to me and hugged my legs.
"Sister Fang, don't leave me alone! Please believe me again! We are already old together, how can you leave me like this!" He wept bitterly and refused to let go.
I looked at his withered face and tearful face, and my heart softened and forgave him. I know that I am old and I can't live without this companion. We've spent most of our lives together, and I can't leave him so ruthlessly.
Since then, Zhang Ming's situation has finally improved. He went out for a walk again and talked to me about family matters. He also gradually realized how important I was to him, so he rarely lost his temper for no reason. He began to learn to be considerate of me and take care of my body, and I saw it warm in my eyes.
Now we are in this happy home, waiting for our children and grandchildren to come to pay New Year's greetings. I believe that after so many ups and downs, our relationship will be stronger, and our old age will be more warm and happy. In this life, I will not give up easily, and I will walk through the haze of depression with him hand in hand and welcome the glory of life.
Zhang Ming and I walked hand in hand through the haze of depression and ushered in a happy old age.
Seeing that our hair was gray, we decided to retire and bought a small courtyard in a small village in the countryside. The environment here is quiet, and Zhang Ming likes it too. He began to grow his own vegetables and chickens, and was responsible for some of the rough work at home. I plant some flowers and plants in the yard and take care of the housework. The children come to visit us occasionally, and they bring their children with them. The family is very happy, and I feel extremely happy and satisfied.
However, the good times did not last long, just half a year ago, Zhang Ming was diagnosed with advanced lung cancer. The news hit us hard, I had insomnia all night long, and Zhang Ming fell into depression again. We are at a loss for cancer, and our children are too busy with work to take care of them for a long time.
In this way, Zhang Ming's condition deteriorated. He was so thin that he was reduced to a handful of bones, and he was huddled in bed all day without eating or drinking. My heart was like a knife, and I saw his life go by day by day, but I couldn't do anything about it.
I burst into tears: "What are you talking about! We still have so many good days to live!"
He closed his eyes, and I hugged him in pain and cried. When we were growing old together, he left me. My partner, the one I relied on for the rest of my life, left me forever.
Zhang Ming's funeral was simple. The only people who saw him off on his last trip were me and a few grandchildren. I looked at his spirit card, tears blurring my vision. Suddenly, I felt as if I saw him waving at me, his expression as warm as it had been then.
From that day on, I decided to live and fulfill Zhang Ming's last wish. I live well alone, and often go to the village to help the poor elderly. In my free time, I sit in the courtyard and chat with my grandson, and my children are very diligent when they come to see me.
Life is like the mountains and the sea. There are layers of mountains, and there are also magnificent waves. Zhang Ming and I have crossed this long road of life hand in hand, although we cannot die forever, but I have each other, I am grateful. I believe that Zhang Ming will be glad to be watching me from the other side of the Heavenly Spirit.
Time flies, and in a blink of an eye, I am 80 years old. I live alone in this small courtyard in a mountain village, and I have a very comfortable life.
Every day I get up early and go to the yard to water the flowers and dry the quilt. Then I held a martial arts novel and read it slowly on the bench for a morning. At noon, the enthusiastic aunts and aunts in the village brought me all kinds of meals, all home-cooked with the best ingredients. I listened to the birds and flowers in the mountain village, and I felt happy while slowly eating the delicious food.
After lunch, I took a nap, and in the afternoon I went to the activity center at the entrance of the village to teach the elderly to sing and dance. Although I am old, I will always be young at heart. So I especially enjoyed singing and dancing with them, and that was when I was happiest.
At dusk, I pushed the cart to the entrance of the village and waited for my daughter Li Nan to pick me up from work. Li Nan married in the city and took the time to come back to see me once a week. She is very filial, and all my daily life is clearly arranged.
On this day, Li Nan drove to pick me up as usual. When I got in the car, I happily chatted with her about the interesting things that had happened in the past few days. While talking, Li Nan suddenly changed his words and said to me mysteriously: "Mom, I have a surprise for you!"
I was curious to ask what the surprise was. Li Nan smiled mysteriously and said, "Mom, guess what, what kind of surprise can make you so happy?"
I guessed, I guessed, I couldn't guess. Seeing that I was anxious, Li Nan couldn't hold it back, and told me with a smile: "Mom, you are finally going to be a great-grandmother! Nan Nan is two months pregnant!"