In this complex society, the interaction between people is like an invisible game.
We often meet all kinds of people in our lives, some are reserved and low-key, and some like to show off.
Some people say that the level of a person can be glimpsed from his words and deeds.
The lower the level, the more people tend to like to show off the following five things.
If you have such a person around you, it's best not to have a deep friendship.
1. Show off your wealth
As the saying goes, "Wealth is not exposed." ”
However, there are always some people in life who like to show off their wealth, whether it is a luxury car or a luxury house, or a luxury watch and jewelry, they always can't wait to show it to others.
In their opinion, the amount of wealth is an important criterion to measure a person's success, so they always try their best to show their financial strength in front of others.
However, people who are really hierarchical often understand the truth of "making a fortune out of silence".
They understand that wealth is not for showing off, but for realizing the value of their lives and pursuing a higher level of life.
Therefore, they do not deliberately show their wealth in front of others, but pay more attention to inner cultivation and quality improvement.
2. Show off your connections
In this humane society, the importance of human connections is self-evident.
However, some people regard connections as a bragging rights, and always like to brag about how many powerful people they know in front of others, as if they have an extraordinary relationship with these people.
In fact, people who are truly hierarchical often pay more attention to the improvement of their own abilities and the embodiment of their value.
They understand that connections are important, but it's more important that they have the ability and value to match them.
Otherwise, no matter how powerful people you know, it's just a vain appearance.
3. Show off your accomplishments
Everyone has their own achievements and pride, and that's understandable.
However, some people like to show off their achievements as if they are the best people in the world.
They always like to exaggerate their abilities and achievements in front of others to satisfy their vanity.
However, people who are really hierarchical often know better the truth of "full of losses and humble benefits".
They understand that accomplishments are not meant to be bragged about, but to motivate them to keep moving forward.
As a result, they do not exaggerate their abilities and accomplishments, but rather focus more on maintaining a humble and low-key attitude.
Fourth, show off your knowledge
With the advent of the information age, people's knowledge is becoming more and more extensive.
However, some people regard their knowledge as a capital to show off, and always like to sell their knowledge and insight in front of others.
It's as if you know everything and can do anything.
However, "knowing is knowing, not knowing is not knowing", and people with real levels will not deliberately show off how broad their knowledge is.
On the contrary, they know how to keep a humble heart to learn Xi and explore the unknown world.
They understand that knowledge is not used to show off, but to enrich their inner world and improve their own literacy.
Therefore, they do not overly flaunt their knowledge and insights, but focus more on sharing and exchanging experiences with others to promote each other's growth and progress.
5. Show off your suffering
"Only by suffering can you become a superior person", the experience of suffering can indeed exercise a person's will and quality, making it stronger and more mature.
However, some people regard the experience of suffering as a bragging capital, and always like to tell others how much they have suffered and how many sins they have suffered, as if they are the most unfortunate person in the world.
In this way, they hope to win the sympathy and attention of others in order to satisfy their own vanity.
However, people who are truly hierarchical do not deliberately flaunt their suffering experiences.
On the contrary, they know how to keep a normal heart to look at the ups and downs of life.
They understand that suffering is not for showing off, but for sharpening one's will and improving one's own qualities.
As a result, they do not exaggerate their own experiences of suffering, but rather focus on learning from them in order to better face the challenges and opportunities of life in the future.
In short, "the full pot does not ring at all, and the half pot rings the jingle bell", the lower the level, the more people tend to like to show off the above five things.
If you have such a person around you, it's best not to have a deep friendship.
Because after spending a long time with them, you will find that they do not bring you any positive influence other than satisfying your own vanity.
On the contrary, people who are truly hierarchical often know how to keep a low profile and be introverted, and pay more attention to inner cultivation and quality improvement.
With them, you will feel like a spring breeze and benefit a lot.
Therefore, we should make more friends who have levels, connotations, and cultivation, so that we can constantly improve ourselves and become a better person.
At the same time, we also have to remind ourselves all the time not to be the one who likes to show off.
For ostentation does not bring us any substantial benefit other than satisfying a momentary vanity.
On the contrary, too much ostentation can also make us lose our modesty and prudence, and become complacent and unscrupulous, which will lead to resentment and rejection by others.
Therefore, we should always maintain a humble heart, continue to learn and Xi and progress, and strive to improve our level and realm, so as to become a more excellent and connotative person.
In this way, we can gain a foothold in this complex society and achieve better development and achievement.