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My name is Liu Hua, a retired old man who is too ordinary to be ordinary. My life was in order until that phone call disrupted all the rhythms.
That day, I was sitting on an old sofa flipping through the newspaper, and the osmanthus flowers in the yard exuded a faint fragrance. The phone rang suddenly, it was my son Xiaogang. He said, "Dad, you're going to be a grandfather, and your daughter-in-law is pregnant." "I should be happy, but the first thought in my mind is that this little couple is busy with work, and after the birth of the child, they will inevitably ask me to help take it.
Time is like falling sand, and in the blink of an eye, my little grandson is croaking to the ground, and I am half a nanny as expected. In addition to buying vegetables and cooking every day, he is coaxing his grandson, tired and happy. But the happiness didn't last long, and my body began to complain about the sudden exertion, and I was diagnosed with a serious lumbar spine disease and needed to be hospitalized.
During my hospitalization, I looked forward to a visit from my son and daughter-in-law, but they always prevaricated on the grounds that they were busy with work. In my hospital bed, I began to feel more lonely and disappointed than I had ever felt before.
At this time, my nephew Xiaohua suddenly appeared at the door of the ward, he was the only child of my sister who died young, a cheerful and successful young man. Since my sister died, I have been taking care of him from time to time, and our relationship is much closer than that of ordinary uncles and nephews. After Xiaohua learned the news of my hospitalization, he often came to visit me, and even helped me deal with some hospitalization procedures and daily life chores.
As the days passed, I gradually recovered, and at the same time, the contradictions and dissatisfaction in my heart also accumulated. I began to think that my own son was indifferent to me, while my nephew Xiaohua worked tirelessly to take care of me. In a family ethics like China, the fact that my son, who is supposed to be filial, does not fulfill his responsibilities and outsiders show family-like care, shakes my perception of family.
Uncle Wang, an old neighbor in the community, has been my friend for many years. When he heard that I was hospitalized, he often came to visit me, chatted with me, and brought me some home-grown vegetables. One day, I confided in him about my disappointment with my son and daughter-in-law, and my gratitude to Xiaohua. Uncle Wang was silent for a while after hearing this, he put his hand on my shoulder and said slowly: "Liu Hua, children have their own lives, maybe you should think about it for yourself." ”
Uncle Wang's words were like a key that opened the lock in my heart. Yes, why should I dwell on my son's unfilial piety and ignore those who really care about me? I began to re-examine my life and think about how to make the rest of my life more valuable and meaningful.
The beginning of the story is like this, an ordinary old man, facing the imbalance of family relationships, begins to re-examine his life value and recognition of family affection. My story continues, and I, too, slowly find my place in this story.
Since then, my mindset has quietly changed. I no longer just waited for my son and daughter-in-law to care, but began to communicate more with Xiaohua and friends in the community. Xiaohua's concern warmed me, he not only took care of my daily life, but also often took me out for a walk, which made me feel the joy of life again.
However, the good times did not last long, and my condition deteriorated again and required a large amount of money for surgery. Faced with this sudden blow, I had to ask my son Xiaogang for help. I dialed the phone, and my heart was full of apprehension. On the other end of the phone, Xiao Gang's voice sounded extremely tired, "Dad, I'm really busy right now, and the project at hand is under tremendous pressure." I know about your condition, and when I'm done with this, I'll arrange time to see you as soon as possible. ”
When I hung up, I had mixed feelings. I knew that as a father, I shouldn't have to ask and complain too much about my son, but I was deeply disappointed that he couldn't be there for me when I needed help the most.
When Xiaohua learned about this situation, she resolutely took out her savings and raised money to help me solve the problem of surgery costs. Looking at his busy figure for me, my heart was filled with gratitude and guilt. He is the son of my sister and should not have taken on the responsibility of taking care of me, but he is more filial than his own son.
The surgery was successful and I am slowly recovering in the hospital. During that time, I had a lot of time to think. I began to think about the gains and losses of my life, my family, my job, and my dreams. I realized that despite my age, I still have the ability to change my life, and I can't give up on the pursuit of a better life because of my old age.
After I recovered, I went back home, but I didn't sit at home all day waiting for my son's phone call or helping to take care of my grandson like I used to. I started participating in senior activities in the community, learning Xi painting and calligraphy, and even joined a choir for the elderly. I've found that there's no lack of fun in life, it's just that I've neglected to look for them before.
Xiaohua still comes to see me often, and every time he sees me, he will show a relieved smile. He said, "Uncle, I am so glad that you seem to be in good spirits." "I am also grateful to him, it is he who made me realize that family affection is not just as simple as blood, it is also a kind of giving and caring without asking for anything in return.
As time went by, my relationship with Xiaohua became closer and closer. We share the bits and pieces of life like friends, and I will give him some life advice from time to time. My mind is getting more and more open, and I start to face life with a more positive attitude.
However, just as I was slowly finding a new joy in life, my health became problematic again. This time, the doctor told me that I needed long-term care and treatment. In the face of this sudden blow, I felt helpless like never before. I know that this is a huge burden for Xiaohua, but I have no choice.
When Xiaohua learned about it, he took a long leave without hesitation and began to take care of me. His company was very satisfied with his performance and even offered to provide me with medical support. I was both surprised and touched by this unexpected help. I know that this is the respect and help that I have won from Xiaohua.
Under Xiaohua's careful care, my condition was brought under control. But I was well aware that I could no longer rely on him like that. I began to think about how I could lighten his burden and make my later life more independent and dignified.
After much deliberation, I decided to invest some of my savings in some senior services, such as hiring a carer and regular check-up services. I don't want to burden Xiaohua too much, he also has his own life and future to consider. I told him about my plan, and although Xiaohua was a little reluctant, he understood and supported my decision.
I also decided to be more actively involved in the community, not just to pass the time, but to find a sense of belonging in the community and share the joys and troubles of life with like-minded friends. I joined the Senior Painting and Calligraphy class and started to learn Xi painting and calligraphy, and I found that I had a strong interest in these art forms, which not only enriched my life, but also made my mind more peaceful.
At the same time, I also started to pay more attention to my health. In addition to regular check-ups, I also started to stick to daily walks and simple exercises, and my physical condition has improved significantly. Watching myself get better day by day, my heart is filled with satisfaction and happiness.
However, just as I was gradually adjusting to and enjoying this new life, Xiao Gang suddenly visited. He looked haggard, and the stress of work made him look much older. He told me that his company had been having some difficulties recently and needed a sum of money to turn around. I looked at him with mixed emotions in my heart. This is my only son, and I naturally hope that he will be well, but his cold and neglect of me before makes it difficult for me to fully open my heart.
After some struggle, I decided to help him. But this time, instead of giving him money directly, I worked with him to discuss a solution, and I told him that in order to solve the problem in the long run, it was necessary to find the root cause and change it. Xiao Gang was silent for a long time after hearing this, and finally nodded in agreement. I knew it could be a turning point for him, and he finally began to realize that in the face of difficulties, running away was not the solution to the problem.
In the days that followed, Xiao Gang worked hard to adjust his business strategy, and his company's situation gradually improved. It is a source of relief to see my son able to face problems on his own and work hard to solve them. Perhaps, this is the best help I can give him as a father.
At the same time, my life went on. I organized events with my friends in the community, participated in theatrical performances, and even organized a community tour. I've found that there's a lot of fun in life, as long as you're willing to discover and experiment.
My relationship with Xiaohua is getting better and better, and we are not just uncles and nephews, but also good friends. He came to visit me often, we chatted, we went out for walks together, and sometimes we went on trips together. I am very grateful to Xiaohua for the support and encouragement he gave me during the difficult times in my life, and it was he who allowed me to rediscover my enthusiasm and joy in life.
And just like that, my life passed slowly in peace. Although there are occasional small bumps, overall I feel very satisfied and happy. I know that no matter what the future holds, I have the ability to face it because I have learned how to take care of myself, how to enjoy life, and how to cherish those who truly care about me. This is my most valuable takeaway over the years.
As time went on, my relationship with Xiaohua became closer, and he became my best friend, and even my confidant. Our conversations often extend into the night, covering topics ranging from family to life to dreams. Xiaohua's career is also getting smoother and smoother, and I am very pleased with his growth. In him, I saw the vitality and hard work of young people, which made me realize that no matter how old I am, the pace of Xi learning and progress should never stop.
My life has also become more fulfilling. In addition to continuing to participate in the community, I also started to try new things, such as learning to use smartphones and computers Xi. It's not easy for someone my age, but I enjoy the process. I started using social media to reconnect with old friends and even made some new ones. I feel as if I am younger again, and my curiosity and desire to explore the world is stronger than ever.
At the same time, I also pay more attention to the relationship with my son Xiaogang. Although he ignored me before, I knew that conflicts between family members need communication and understanding to be resolved. We started to have more communication, and although it was a little awkward and distant, time was the medicine that healed everything. Gradually, our relationship improved, and although we couldn't go back to the intimacy we had before, at least we were able to be honest with each other and share each other's lives.
One day, Xiao Gang came to my house with a smile on his face that he hadn't seen in a long time. He told me that his company was finally getting through the storm and that everything was going well. He also said that he is starting to re-examine his life and wants to spend more time with his family. Hearing this, I have mixed feelings. As a father, I am proud of his upbringing, and as a man who has been through ups and downs, I am happy that he is about to start a new life.
With Xiaogang's efforts, our family has gradually returned to its former warmth. He and his daughter-in-law would bring their grandchildren to visit me, and we would sit around as a family, chatting, laughing, and having as happy as ever. I know that all this change is not easy to come by, and it requires everyone's effort and change, but I also know that it is worth it.
Life is always changing, but one thing remains constant, and that is the love and support between family members. No matter how the outside world changes, as long as I have the care and companionship of my family, it is enough for me to feel happy and satisfied.
My story may be ordinary, without a vigorous plot, but this is my life, real and warm. Everyone's life is a book, and I hope my book will send a message that no matter how old you are, you should never give up on the possibility of pursuing happiness and change. As long as there is a heart, everyone can live their own wonderful life. This is my biggest impression over the years, and it is what I want to share with everyone.
The years passed quietly, and I was no longer the old man sitting on the old sofa waiting to be cared for. My life has become full and meaningful, and every day is filled with new Xi and experiences. My paintings have been loved by many people at community exhibitions, and my calligraphy has been asked for gifts by several friends. I was so gratified by these small accomplishments that I began to truly enjoy my retirement and feel a sense of accomplishment and pride that I hadn't felt in a long time.
While I have rediscovered my passion for life, my family relationships have improved significantly. Xiao Gang's attitude has changed, and he has begun to take on more family responsibilities and no longer neglect the family as much as before. He also had more respect for my decisions and way of life, and the dialogue between us was more understanding and supportive. I see him growing and becoming a more mature and responsible person, and it gives me a lot of relief.
My grandson is also slowly growing up to be a smart and clever little boy. He loves to run around and is always curious and energetic. Whenever he comes to my house, he always brings infinite laughter and vitality to this old house. I would tell him stories, teach him to draw, and watch him grow day by day, and my heart was filled with happiness.
Xiaohua's life has also undergone new developments. His career became more and more successful and he even had a family of his own. Even though he got busier, he didn't forget to visit me, and our relationship remained close. He often brought his little one to visit me, and that little one was lively and cute, and always brought us endless joy.
In every member of this family, I see a part of myself, whether it is Xiaogang's efforts, Xiaohua's care, or my grandson's innocence. They are the most precious treasure in my life and the motivation for me to keep moving forward.
As time went by, I also began to feel the challenges of old age. Although my health is stable, it is not as good as when I was younger. I started to pay more attention to my health and maintain a healthy lifestyle. I know that only when I am healthy can I continue to enjoy life and spend more quality time with my family.
I also started thinking about inheritance and property. I hope that my savings can be distributed wisely and that I can help those who really need help. After much deliberation, I decided to donate a portion of my wealth to charity to help those in need, while the rest was divided equally between Xiao Gang and Xiao Hua. I believe this is the fairest and most desirable decision.
Life is a long journey, and everyone is a traveler. On this journey, we will experience countless ups and downs, feeling joy, sadness, disappointment, and hope. But as long as we maintain a positive heart and continue to learn and Xi and grow, we can find our own happiness.
Today, I'm sitting by the window with a cup of hot tea in my hand and looking out at the view. I felt calmer and more content than I had ever been. Although my life is ordinary, it is full of love and warmth, and this is the happiness I seek. I believe that no matter what the future holds, as long as I keep this mindset and keep going, my life will be good.
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