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Since I was a child, I have heard the elders say that the eldest sister-in-law is like a mother, and she helps her brother-in-law buy a wedding house. This phrase has been passed down through generations in our family and has become a family tradition. But one day, when I went to help my brother-in-law buy a wedding house, something unexpected happened to me.
I firmly believe that "the eldest sister-in-law is like a mother", so I decided to buy a wedding house for my brother-in-law and his fiancée. I looked at a lot of listings and settled on a new home that was comfortable, spacious and easily accessible. But when I called to tell my brother-in-law, I didn't expect him to say, "I'm sorry, I have a son, so I don't have to admit it halfway." ”
This sentence was like a bolt from the blue, which shocked and hurt my heart. I didn't know how to accept this fact, and my mind was a mess. I went to my brother-in-law's house and knocked on his door with a heavy heart.
"Xiaohua, why are you here?" the little uncle saw me and walked out with a smile.
"I ...... I'll show you the wedding room. I said incoherently.
"Thank you, but I have a son, and I don't need your help to admit it halfway. "My brother-in-law's words made me feel a sharp pain in my chest, and I couldn't figure out why he said that.
"Is it because of my family's bad conditions that you treat me like this?" I said sadly.
"No, Xiaohua, you are my eldest sister-in-law, I am grateful for everything you have done for me. But in fact, I didn't need that wedding house because I already had a house. I just don't know how to tell you. The uncle explained.
After listening to his explanation, my mood gradually calmed down. I was too worried, he was not disgusted with my bad family, but in fact he already had his own life.
"Xiaohua, in fact, I don't need a wedding room, but if you buy it for me, I will always cherish it. The uncle looked at me and said.
After hearing this, I felt a warm heart. Perhaps, I did not buy a house to satisfy tradition, but out of love and care for my family. This wedding room is not simply material wealth, but an expression of family feelings.
"Xiaohua, don't worry, I will cherish this friendship. The uncle took my hand and said.
At this time, I realized that emotional communication is more important than material things for my family. At this moment, I understood the true meaning of "eldest sister-in-law is like mother", which is not only the love for my brother-in-law, but also the emotional expression of the whole family.
So, I laughed with my brother-in-law. He told me that he appreciated my care for him, but that he already had a life of his own, and I understood that in this world, it seemed that love does not have to be expressed materially, but more through care and emotion.
Since that day, I have seen a different uncle, his attitude and demeanor towards me have changed a lot, this change surprised and touched me. This also made me understand that love does not have to be expressed in words, but more often than not, it should be reflected in actions.
Since then, my relationship with my brother-in-law has become more intimate, and we are full of more mutual understanding and respect. After that, we got along with each other more harmoniously, and there was a lot more heart-to-heart communication and emotional communication.
Through this incident, I learned that in the family, what really matters is the communication and understanding of emotions. I believe that in the future, I will pass on this sincere emotion in my own family, so that every family can have a more harmonious and beautiful life. Because this is the most sincere love of elders.
The brother-in-law's wedding is coming soon. The whole family gathered together and laughed. At the wedding, I watched my brother-in-law holding his wife and smiling happily. I felt very happy and satisfied.
"Sister Xiaohua, thank you for the wedding room you prepared for us, we will manage it well. My brother-in-law's wife whispered to me.
"This is what I should do, you two must be happy. I replied with a smile.
"Sister Xiaohua, you are so good to our family, thank you so much. "The brother-in-law's wife had tears in her eyes, and I knew it was a sincere thanks.
After the wedding, I sent my brother-in-law's family away. I stood in the doorway, watching their car leave, and finally let go of a stone in my heart. I suddenly felt that I was no longer a child who needed to be cared for, but an elder who could contribute to my family.
When I got home, I pulled out some photos from my childhood. In the photo, there are scenes of me playing with my brother-in-law, and there are also scenes of me going to school with him. I looked at the photos with a smile on my face. These memories are so beautiful, and I spent a carefree childhood with my brother-in-law.
The stalk in my heart gradually dissolved. Although my brother-in-law has already started a family, I believe that our relationship will be closer and the affection between us will be deeper.
In the future, I will work harder to protect and care for everyone in our family, so that the family is full of warmth and love. I will keep the phrase "the eldest sister-in-law is like a mother" in my heart and become an object of family dependence and trust.
This is not only the love for the little uncle, but also the emotional expression of the whole family. This is my commitment to my family, and it is also an indelible responsibility and mission in my heart.
I believe that the affection of the eldest sister-in-law will always exist, and through my efforts, it will be passed on and inherited. There is a strong force in my heart that I will strive to create a more harmonious and beautiful family, so that every member of the family can feel my love and care.
After all, my family is my most solid fortress, and the affection of my eldest sister-in-law will be the bond that connects our family. This is the most precious treasure of my life, and it is also the most important mission in my life.
I believe that I will become a better elder and a more loving and caring person. That's what I really want to be, and that's what I believe. I will interpret this elder love with my actions forever.
Just after my brother-in-law's wedding, I decided to spend more time with my family and express our affection and love for each other. I invited everyone in the family to go on vacation together and experience a rare family reunion.
We came to a scenic lakeside cottage, away from the hustle and bustle of the city, in the midst of tranquil nature. With fresh air, crystal clear lakes and verdant forests, it's a great place to relax.
"It's so beautiful here! I feel like I've been so close to everyone for a long time. I said happily to my family.
"Yes, Sister Xiaohua, you are too busy, I haven't seen you at home for a long time. My mom complained, but her eyes were full of care.
"The holiday was so nice that we could have a nice time relaxing. My sister said excitedly.
During the holidays, we cook together, go for walks together, and share happy moments together. Everyone has a happy and satisfied smile, and this harmonious atmosphere makes me feel very happy and happy.
"Xiaohua, you are really a good elder, we have felt your care and thoughtfulness. My dad said to me.
"Yes, we are really happy to have such a sensible and caring sister as you at home. My sister added.
Everyone's praise and gratitude to me made me feel extremely warm in my heart. I feel like that's what I'm supposed to do, and as a member of the family, I want everyone to feel cared for and loved.
On the last day of the holiday, we agreed to have a delicious family meal by the lake. My mom and I cooked together, while my dad and sister were busy preparing the dishes and table.
"Mom, these ingredients all look fresh, and this meal is sure to be delicious. I said happily.
"Yes, Xiaohua, I haven't eaten with a family like you for months, and I must enjoy it today. Mom replied with a smile.
When the table was filled with the food I had prepared with my own hands, we sat around and the lake glistened in the afterglow of the setting sun. Raising my glass, I said to everyone with emotion: "Thank you for your care and love for me during this time, the friendship between my family is something I will cherish forever." ”
"Xiaohua, we just want to thank you, you have always been the pride of our family. Dad said solemnly.
"Well, I think this vacation is so rewarding, and we're all looking forward to the next family reunion!" said my sister excitedly.
In the warm atmosphere surrounded by my family, I felt a deep sense of satisfaction and happiness. I believe that I will continue to inherit the emotion of "the eldest sister-in-law is like a mother" and become a person that my family can rely on and trust. No matter when and where, I will use my love and care to create more wonderful times for my family. This is a mission and commitment that will always be present in my heart.
On the last day of the vacation, our family decided to go for a walk by the lake and enjoy the fresh air of nature. The lake is flooded with microwaves and the breeze blows, giving people a relaxing feeling.
"Sister, look at how clear the water of this lake is, it makes people feel happy. I said to my sister.
"Yes, sister, we are really happy. With a caring elder like you, we must cherish the relationship between our families even more. My sister said seriously.
I stopped, looked around, collected the good memories of this moment, and I deeply understood the importance of family. Along the way, we talked about interesting stories from our childhood, which made us laugh. These memories seem to turn back time, back to the quiet days of childhood.
In the evening, we sat around the campfire, singing and laughing. In this warm atmosphere, I have sighed many times: "The moment of family reunion is the happiest moment." ”
"yes, I think so too, thank you for giving us such a wonderful time. Dad said as he clapped his hands briskly to the beat.
"These days are so wonderful, and we can really feel the love and camaraderie between our families. Mom also said with emotion.
In this warm family atmosphere, I felt the love of my family and my own responsibility. I know that this "sister-in-law is like mother" emotion will become a precious treasure in the family, and I will continue to carry forward this love and let it continue.
In the coming days, I will spend more time with my family and make everyone feel my love with my actions. I will only feel truly happy when my family is happy and happy.
As the campfire slowly burned out, we returned to the hut hand in hand, filled with satisfaction and gratitude. Under the starry sky, the laughter and joy of my family spread throughout the lakeside, and I know that this will be our precious memories and the motivation for me to continue to inherit the feelings of "eldest sister-in-law is like mother".
In the coming days, I will continue to strive to become a better elder and create more beautiful memories for my family with sincere feelings and care. That's what I want to be, and that's my commitment to my family. It is my wish and pursuit to let the emotion of "eldest sister-in-law like mother" be passed on in our family and become a common source of happiness for every family member.
When we were on our way home from vacation, I drove and my dad sat in the passenger seat. On the way, he suddenly asked how he felt about the vacation.
"Daughter, have you gained anything from this vacation?" Dad stared at me.
"As a member of a family, I find myself shouldering more responsibilities, and this emotion of "eldest sister-in-law is like a mother" is not only the love for my brother-in-law, but also the emotional expression of the whole family. I will pass on this emotion and strive to become a better elder. I explained seriously.
"Daughter, you're right. I have always believed that you will be a sensible and caring elder, we are all very satisfied with you, and I believe that you value your family so much. Dad said softly.
At that moment, the troubles in my heart had dissipated, and it turned out that what was important was not the approval of others, but the understanding and support of my family. I decided that I would work harder in the future and become an elder who knows how to care and give more.
Back at home, I sorted out some photos from my vacation, and my heart was filled with gratitude and love for my family. These photos are a testimony to our happiness, and I feel very happy to be reunited with my family.
I also proposed a plan to my family, hoping to hold a family gathering once a year to enhance family bonding and form a good interaction.
"Yes, this kind of family gathering is so meaningful, we can get to know each other better and gain genuine affection. Mom also said excitedly.
I was very satisfied to see how supportive everyone was for the project. I decided that I would work harder in the future to become a better elder and create more quality times for my family.
"From now on, I will spend more time with my family and create more beautiful memories for my family with love and care!" I solemnly said to my family.
My family has shown their support, which makes me feel fulfilled and happy. I believe that family gatherings will become our precious memories, and my "eldest sister-in-law is like a mother" will be passed on and become a continuation of our beautiful family relationship. This is my original intention and mission, and it is also my eternal commitment to my family.
In the days that followed, I proved that commitment with practical actions. Every weekend, I go out with my family on an outing or host some simple and intimate gatherings at home to spend quality time with my family.
"Let's go on a picnic in the countryside this weekend!" I enthusiastically proposed.
"Okay, that's a great idea, a rare leisure time. Mom excitedly agreed.
In the woods on the outskirts, our family happily set up their tents and prepared for a pleasant camping time.
"Sister Xiaohua, this event is so interesting, you always bring us so much happiness. My sister said to me with a smile.
"Yes, with such a caring elder as you, we are really happy. Dad also said with emotion.
"Actually, I'm glad that I'm part of a family, and it's an honor to be able to spend a lot of time with all of you. I replied with emotion.
In the laughter and laughter of my family, I understood that although I have a great responsibility as an elder, the companionship and warmth of my family is the biggest reason why I feel happy.
"Great idea! This way we can get together more often and make the family bond deeper. Dad agreed.
"Yes, I think the most important thing for us as a family is to understand each other, and your proposal is very good. Mom was also supportive.
This proposal was unanimously approved by my family, and I was filled with gratification.
Since then, our family has held a family event once a month, which not only strengthened our family relationship, but also strengthened my belief in my responsibility as an elder and made me understand the importance of family harmony.
I feel that through these activities, the relationship between my family has become stronger. I also deeply understand that as an elder, I want to be the pride of my family, and I also want to make them feel happy and satisfied.
The warmth and happiness of my family is my lifelong goal, and I will use my love and care to create more beautiful memories for my family. This is my sincere commitment to my family, and it is also my mission to pass on the feelings of my eldest sister-in-law as a mother.