Upbringing is the moral cultivation that a person shows in dealing with others, it is not a gorgeous dress, nor is it a good appearance.
Upbringing is quiet and considerate
Some netizens shared their stories:
When he was a child, at the gate of his community, there were always some elderly people who were setting up stalls to sell vegetables.
Every time there was no food at home, his father would ask him to take cash and buy it there. My father said that for the elderly who got up early and came out to set up stalls, the money was not much, but it might be enough for them to have a hot meal.
This invisible help may have supported their motivation to live.
I agree with the saying: "True kindness is to do good deeds without raising the banner of kindness, and it is appropriate and does not need to be seen." ”
Upbringing is a warm transmission without a trace. Silently tell you with actions that he is there.
I'm kind to you, but I don't want you to be embarrassed, and you don't have to feel burdened.
In this way, just enough leeway, just right to be quiet.
Upbringing is self-discipline that does not need to be reminded
I've seen a parenting guide, and several of them go like this:
Pick up and deliver things with both hands, go to someone's house, don't sit on the bed, don't shake your hands after washing your hands, the water will be thrown on others, see someone sleeping, your movements become quieter, when everyone is in a long line, don't cut the line, when others enter the password, politely look away, drive past a place with stagnant water, slow down and let pedestrians go first......
The small details of life reflect a person's upbringing.
A truly cultured person, no matter who has been before or after, has a scale in his heart, and always weighs his words and deeds.
There is no need for loud slogans, no need for verbal urging.
Educated people have long internalized self-discipline into a daily Xi, naturally and not deliberately.
Upbringing is to maintain a sense of proportion
Knowing the balance is the most basic upbringing of a person.
The so-called sense of proportion is not to do things that make people embarrassed, embarrassed and disappointed, and the loss of sense of proportion between people is often due to lack of respect.
Self-discipline, prudence, prudence, people who can grasp the sense of proportion and stick to their hearts can run all the way to a better place on the long road of life.
The so-called upbringing is nothing more than to give others comfort and self-comfort.
Upbringing is knowing how to repay the kindness of others
Don't take someone else's good for granted.
Do not remember the things that give to others, but remember the kindness of others.
Maybe the person who reached out to you didn't expect you in return. However, being able to take the initiative to reciprocate kindness is a person's true cultivation.
One writer said, "Upbringing, this thing is like blood vessels." It can grow intricately in the deepest part of a person's flesh and blood, and it is indivisible. ”
For details, see people's upbringing.
It is our inner quality, the proportionality in words and deeds, the tolerance in communication, and the kindness in our hearts.
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Source: Night Reading Club