The true meaning of maternal love: comprehend the introduction from the memories of Wu Xieyu's ex-girlfriend: Mother's love is one of the greatest emotions in the world, however, the words revealed by Wu Xieyu's ex-girlfriend made many parents panic. Let's listen to this story and think about what we thought about our parenting. Text: On a cold winter day, I was sitting in a café with Wu Xieyu's ex-girlfriend, she was silent for a while, and finally spoke: "Wu Xie Yu once commented on his mother, he said that she is a person without a trace of maternal love. ”
This short, harsh sentence seemed to hit me hard in the heart, and I couldn't help but panic. What made Wu Xie Yu so desperate for his mother's love? What made him evaluate his mother so ruthless? Wu Xie Yu's ex-girlfriend began to slowly tell Wu Xie Yu's upbringing. Wu Xie Yu is an ordinary child born in an ordinary family. However, when he was young, his father was away from home for work reasons, and his mother was a very ambitious woman. She was busy with work all day long, and she had little time and energy to take care of Wu Xieyu.
"Wu Xie Yu grew up and almost didn't feel the warmth of his mother's love. A trace of sadness flashed in the eyes of Wu Xieyu's ex-girlfriend, "He often said that when he needed care and comfort, his mother always turned a blind eye, as if his existence was not important to her. "Listening to this, I began to reflect on my own behavior as a parent. Have you ever neglected the real needs of your child's heart because of work, social interaction, or other reasons? Have you ever neglected those seemingly insignificant details, forgetting to give them warmth and love?
Wu Xie Yu's ex-girlfriend continued to tell that Wu Xie Yu gradually became cold and withdrawn in the process of growing up. He loses trust in his family and has doubts about humanity. He felt like an abandoned kid and no one would really care about him. At this time, I couldn't help but think of my own children. Have they ever felt lonely because of my indifference or negligence? Have they ever lost trust in the world because of my busyness? I have come to understand that motherly love is not only material support and care, but more importantly, it gives children a sense of security and warmth. Wu Xie Yu's ex-girlfriend mentioned that Wu Xie Yu eventually embarked on the road of crime. Deep down, he craves attention and love, but can't find the right way to express and pursue it. Crime became his only way of getting attention and satisfying his inner needs. This story reminds me of children who grew up hungry for attention and love but couldn't find an outlet. They may engage in all sorts of challenging behaviors in order to attract attention, or even go to the point of no return. As parents, we should always pay attention to our children's inner needs and give them the right guidance and support. In the memories of Wu Xieyu's ex-girlfriend, I saw my own shadow. I began to reflect on my role as a parent. Is it because of work, social or other reasons, ignoring the real needs of children?Is it because of indifference and negligence that they lose trust in the world?Conclusion: Mother's love is one of the greatest emotions in the world, it can give children a sense of security and warmth. The memories revealed by Wu Xieyu's ex-girlfriend are sobering and make us think about what we are thinking in the process of parenting. As a parent, we should always pay attention to our children's inner needs and give them enough care and love. Only in this way can we truly understand and pass on the true meaning of maternal love, so that every child can feel endless warmth and support on the road of growth.