Whether people want face or not, of course, the answer is yes. But many people live a life of death to save face and suffer sin.
Regardless of gender, once you reach the age of 50, it is very difficult to find a job.
Now most of the workers on the construction site have lost their jobs, even after working on the construction site for decades, they still go to the factory to earn a salary of 2 or 3,000 yuan, and the working hours are still very long.
For this reason, the wages of the factory were not as high as 10 days in the previous month, and the wages on the construction site had to be reduced.
I like the saying that rich people live a day, and those who don't have money live a day too. I will live the same day when others live, and rich people will not live one day longer.
It's just that rich people spend money lavishly, they don't plan for the future, they have money to use, and they live a high-quality life. When you don't have money, you save money to get by.
Of course, having money on the basis of being able to earn money is to earn face.
Can face take care of money?
Face is that there are people who compare what others buy, and they buy it after listening to it, and they live on face for the rest of their lives.
A very simple example: Juanjuan is a good-looking person, her husband has been working on the construction site for more than 20 years, and he has not saved money.
You must know that the construction site has been on the ground for decades, and if Juanjuan does not compare with others, she has saved a lot of money.
Many years ago, the building she lived in was full of young people, and some women did not go to work to cook for their husbands, because their husbands worked hard and their wages were considerable, so women cooked at home, so that their husbands would have food when they came home from work.
However, three women in one play, this can't be faked.
A group of women has a very heavy psychology of comparison and a very strong sense of face.
No matter who buys what, everyone else follows suit, no matter how much money there is.
Juanjuan is even more so, her husband is not working around, and the children are young and need her to take care of them. So she sent her husband back the living expenses, compared them with others, and she didn't say what others bought, and she also participated in gambling.
As a result, the more she lost, the more she gambled, Juanjuan lost a lot of money, and her husband began to borrow money from relatives without sending money.
Juanjuan has no culture and can't get money. In the past, mobile phones couldn't be paid, they were all bank transfers, and she was quite smart.
She borrowed 20,000 yuan from her sister, and the 20,000 yuan 20 years ago could have been used to buy a house, but she lost.
She couldn't withdraw the money and asked me to go to the bank with her, and after I helped her take it out, she was afraid that her husband would burn the passbook after he knew about it and went home, which is a scene I remember deeply.
I don't dare to compare, so face is not important, I can only live an honest life.
Life is very simple, use less money and don't compare with others. Others wear brand clothes, I wear cheap clothes and live a frugal life.
Because my husband earns little money, although I also earn money, the combined salaries of the two of them are not as high as others, so I can only live a frugal life.
Juanjuan is different, her husband has worked on the construction site for many years and is a wealthy person, so for the sake of face, she lives to show others, what others have she will buy.
Gradually, the children are getting older, they are going to buy a house, and they are going to go to college.
At this time, she found out that she began to use the money, and she was in a hurry when she couldn't get the money.
It stands to reason that a family that has worked on the construction site for many years will easily come up with money to buy a house. But Juanjuan only had to borrow money to buy a house, but she still cared about face, never said that she borrowed money to buy a house, and even borrowed for life and daily use.
For the sake of face, everything she buys is high-quality, and the decoration is hardcover.
For this reason, after her son went to college, she no longer lived for the sake of the mortgage and her son's life.
She and her husband went to the construction site to earn money, went to work as a steel bar front desk worker, and worked together with her husband to create a better future, and the two of them worked together on the construction site for 7 or 8 years, and after paying off the account, there was also a deposit.
This deposit is for the son to get married in the future.
Now that Juanjuan is 50 years old, she no longer buys high-end products, but lives a frugal life.
After all, her sons are 26 years old and are going to fall in love and get married, and if she doesn't let go of her sons, life will be difficult.
Her son wants to buy a house in Chongqing, but he can't buy it without a deposit of 1 or 2 million, so after she went to work, she knew that the money on the construction site was not easy, and the wind was blowing.
In fact, a person lives for the sake of face, and it is very tiring.
Because there is comparison, the same woman doesn't want to lose to others.
Why should people live for others to see, it's better to live your own life, it's really easy to live that shameless life!