Ordinary people are warm and small
One morning in May 1975, the morning light in the east sprinkled on the quietly flowing Wusong River. This is an ordinary Shanghai family, Le Jia opened her eyes under her mother's loving gaze, and the cry cut through the silence of the early morning.
Although the parents have a meager income, they have poured all their love and expectations into this new life. Although life is simple, this small home is full of warmth.
Two months later, the family had to leave the bustling city of Shanghai for a small, slightly backward town. The mother gently patted Le Jia's back, the father carried a simple bag, and the family got on the train to Shaanxi.
They are looking forward to this small remote town where they can escape the hustle and bustle of life and live a peaceful life.
However, the reality is brutal. His parents went out to work during the day, so they had little time to take care of Lejia, and they had no time to accompany him to grow up. Without the love of his parents, Le Jia became a bit withdrawn and introverted, and rarely interacted with people.
He was alone in the room looking out the window, watching the other children playing, but there was no joy in his heart.
The study experience was bumpy and bumpy
At the age of 14, Lejia was in his youth, full of infinite longing and expectation for the future. He dreams that he will grow up to be a good actor and be able to unleash his passion on stage.
However, his mother decided another life path for him - to study finance in high school, enter a stable banking system in the future, and avoid the ups and downs of the entertainment industry.
Lejia had to give up his dream and choose a realistic path.
After graduating, Lejia entered a bank as he wished and began a stable but boring job. His parents hoped that he could settle down and work hard for himself. However, Lejia's heart is still full of the pursuit and yearning for freedom.
Two years later, he chose to leave this "iron rice bowl" and devote himself to real estate sales. However, due to the lack of professional knowledge, it is difficult for Lejia to gain a foothold in this industry.
His ambition and drive were not crushed, and he soon devoted himself to a new field - cosmetics sales. With his outstanding eloquence, Lejia finally shined here and achieved success.
The career is popular, and the marriage is deviated
In 1995, at the age of 20, Le Jia confidently chose to become a professional lecturer. He believes that he will shine on the podium and become a great public speaker.
In order to make her speech more eye-catching, Lejia took a drama performance course to learn how to use body language to match Xi speech. Soon, he became a well-known lecturer in the industry and began to enjoy the warmth of the spotlight.
In 2001, Lejia, whose career reached its peak, established the China Character Color Research Center, published best-selling books, and was invited by more and more institutions and enterprises to give lectures.
However, just when his career was soaring, his married life was not satisfactory. The first wife disliked Le Jia's low education and chose to divorce under the pressure of her family; The second wife also failed to grow old with Le Jia.
The successive failed marriages made Le Jia more and more aware that if he wanted to gain a foothold in this world that valued education and money, he had to rely on his career and achievements, which became a heart disease in his heart.
The star road is bumpy, and the heart is uneven
In 2010, Jiangsu Satellite TV fell in love with Le Jia's unique personal style and invited him to become a guest on the emotional program "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb". At first, Le Jia cooperated happily with the host Meng Fei, and had a good relationship with each other.
However, the long-term work contacts have gradually made the differences in the personalities of the two gradually emerge. Le Jia is moody, while Meng Fei is more restrained and steady. Gradually, under the camera, Le Jia began to express his opinions unscrupulously, not only fighting with the guests, but sometimes even guiding the artists, triggering public condemnation.
In 2014, in another show, Le Jia had an argument with the hostess Xie Na and wanted to forcibly hug each other. This move caused another uproar.
However, Lejia himself seems to have no regrets about what he did, he just wants to play on this stage that belongs to him. In fact, the inferiority complex and sensitivity that have always existed in his heart are the root cause behind these behaviors.
The mockery of his first wife many years ago made him desperate to prove himself through the achievements of his career; But the peak of his career did not heal the wounds in his heart, but became an outlet for venting.
He was furious in front of the camera and was also hurting his own image. When he was famous, he finally entered the trough of his life.
Heal in a foreign land
After 2018, Lejia's career has been no longer prosperous, and he can only rely on small commercial performances to make a living. Gradually, the public's eyes also moved away from him. In 2020, Lejia left China and moved to the United States, a foreign country.
The car is expensive and magnificent, the house is luxurious and high-end, and his life is carefree, but his heart is empty and lonely. In this strange country, there are no familiar friends, let alone the glory brought by the career.
In 2022, Lejia's third wife passed away in the United States due to illness. This touched the pain in his heart again. Standing in front of his wife's grave, Lejia stood silent, the wind blowing across his emaciated face and bare head.
At this moment, his heart was full of guilt and unwillingness. He remembered the back of his first wife who had left him years ago; Remembering the second partner he lost at the peak of his career; remembered all kinds of outrageous behaviors in front of the camera...... Life is just an empty space, there is no longer applause and flowers to accompany him, he finally realized loneliness and helplessness.
Now 48 years old, Le Jia lives quietly in the United States alone. He will share his life anecdotes on social networking sites from time to time and pull his daughter to make an article, but in fact, those are just to win attention; In this way, he disguised the emptiness in his heart and found the sense of fulfillment in the past.
There are many crossroads in life, and every choice affects the final outcome.