Destined for extraordinary appearance
In the winter of 1966, a baby girl was born in a simple working family in Hong Kong, and she was Li Ruotong. Li Ruotong in his arms is fair-skinned and delicate, with exquisite facial features, not at all like his parents and older brothers and sisters, and he is clearly the characteristic of a mixed-race child.
"This kid doesn't look like yours. Neighborhood relatives joked. However, for the young Li Ruotong, this sentence was like a slap in the face, which deeply hit her fragile self-esteem.
Growing up in a crowded and noisy home, Li Ruotong often felt out of place. She doubted her background and even hated her unusual appearance. In the lonely dead of night, Li Ruotong wanted to cut the artery in his neck again and again, ending his short 16-year life.
Fate made people, but God made Li Ruotong lost in the sweet hometown of her first love at this time. A beautiful young man hands her a love letter, and her world turns for love.
Li Ruotong gradually understood that her different appearance from ordinary people may be destined that she will not be an ordinary person. Maybe one day, God will send her another unusual life.
Life is full of ups and downs
In 1993, 27-year-old Li Ruotong met the actor Ji Tiansheng during the filming of a martial arts drama. The two fell in love at first sight and fell in love. Ji Tiansheng resembles the prince in Li Ruotong's fantasy, handsome and chic, gentle and elegant.
In getting along day and night, Li Ruotong was infected by his martial arts family background and his dedication to classical poetry. There is a sea of stars in the eyes of lovers, Li Ruotong is intoxicated and willing to sink.
They dated for 4 years, but in the end, they broke up because of the distance.
In 1995, Li Ruotong played the role of Xiaolongnu in the famous drama "The Condor Heroes", establishing her superstar status. When her career was in full swing, she met Guo Yingquan.
Guo Yingquan is mature and steady, and treats her like a princess. For him, Li Ruotong resolutely put down his dazzling achievements in the entertainment industry. However, love, which is as solid as a rock, has also cracked under the wash of time.
After breaking up in 2008, Li Ruotong's father died next to her, and she fell into a low point in her life in her 40s. It wasn't until her sister gave birth to an angel for her that Li Ruotong regained hope - she still has a family, which is the motivation for her to live.
Find the motivation for life
Now 55-year-old Li Ruotong is still single. Over the years, she has tried to love several times, but nothing has been achieved. Boyfriends always want her to change for themselves - as if she is a weak and bullying woman.
Li Ruotong realized that she didn't need to distort her self for anyone. She no longer believes in the so-called sincere delivery of men and women, because she can't predict the heart of the other party.
Once, Li Ruotong resolutely gave up his career for love, paid too much, but in the end he got nothing. She no longer narcissizes how great her giving is, because true love cares about both parties.
After going through so many bumps, she no longer believes in fairy tales, nor does she believe in forever. Li Ruotong held the increasingly thin body in his hand, looking for the meaning of life in the silent night.
Career, pursuit, family...... None of these are the reasons why she persists. When her niece spat out a silver bell-like laugh, Li Ruotong found the answer.
As a result, 55-year-old Li Ruotong no longer ran away and chose to face the thorns of life; She learns to be grateful, and every morning is full of hope; She loves herself and doesn't need others to define what is complete.
When she stood in front of the mirror and looked at herself in the mirror, beautiful and angular-Li Ruotong finally understood that the meaning of life needs to be drawn from the heart.