Since ancient times, everyone has heard the old saying - "men should get married, women should get married", married men and women generally move to the man's house to live, but there is really a situation here that the man moves into the woman's house in turn, this practice is called "inverted door", in fact, it is quite embarrassing.
However, there are five people in history who successfully turned over by "inverting the door", and the last of them is simply awesome and coaxing, becoming the legendary emperor of the ages.
1. Zhu Yuanzhang
Speaking of the most successful counterattack case in history, Boss Zhu has undoubtedly won the honor.
He was originally just a monk who ran the rivers and lakes, but because he was favored by Guo Zixing, the leader of the rebel army, he became his "little son-in-law", and since then he has embarked on the road of the dragon chair.
This opportunity allowed Zhu Yuanzhang to further develop and eventually become the Emperor Hongwu. His third brother and second brother also followed this trend and joined the ranks of door-to-door sons-in-law, but the third brother unfortunately hung up, leaving only the eldest brother and him, and the two had to become door-to-door sons-in-law in order to save their lives.
Later, after Boss Zhu ascended the throne, he helped his dead brother change back to his original surname, and gave his ancestors new names for several generations.
Second, Li Bai
Li Bai, who was called Qinglian Jushi in the Tang Dynasty, was a great poet, and everyone praised his talent. However, when it comes to feelings, he seems to be a bit hollow.
He was 27 years old that year, and he had a serious illness, and he had no money to pay. At this time, he happened to meet Meng Shaofu, a good man who not only treated him but also helped organize the wedding.
So, Li Bai found his first wife, she was the granddaughter of Prime Minister Xu Yushi, and the two hit it off, and Li Bai married into the Xu family.
From that day on, Li Bai's life changed, he soared and lived a good life. Xu gave birth to a son and a daughter for him, but unfortunately the love between husband and wife ended within ten years, Xu fell ill and died, and Li Bai had to leave the family.
He met his second wife, a Shaoxing girl named Liu, who disliked Li Bai for only talking, drinking and writing poems, and didn't know how to make money to support his family, so the two broke up quickly.
The heartbroken Li Bai later threw himself into the arms of his third wife, but unfortunately this woman has no record in history, and they only lived happily for a while before they dispersed. Later, Li Bai went to the capital and met his fourth wife, the Zong family, who, like the Xu family, came from the Wang clan and specialized in a family that specialized in officials.
The Zong clan treated Li Bai well, but they couldn't be happy for long, because at this time there was the Anshi Rebellion, and Li Bai was imprisoned as a traitor. Later, the one who saved Li Bai was Guo Ziyi, the famous general who defeated An Lushan, and Su Zong released him.
Although Li Bai was exempted from the death penalty, he was also guilty of living, and was finally demoted to Yelang.
At this time, his children and wife were in Shandong and Jiangxi, respectively. In 762 AD, when the "Anshi Rebellion" came to an end, some people said that they saw Li Bai drunk and died, when Li Bai was 63 years old.
III. Shao-hsien
It is said that there was a cattle man named Wei Gao in the Tang Dynasty, and some people actually said that he was Zhuge Liang reborn, and he would definitely be the generalissimo of Shu in the future.
There is a monk who exaggerated that he was too handsome to say that he was too handsome and had lofty ambitions.
After he was admitted to the municipal civil service, he began to wander around, and happened to meet the Zhang family recruiting a son-in-law, and the Zhang family's wife Miao took a fancy to him at a glance.
That's it, Wei Gao simply went to the Zhang family.
It's a pity that he is restless, and he only indulges in the sweet life with the daughter of the old Zhang family every day, and he doesn't care about work at all. Zhang Yansheng saw through all this, regretted and annoyed in his heart, and couldn't help but squeeze him often, and the people in the family also disgusted him.
Only his wife supported him, but later he couldn't persuade him to leave the Zhang family.
Wei Gao left the Zhang family, and it didn't take long for him to be promoted and raised because of his talents.
In 783, the "Jingyuan Mutiny" broke out in Chang'an, and the emperor ran away, and it was at this time that Wei Gao saved the emperor in exile. When the rebellion calmed down, he was even promoted and became the "General of Zuojin Wuwei", and took over the position of his father-in-law Zhang Yansheng and became the new "Jiannan Xichuan Jiedu Envoy".
When Zhang Yansheng saw this situation, he was so ashamed that he was ashamed of himself and secretly left overnight.
After Wei Gao returned, he executed all the slaves and maids who had offended him and threw their bodies into the Shu River.
Others ridiculed those who looked down on him: "How can there be so many geniuses in this world, it's just that Wei Gao happened to be lucky!"
Fourth, Zuo Zongtang
When Zuo Zongtang was young, the whole family had a miserable life, his parents and eldest brother left, and his three sisters all got married.
Alone, he and his brother Zuo Zongzhi are left. At this moment, his father Zuo Guanlan had already made a marriage contract with someone else, and the woman was Zhou Yiduan, the woman of the Zhou family.
However, it is a pity that the Zhou family thinks his family is poor and refuses to marry. After difficult discussions between the two parties, Zuo Zongzhi finally agreed to let Zuo Zongtang temporarily live in his future father-in-law's house, and wait for the two to save enough money before getting married.
Fortunately, Zuo Zongtang met such an understanding and kind-hearted mother-in-law, she vacated all the rooms in the West House for Zuo Zongtang to live in, and prepared a large dowry for his family. Zuo Zongtang has turned over since then, his work is booming, and his spirit is also vigorous.
His wife, Zhou Yiduan, is his strong backing. They supported each other and worked together to live a happy life.
It is precisely because of his dedication to his father-in-law's big family that he has won the respect of countless people, and he has increasingly become an important minister in the late Qing Dynasty. Although he was in the traditional marriage period of the Qing Dynasty, he was still able to live a very happy life and was praised as "the best couple in the Qing Dynasty".
Fifth, the end of the face of the letter
In fact, the predecessor of Wanyan Hanpu (the first emperor of the Jin Dynasty) was the old iron of the Huawei Department. At that time, Goryeo was established and went north to build a territory, so they could only move to the Jurchen Wanyan Department to live a mixed life.
At this time, Hanpu, who was in his 60s, and some outsiders were often used as godfathers of reconciliation.
When he was done, the Jurchens would reward him with a cow and a woman of the same age, and as a result, he actually married the woman home and became a true Wanyan clansman.
Since then, the war has gradually decreased, and the Wanyan people have created a glorious dynasty in northern China for hundreds of years, and this family is still quite competitive, and the Liao State and the Northern Song Dynasty have also been crushed in one go, and the whole process has to start with Hanpu, the temporary father-in-law.
Therefore, there is no shame in the son-in-law, and there are many outstanding people in history who came in this way, including poets, prime ministers and even emperors.
For those of us who are ordinary people, "getting rich" is just a common way to get married. But for the poor brothers who want to turn over in one fell swoop, the key is to rely on their own hard work!