Did Dehua suddenly get old? Of course not, but An Jie suddenly wanted to find a mother-in-law for Dehua.
I wasn't in a hurry for more than ten years before, but when Dehua was chasing Lao Ding, An Jie began to be anxious, and he felt that Dehua's wishful thinking was not good.
Is An Jie really thinking about Dehua, or is it because the children have grown up, and the family doesn't need Dehua to vacate the land?
Dehua's contribution to the Jiang family
An Jie's five children were all raised by Dehua, and this belt did not mean just keeping a while while An Jie was at work, but completely taking over the whole thing.
An Jie's mother was relieved to be the shopkeeper.
Dehua not only needs to take care of the children, but also has to take care of his brother and sister-in-law's food and drink.
When Dehua first got married, the Jiang family experienced a period of chaos.
The girl got married, and even if she was close, she couldn't go back to her brother-in-law's house to cook every meal, so An Jie could only eat in the canteen pitifully after getting off work every time, and Lao Ding's family was getting better and better.
An Jie's good life is all earned by Dehua's hard work, otherwise it would be An Jie who is tired and tired of taking care of the children every day.
Do you want to know what would happen to An Jie without Dehua? Just look at the original book.
Dehua's such a beautiful role was actually added by the screenwriter later, although Liu Jing said that it was about the love of her parents, but in reality she didn't have such a good aunt at all.
No matter from what point of view, An Jie should not have an opinion on Dehua, people have paid more to this family than she is the hostess, and no one can adjust the sister-in-law to do this.
On the contrary, An Jie, the sister-in-law, doesn't seem to be doing her best.
Dehua has not been able to marry until he is in his forties, and the best age of a woman has been delayed.
Dehua 43 It's time to get married
Since Lao Ding came to the island, Dehua has taken over almost all the work of his family.
After An Jie saw that Dehua was interested in Lao Ding, he also tried to communicate with Lao Ding, after all, the two families were already close, and if they could kiss each other, it would be a beautiful thing.
As a result, Lao Ding only said that he didn't think about it now, how smart An Jie was, and naturally heard Lao Ding's unfinished voice.
People just don't mean anything to Dehua and don't look down on her.
An Jie saw that Lao Ding's hope was slim, so he thought about arranging a blind date for Dehua to try.
In An Jie's opinion, when Dehua reaches this age, there is not much room for choice.
But before Dehua could contact these blind dates, Jiang Defu was unhappy at first, disgusted that these people had a low status and were not worthy of his sister, and he wanted to find someone to eat commercial food.
An Jie saw that Jiang Defu still couldn't recognize the situation, so he reminded him that Dehua was 43 years old this year and it was time to get married.
Why did the Jiang family drag Dehua until she was 43 years old before she began to consider finding her in-laws, it should be better to find her when she was young, is it really like what others guessed.
Jiang Defu and An Jie are selfish, and they want Dehua to be a free nanny for their family, and they will kick them out when they bring up children.
Jiang Defu took his sister over in order to find her another good in-law, so it was impossible for him to delay his sister's life for his own housework.
This is my own sister, and she is each other's only relative, and no one can delay her.
If you say that An Jie, who had a bad relationship with Dehua in the early stage, it is estimated that he may have this thought, but it can also be seen later that the relationship between Dehua and An Jie is really good.
An Jie almost regarded Dehua as a daughter, and the wedding that Dehua himself didn't care about made An Jie have the momentum of a marriage.
Dehua is a "widow"
Although we all know that Dehua and her first husband are not husband and wife, she still has to widow the man whose "whereabouts are unknown".
This is also the reason why Jiang Defu has to bring his sister out.
If she hadn't brought Dehua out, she might have to spend her life in that nominal in-law's house.
Dehua and his brother are estimated to be a few years old, and they both separated shortly after they got married.
A few days after marrying Dehua, he followed his eldest brother to serve as a soldier, and Jiang Defu returned to his hometown in fine clothes, but he ended up with a "whereabouts unknown".
Jiang Defu felt guilty about his sister because of this, after all, he brought it out by himself, and he naturally felt uncomfortable if he didn't bring it back.
The words "whereabouts unknown" are the most infuriating, and the Dehua man did not die on the battlefield, but disappeared.
If she really died, Dehua could evaluate the families of the martyrs, and at that time, the state took special care of these martyrs, so that she should be widowed and widowed, and she should marry someone without delaying anything.
If you become a deserter, you don't know when you might run back by yourself.
If her husband is not dead, Dehua can't remarry, otherwise she will poke her backbone if it is spread.
Not to mention that outsiders will say it, even Jiang Defu's brother will not agree.
Do you still remember Jiang Defu's ex-wife, Zhang Guilan? Didn't she just be with others when her husband went out to serve in the army?
Jiang Defu's way of dealing with this matter is his silent divorce, but this does not mean that Jiang Defu is indifferent to Zhang Guilan's betrayal.
Jiang Defu has a "hate" for Zhang Guilan, so after marrying An Jie, Zhang Guilan became a forbidden word in their family.
He has been betrayed, so it is impossible for him to let his sister take the initiative to marry early.
You have to wait a few years, and if he comes back during this period, everyone will naturally be happy, and if he doesn't come back, this will be regarded as a widow for his man.
So it wasn't until he was forty years old that Dehua began to think about finding a husband for himself.
At first, I couldn't, but then I didn't want to
Because Jiang Defu married An Jie, he saw a lot of new things.
Later, Jiang Defu, who never paid attention to food and clothing, also had his own pursuit of life.
Dehua is the same, and his brother and sister-in-law have been in the big city, although they have not completely changed their rural Xi, but their horizons have broadened a lot.
In the past, if she was asked to marry a rural man who couldn't read big words, she wouldn't have any opinions, after all, rural people aren't all like this, there is nothing to find fault with.
However, now Dehua also wants to find someone who suits him, at least with some knowledge.
Fortunately, Dehua finally met Lao Ding, such a good aunt was reluctant to let her have a bad time.
After Lao Ding's death, Dehua, who had no guarantee of life, still had his brother and sister-in-law and the children raised since childhood, which was her confidence to spend her old age in peace.