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A beautiful little girl, because of an accident her legs lost vitality, her body was trapped by invisible chains, she can no longer run and jump, and can only rely on crawling for daily movement.
Despite her physical disability, she is still full of hope for life, her beautiful appearance and sunny attitude have gained hundreds of thousands of fans, and she is affectionately called "Crawling Mother" by netizens, let's learn about her story together.
The high fever robbed her of her ability to walk
Dong Mingying, a girl from an ordinary rural family in Rizhao City, Shandong Province, originally had a happy family and a hopeful future, but when she was one and a half years old, a sudden high fever completely changed the trajectory of her life.
It was a quiet night, after the tense farm work, Dong Mingying's parents were about to rest, suddenly heard a cry, they hurriedly rushed to Dong Mingying's bedside, found that she had a high fever, her face was red, tears moistened her cheeks, her parents panicked, quickly picked her up, hurriedly rushed to the village health center, the doctor prescribed some fever medicine for her, her parents took her home to rest.
Two days later, Dong Mingying's high fever subsided, but left a strange sequelae - her waist was weak and her body leaned forward, at first her family didn't care, thinking that she was a weak manifestation after just recovering from her illness, and she didn't care too much about her young age.
But as time went on, while children of the same age learned to walk, Dong Mingying could still only crawl, and her parents were heartbroken and anxious about it, and they sought medical attention everywhere in the hope of solving her strange symptoms.
The doctors were also puzzled by her sequelae, the village doctors thought that it was muscle atrophy caused by high fever and could not give a definitive diagnosis, and the parents were anxious, so they took Dong Mingying to the hospital in the town and the city, and consulted various experts.
After a series of examinations and consultations, the doctor gave her parents a shocking and sad answer - the high fever burned out her brain as it spread, causing neurological dysfunction in the lower half of her body, and she may never regain the ability to walk.
This bad news is like a bolt from the blue, Dong Mingying's mother once fainted in the corridor of the hospital, she can't accept the tragic fate of her child, she is still so young, there is still a long way to go in her life, the more her mother thinks about it, the more sad she becomes, tears with endless pain soaked into her heart, and Dong Mingying's father fell into silence, holding helplessness and despair.
But the strong Dong Mingying worked tirelessly, she was determined to get out of her predicament, despite the weakness of her waist, she still supported her body with her hands and feet, tenaciously learned to crawl Xi, and the whole room was filled with her strong crying and panting voice, tearing the hearts of her parents.
Despite the blood blisters on her hands, she never gave up and stuck to the path forward, she continued to work hard every day, with the goal of climbing out of the house and gaining freedom, and finally after a long period of hard work and perseverance, she walked out of the room.
Despite suffering a double blow both physically and mentally, Dong Mingying firmly believes that she can overcome difficulties and create her own beautiful life, she has learned to live independently, help her mother with housework, learn to wash and cook by herself Xi, and live a fulfilling life every day without complaining and frustration.
Let go and embrace your dreams and change your destiny positively
Dong Mingying's parents began to take her around for medical consultation, but her condition has not improved, because the family is not wealthy, as time goes by, the cost of treatment becomes more and more difficult for the family to bear, in order to make ends meet, Dong Mingying's parents have to give up the treatment to take her home.
In the days that followed, her parents cared more about and took care of her, Dong Mingying was very sensible, she didn't cry or make trouble, she smiled every day, her parents were even more sad when they saw her happy, and tears fell down uncontrollably.
At that time, she was too young to realize how she was different from other children, and when she saw other children running around on the ground, Dong Mingying could only crawl on her hands and feet and play with children of the same age.
When other children grow up and can walk independently, Dong Mingying can still only crawl, and she has become a "little monster" in the mouths of other children, so you can imagine how traumatized this little girl has been in her heart.
Gradually, Dong Mingying grew up, in order to facilitate walking, others needed a pair of shoes, but Dong Mingying needed two pairs of shoes to crawl, her strength made people feel distressed, but Dong Mingying herself didn't feel any difference, she felt that her life was very good, no different from others.
Parents did not treat her differently because of her health, when she reached the age of going to school, even if the family conditions were not good, she had to be allowed to study Xi school, although Dong Mingying could not go to school by herself due to her disability, but her parents would carry her every day without hesitation, regardless of the hard work to send her to school.
They believe in the importance of education, no matter what difficulties the child will encounter, they are willing to support her all the time, and in the process of going to and from school every day, Dong Mingying has gradually Xi being noticed and discussed, in order to help her daughter better integrate into the class, they went to find the child's homeroom teacher.
After a warm communication, the kind-hearted head teacher agreed to help Dong Mingying with her classmates, and her classmates often carried her to the toilet, which made Dong Mingying feel sunshine and support for the first time.
The other children in the class also experienced the fun of playing with Dong Mingying, from taking her to play with the ball to helping her play in the playground, the students felt that the difference in body is not important, but more important is friendship and kindness.
Gradually, Dong Mingying's arms are becoming stronger and stronger, her strong, optimistic and positive character has also been exercised and cultivated, and she will take the initiative to help her parents cook and wash clothes, and show her ability and sense of responsibility no less than other children with her attitude of not admitting defeat and having the courage to take responsibility.
At that time, there was no accommodation or canteen in the countryside, and students had to travel back and forth between home and school every day, so in order to make it easier for her daughter to go to school, her mother carried her to school every morning, waited until lunch and then carried her home at lunchtime, and then sent her back to school, and then came to pick her up after school.
Dong Mingying has a very good relationship with her sister and brother. My sister is two grades older than her, and when my sister was a little older, she began to be responsible for transporting Dong Mingying to and from school, and when her younger brother learned to push a bicycle, he began to push Dong Mingying to school on a bicycle.
But in the end, because the family conditions were too difficult, Dong Mingying dropped out of school early when she was in the fourth grade, but the warmth and help she got in school brought great help to her later life, and the sensible Dong Mingying was very content, and did not make a fuss because of dropping out of school, on the contrary, in her free time, she would always take a book to enrich her experience.
As she grew older, Dong Mingying began to aspire to support herself through hard work, no longer relying on her parents' support, and she began to actively engage in some work within her ability, such as processing lighters, doing manual work, etc., she hoped to earn some extra income through these jobs.
Harvest love and family
When Dong Mingying grew up, her yearning for love was as strong as other young people, the matchmaker in the village did a lot of blind dates for her, and every time she was rejected because of her disability, this time the accident hit her heart again and again, she didn't want to exchange love for reluctance and pity, believing that happiness not only needs a partner, but can also exist in a person's heart.
Until she met Feng Zhiyu, a man 22 years older than her, she found her own love, Feng Zhiyu is honest and hardworking, although his family is poor, but his hard-working hands are enough to maintain the daily expenses of the family, he has a deep love for Dong Mingying, often goes to her house to help, regardless of gains and losses, Dong Mingying was moved by his sincerity and decided to spend his life with him.
This decision was strongly opposed by the family, who thought that Feng Zhiyu was too old to be suitable for Dong Mingying, but Dong Mingying had made up his mind and finally persuaded his family to marry Feng Zhiyu.
Although there are many discussions in the outside world, they cherish each other and live happily, Feng Zhiyu takes good care of Dong Mingying, carries her out every day, and pays all her salary, while Dong Mingying takes care of the family with her heart and makes the dilapidated house come to life.
Now they have two lovely daughters, family life is gradually improving, the two daughters are well-behaved and sensible, often help their mother with housework, her husband loves, her daughter is filial, Dong Mingying is deeply satisfied, she proves with her own actions that true love can overcome everything.
And Dong Mingying faced the difficulties of life and bravely looked for a way out, she has now successfully embarked on the road of live broadcasting, and changed her life with her own efforts, and at the same time she also rejected the donations of some netizens, because she feels that her family is not difficult enough to rely on donations, and she believes that her efforts can change her life.
Despite the thin profits, but the sales are large, she firmly believes that only a down-to-earth life can have the simplest satisfaction.
epilogue
Dong Mingying's story has inspired countless netizens, and more and more people have paid attention to the living conditions of the disabled group, and her experience proves that as long as there is determination and courage, anyone can change their fate through their own efforts.