“不要太过执着于生活的不平。 生活就是这样,不可能处处、时时、事事都公平,看透了生活,也就没有什么不公平事情了。 ”
亨特的女友离开他后依旧过得幸福愉快,他觉得生活不公平。 大师向他询问原因。 亨特告诉他:“我们向上天许下誓言,谁先背叛,谁就要要在一年之内死于非命,可是她还好好地活着,人们的诺言老天难道听不见吗?”
The master said, "There are vows in the world that cannot be fulfilled, otherwise people would have disappeared from the earth long ago." "All lovers who are sincere in love have sworn an oath, and if the vows are fulfilled, people will not exist for a long time? Love is not eternal, so don't blame God, the lover's vows seem to him to be just listened to. Hunter asks the master for advice on what to do.
The master told him this story: "Once upon a time, there was a man who bought a golden goldfish and kept it in a fish tank. The fish tank is broken, and this person must make a choice, one is to watch the goldfish die, and the other is to leave nothing and save the goldfish immediately. How do you choose?"
"The second option, of course. Hunter replied. "Then, you should hurry up and save your goldfish. And of course, don't forget to throw away the freshly broken fish tank. Only those who can let go of hatred know true love. Hunter immediately understood what he had to do.
这个世界上没有绝对的公平,但是我们不要对不公心生怨念。 生活就是不近情理的,不要抱怨生活中对无奈。
Giving everything and pursuing your dreams with exhaustion is inevitably a source of resignation.
When you discover injustices in your life, here are three things you can do:
( 1 )对于衡量公平的标准,要学会变通。 公平与否是一种主观感受,所以要想在心里觉得公平,可以转换一下比较的原则。 当你没有竞争到自己渴望的岗位时,就要想一想还有很多和自己能力相当的人也没有得到你想要的岗位,如此一来,你是不是就没那么意难平了?
( 2 )努力让自己更加优秀。 有一部分人觉得能力个过关就理所应当得到重视,但机会是有限的,总有人会落选。 但是,只要自己足够优秀,具有不可替代的作用、具备显而易见的优势,当然就不会成为被淘汰的一员。
( 3 )要放宽自己的心性胸。 人感到受伤在很大程度上是苟求你造成的。 世上根本没有绝对的公平,因此我们不必到处要求绝对公平。
Life is far more complicated than we think, and it's not fair everywhere. Some people are happy with everything, while others sometimes fail to fulfill even small wishes. That's life. So, look through life, look down on the fairness and injustice, and smile at life!