Zhu Lingling's youthful flashiness
In 1978, 19-year-old Zhu Lingling stood out in the Miss Hong Kong contest and won the double championship, which became the focus of attention in the city for a while. This girl with the mysterious beauty of the East has conquered the hearts of countless followers with her outstanding appearance, allowing everyone to see the most moving face in Hong Kong.
However, Zhu Lingling's inner thoughts are not as simple as they appear on the outside. In the midst of a wave of blessings, she was not satisfied with the honor she had won instantly. On the contrary, Zhu Lingling cares more about what is lacking in real life - her own love and life.
Among the many suitors, Zhu Lingling chose Huo Zhenting, a seemingly better object. In 1978, the two held a lavish wedding that "broke the record in Hong Kong".
However, the grandeur of the wedding was more like a showcase of the wealth and status of the two families than a celebration of love.
In her married life, Zhu Lingling found herself bound by various rules and lost her freedom. She is like a flower locked in a greenhouse, even if she has no worries about food and clothing, she can't hide her loneliness.
Socializing is her only activity, and there is very little family fun she really craves.
Youth and beauty are Zhu Lingling's capital, but they have also become her burden. She is expected to play a perfect image, but it goes against the true feelings of her heart. Under the packaging of chasing fame and fortune, her precious youth is falling into nothingness.
Zhu Lingling married into the Huo family
In 1978, 19-year-old Zhu Lingling chose to marry Huo Zhenting and officially stepped into the top wealthy family of the Huo family. The grand wedding announced the beginning of their relationship, and Zhu Lingling became the new owner of this splendid mansion.
The joy of the newlyweds was quickly replaced by reality. Zhu Lingling found that there were countless house rules to follow, and many freedoms were taken away. She has become a vase who can only attend socializing and pay attention to appearance.
The husband is busy with work and rarely accompanies him.
thought that marrying into a wealthy family was a success in life, but Zhu Lingling soon realized that under the glory and wealth on the surface, no one cared about her inner feelings. Her heart's desire for family pleasure and her sincere affection for her husband are hard to find.
In 2000, her husband's scandal was suddenly exposed, and Zhu Lingling was hit like a thunderbolt on a sunny day. Only then did she realize the reality that she was just an ornament in the life of a wealthy family.
Zhu Lingling plucked up the courage to choose a divorce, even if it would anger this top wealthy family.
The 47-year-old Zhu Lingling finally regained her freedom, but her youth was gone. She spent her most precious years in the life of a wealthy family, but what she got was an insatiable emptiness.
Zhu Lingling is no longer confused by external glory, and she longs to find the true meaning of life.
Noble and clean out of the house
In 2005, 47-year-old Zhu Lingling made a major decision in her life - she chose to leave the Huo family, a top wealthy family where she had lived for 27 years, and resolutely chose to leave the house during the divorce process.
It's an unimaginable choice for the average person. With Zhu Lingling's share of property, she could have received hundreds of millions or even billions of breakup compensation.
But she gave up all property claims, a noble practice that amazed the outside world.
Zhu Lingling's consideration is her noble heart. First of all, she doesn't want to be considered by the outside world as marrying into a wealthy family for money. She wants to tell everyone that her choice back then was out of a yearning for love, not a greed for money.
Secondly, she also took into account the face of her three sons. As their mother, she didn't want to fight with her biological son for property and disgrace her sons. She hopes that the three brothers will have a harmonious relationship and a prosperous family business.
Finally, Zhu Lingling focused more on the political future of her son Huo Qigang. She didn't want to be a stumbling block on her son's road, and she didn't want this divorce to damage the reputation of the Huo family.
So she chose the noblest of all.
Zhu Lingling's clean body went out of the house, showing the positive and enterprising side of a woman. She chooses to be self-reliant and not rely on the initial relationship for profit. This is a breakthrough in traditional concepts, and it is also a redefinition of the status of women.
Remarry Lo Kangrui
In 2008, the wedding of Zhu Lingling and her childhood sweetheart Luo Kangrui was held in a simple ceremony. They have gone through too many ups and downs in life, and finally walked into the palace hand in hand.
Does Zhu Lingling really have expectations for love? Her inner world is no longer true to the sincerity she was found. After the baptism of two marriages, her feelings may be more realistic considerations.
For Luo Kangrui, marrying the goddess of his childhood dream is the fulfillment of a lifelong dream. He wanted to share everything he had worked hard with Zhu Lingling, so he expressed his wish to divide the property into two.
However, it was rejected by Zhu Lingling. She understands that true home is not based on wealth, but on feelings. They have been through so much that they need to be repaired slowly, not with money to cover up the rifts.
In addition, Zhu Lingling also took into account the deeply injured Luo Kangrui's ex-wife and children. She was reluctant to take their hard-earned money and add to the blockage of the resentful ex-couple.
She wants to use time to resolve all the bad things.
Finally, for the sake of her son Huo Qigang, Zhu Lingling also avoided causing greater disputes. She would rather keep a low profile and preserve the status quo than be a stumbling block for her son.
Zhu Lingling's choice requires courage and also comes from a mother's selfish feelings.
All for the sake of his son's future
It seems that Zhu Lingling's choice of two marriages is autonomous, but her life trajectory seems to have been dominated by the future of her son Huo Qigang. In order not to be a stumbling block for her son, she gave up the benefits she deserved.
In 2024, 60-year-old Zhu Lingling will still live a low-key and introverted life.
We should not ask a woman to constantly sacrifice for the future of others. She should also have her own life and pursuits. Zhu Lingling is a smart and capable woman who deserves her true self.
Maybe she should do something of her own, not just as someone else's mother or wife, but as an individual. She can start a career she loves, participate in charity, or just go and see the world and give herself a chance to be.
We should not define a woman's value only in terms of her contribution to the family. Women can also have their own wonderful lives. Zhu Lingling's achievements at the age of 20 and 60 should have been different, but she now has the opportunity to take control of her own destiny.
I believe that Zhu Lingling has enough wisdom to examine her life and strive for due respect and development opportunities for herself. She deserves to be seen more openly and understandingly, not just as an adjunct to someone else.
We expect her to be an independent woman.