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Text: Fei Xiangshuo
Editor|Fei Xiangshuo
Wu Qilong and Liu Shishi are a well-known star couple in the entertainment industry. Recently, some netizens discovered that the two were not together during the New Year's Day holiday, and they each posted work videos and made public welfare donations, so there were rumors that the two were not in harmony and even got married.
We should not read too much into the personal lives of celebrities, nor should we speculate on undetermined facts. As fans of Wu and Liu, we should give understanding and space, and don't follow the crowd. It is common for couples to have disagreements, and we should treat them with warmth and rationality.
It is not surprising that Wu and Liu acted separately in the New Year
New Year's Day is a day of reunion for many people, but for acting stars with busy work, this time point may also be a time when work is more intensive. We don't need to speculate too much about the reason why Wu Qilong and Liu Shishi were not together during the New Year holiday, and it is not surprising that they each have their own arrangements and plans.
Secondly, the vlog released by Wu Qilong mainly focuses on work, so that the content and style of the video do not need to deliberately render the breath of life, and the focus is on sharing work experience. It is too subjective to conclude from this point alone that there is a problem in the marriage of the two.
In addition, public figures need to protect their privacy and do not make all their private lives public. We should not require Wu and Liu to appear in public at all times in order to prove that they are in a stable relationship. Keeping private space appropriately is also a reasonable choice for celebrities.
To sum up, Wu Qilong and Liu Shishi's respective actions in the New Year cannot be directly equated with a rift in their relationship. We should not make assumptions based on limited information.
There should be no stereotypes about how both husband and wife are kind and giving
Recently, Wu Qilong and Liu Shishi made public welfare donations in their personal names. Some commentators believe that such a move shows the signs of a change in the relationship between the two. However, we need to be careful that charity donation is a great act of good and should not be speculated about.
First of all, public welfare needs the attention and support of all sectors of society, and donations in the name of individuals or collectives should be affirmed and praised. Wu and Liu have been enthusiastic about public welfare for many years and have continued to provide assistance to poor and disaster-stricken residents, which is very valuable in itself.
Secondly, both husband and wife are willing to do good deeds, and their respective donations can also achieve better results. Wu Qilong's donation through the Han Hong Foundation can exert his influence in the foundation, while Liu Shishi's choice of One Foundation as a channel can also give full play to her appeal in the institution.
In addition, in the past, not all donations made by Wu and Liu had to be made in the name of husband and wife. We should not conclude that there must be something wrong with the relationship between the two based on this situation alone. The judgment of the relationship between husband and wife needs to be considered as a whole and cannot be inferred based on local information.
Relationship problems are difficult for outsiders to comment on, so as to avoid speculation becoming darker and darker
There are reports that Wu and Liu have marital conflicts, but we cannot judge the authenticity of these rumors. As outsiders, it is difficult for us to make fair comments on the relationship between husband and wife.
First of all, the causes of relationship problems are complex, and it is difficult to see the essence from the superficial phenomena. We don't know the patterns and Xi between Wu and Liu, and it is difficult to judge whether some details mean a change in feelings.
Secondly, rumors are rumors after all, and we cannot judge the authenticity without confirmation from the parties. Not only is over-interpretation and speculation meaningless, but it can also lead to more misunderstandings.
Finally, commenting on the private lives of others is inherently inappropriate. We should give celebrities enough private space to avoid unfriendly actions of "gossip" and "interference with privacy".
To sum up, we can neither determine nor judge the marital status of Wu and Liu. As fans, we should be rational and tolerant, and also believe that they are capable of dealing with their own family problems.
This incident quickly aroused heated discussions among netizens on the Internet, and some netizens thought that Wu Qilong and Liu Shishi must have had a problem with their relationship, because they were not together in the New Year, and they donated separately. But there are also more rational netizens who believe that we should not over-interpret the private lives of celebrities, and it is normal for husband and wife to act separately, so everyone should remain rational and not jump to conclusions.
Some netizens believe that we can't simply deny the relationship foundation of Wu and Liu for many years based on some superficial phenomena. Emotional issues are complex, and they should be filled with understanding and empathy, and given space. Regardless of whether there is a problem in their marriage, we should treat it with warmth and kindness, rather than speculating, attacking, and criticizing.
Finally, I believe that we should not incite radical emotions in the face of unsubstantiated rumors, and we should not point fingers at possible emotional problems. Our best response to other people's relationship problems is to be tolerant, understanding, and blessed. Maybe given time and space, everything will work out for the better.
To sum up, it is difficult for us to determine the marital status of Wu Qilong and Liu Shishi, and there is no need to speculate too much. But we can appeal to the public to give understanding and respect, and treat the private lives of celebrities with warmth. What do you think we should think about this?