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In China in 1979, a shocking event occurred. At that time, the Central Committee of the Communist Party of China decided to arrest the son of a high-ranking general. This general, Xu Shiyou, was a well-known military figure who played a key role in several important historical moments. When he learned of his second son's arrest, his reaction was unexpected: he insisted that his son be shot. This decision not only reveals Xu Shiyou's extreme respect for discipline, but also reflects the unique political and moral values of the era. What kind of historical truth and personal beliefs does this incident reflect? Why does Xu Shiyou have such an extreme attitude? In this article, Xiaoyu will take you to reveal it.
Xu Shiyou, a general who occupies an important place in China's military history, is known for his strict requirements for personal and family discipline. His insistence on not using his influence for personal gain for his family was particularly evident in his family life.
His wife, Tian Pu, is also a senior military comrade who has devoted herself to military life since the Anti-Japanese War. During the years of fighting side by side with Xu Shiyou, Tian Pu proved his ability and loyalty. Even in the hard battles and lives that the couple experienced together, Xu Shiyou always insisted on strict requirements for family members.
When Xu Shiyou was the commander of the Nanjing Military Region, Tian Pu was the deputy director of the Cadre Department of the Nanjing Military Region. For Tian Pu, this position is both an honor and a responsibility. Subsequently, when Xu Shiyou was transferred to the commander of the Guangzhou Military Region, Tian Pu's work arrangement became a sensitive topic. The leaders of the military region proposed that Tian Pu could continue to hold the same post, that is, deputy director of the cadre department of the Guangzhou Military Region. This seemingly ordinary proposal actually touches on Xu Shiyou's principles.
Xu Shiyou is well aware that the cadre department is a key department, and he believes that if his wife takes a leadership position in this department, it may raise questions about his use of power to benefit his family. Therefore, he was adamantly opposed to this proposal, demonstrating the high importance he attached to professional ethics. Although such a decision may affect Tian Pu's career development, Xu Shiyou values principle and integrity more.
At Xu Shiyou's insistence, Tian Pu was transferred to a scientific research institute of the Beijing Engineering Corps as deputy political commissar. This position maintains her professional standards while avoiding improper promotion in her position. This incident fully demonstrates Xu Shiyou's principled side in his personal and professional life, and also reflects his strict requirements for family members and his high sensitivity to his own responsibilities.
Xu Shiyou, a general who has experienced countless combat tests, has seven children in his life, including three sons and four daughters. Among these many descendants, his second son, Xu Jianjun, has always been a disease in his heart. Compared to his siblings, Xu Jianjun always seems to be on the verge of trouble.
In that turbulent year of 1979, when Xu Shiyou was serving as the commander of the Nanjing Military Region, a shocking news reached his ears. A high-ranking official of the military region, Nie Fengzhi, brought unfortunate news about Xu Jianjun: the unruly young man was arrested for violating party discipline and state law. The news was like a thunderbolt from the blue, hitting Xu Shiyou.
Xu Shiyou was dealing with important affairs in the military region, and when he heard the news, he was furious and slammed the table on the spot, his voice full of anger and disappointment. Without hesitation, he ordered: "Shoot and shoot!" This reaction may seem extreme to outsiders, but for Xu Shiyou, it is an adherence to principles and respect for law and discipline.
Xu Shiyou has always advocated strict discipline in military and family life. He believes that the rules should be strictly followed, both for the country and for the family. In his opinion, even his own son, if he violated the law, should be punished as he deserves. This iron-blooded decision, although it hurts his heart, reflects his absolute loyalty to discipline and insistence on justice.
This incident caused widespread discussion inside and outside the military district. Although Xu Shiyou's approach is difficult for some people to understand, it has also won the respect of many people. They believe that Xu Shiyou's decision reflects the iron-blooded nature of a soldier and his respect for the rule of law. For Xu Shiyou himself, this is not only a punishment for his son, but also a severe test of his faith.
Xu Shiyou's life and work have always reflected a strict adherence to principles, and he has always put the interests of the country and the party first when handling affairs. Even in his daily life, he did not allow any behavior that could affect the image of the party and the country, even the most insignificant things.
This attitude is vividly reflected in the daily interaction between Xu Shiyou and his wife Tian Pu. Once, Tian Pu was attracted by the flowers in the garden of a hotel, so he asked the staff to select two pots of beautiful flowers to put in her car. For Tian Pu, this is a simple experience of enjoying flowers, but in Xu Shiyou's opinion, it is a serious matter.
When Xu Shiyou learned of this, he immediately launched a harsh criticism of Tian Pu. He believes that Tian Pu's behavior is the appropriation of public resources and the destruction of the principle of non-separation between public and private. Xu Shiyou insisted that Tian Pu immediately return the flowers to the hotel as a sign of discipline.
Tian Pu was puzzled by this, she thought that these were just two pots of worthless flowers, and they were given by the staff on their own initiative, so there was no need to cause a big wave. However, in Xu Shiyou's view, no matter how big or small the value is, it cannot be a reason for violating the principle.
Xu Shiyou's dissatisfaction with Tian Pu intensified, and he excitedly accused her of forgetting her original intentions, and even described her as a "new bourgeois element". Although this hard-line attitude seems to Tian Pu to be a bit excessive, it reflects Xu Shiyou's determination to adhere to principles.
As a strict father, Xu Shiyou is very strict with his children, especially in terms of morality and discipline. He had three sons and four daughters, and despite his high status and power, he never used his position for their own gain. He insisted that they should not use his reputation and position to obtain any privileges or preferential treatment, which was also obvious in the eyes of his colleague Nie Fengzhi.
There is a short story that reveals Xu Shiyou's educational philosophy that takes place during the war. At that time, Xu Shiyou's eldest daughter and Nie Fengzhi's son went out to play together. Two children wander the streets, lured by roadside food stalls, and salivating. Since they didn't carry any money with them, they could only stare at the tempting delicacies.
Although this matter is small, it is enough to reflect Xu Shiyou's educational principles. He didn't give his children too much pocket money, nor did he Xi them to relying on the influence of his family to solve problems. Even in the harsh environment of war, he insisted that the children learn to be self-reliant and self-disciplined.
This kind of education was particularly valuable in the context of the time. Xu Shiyou's practice is not only a hone of the children's personal character, but also a foreshadowing for their future growth into people with a sense of responsibility and independent character. He believes that no matter how prominent the family is, children should realize their personal value through their own efforts, rather than relying on family background.
After Xu Jianjun was detained, Xu Shiyou's heart was full of mixed emotions. As a strict father, he is angry at his son's mistakes, but at the same time, he feels deeply remorseful. Xu Shiyou has always firmly believed that the ancient educational concept of "raising or not teaching, the father's fault". He believes that as a father, he may be lacking in Xu Jianjun's education, which has also become a heavy stone in his heart for many years.
As he grew older, Xu Shiyou's physical condition gradually declined. In his later years, his health grew weaker and weaker, and he eventually became critically ill. At this last stage of his life, he was speechless and could only use his eyes to convey his emotions and wishes. At such moments, his eyes often search the air, as if searching for someone.
It is not difficult for Xu Shiyou's family to understand his deep desire when they see him in this state - he wants to see Xu Jianjun. In Xu Shiyou's heart, Xu Jianjun is not only a son who made mistakes, but also an inseparable part of his life. Although he was deeply disappointed by his son's behavior, his love as a father remained deeply rooted in his heart.
Xu Shiyou knew that due to Xu Jianjun's mistakes, there may be no chance of reunion between their father and son. This unspeakable regret and longing for his son accompanied Xu Shiyou to the end of his life. In Xu Shiyou's heart, there is always an unfinished wish, that is, to be able to see Xu Jianjun again and tell him his father's care and expectations.
Xu Shiyou, a seemingly rugged and straightforward general, in the depths of his heart, actually harbors deep concern for the entire country and the people. Under his hard shell, there is a deep affection for his hometown and the people of the whole country. He not only worries about the lives of the people in his hometown, but also extends his thoughts to people all over the country, hoping that they can live a better life. This kind of care that wells up from the bottom of his heart makes him often feel a great responsibility, and even sometimes feels helpless and self-blame for things beyond his ability.
Although the outside world often sees him as rough and impatient, and regards him as a typical "rough person", in fact, Xu Shiyou's thinking is always precise and in-depth. His heart is full of wisdom and vision, qualities that are constantly reflected in his decisions and actions. Every decision he made was based on careful consideration of the country and the people, reflecting his understanding and grasp of the overall situation.
In Xu Shiyou's heart, he always felt that he could do more and make greater contributions to the country and the people. He was full of sympathy for those who were living in distress and often thought about how to improve their living conditions. Despite his notable achievements in his career, he has never been complacent and has always maintained a humble and introspective heart.
Xu Shiyou's attitude and quality made him a unique existence in that turbulent era. The contrast between his rugged exterior and his delicate intellect on the inside shows the multifaceted nature of a truly intelligent person. His life and deeds have not only left a deep imprint in the military field, but also planted in people's hearts the recognition of the image of a soldier who truly cares about the country and the people.