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"The love of parents is far-reaching", this sentence is not applicable to the royal family......
When I watched the Kangxi Dynasty for the first time, I didn't understand very much, why did Kangxi "sell" his most beloved daughter Lan Qier to Geerdan?
Kangxi is the emperor of a country, even if the situation is unstable at this time, he will not marry his beloved daughter for the sake of a mere threat.
But many years later, when I revisited these details again, I found out how powerless Kangxi was back then, and his heartache was no less than that of Concubine Rong......
For the first time, it wasn't just the Jade Rabbit that was broken
Lan Qier has lived in the palace since she was a child, and she was held in her hands by Kangxi, and the willful Lan Qier could bounce around when Kangxi was reviewing documents, and she could also reach out to cover the eyes of Emperor Kangxi.
It is also Lan Qier's innocence, liveliness and cuteness that brings a touch of brightness to Kangxi's busy life.
At that time, Kangxi was deeply in love with Lan Qier, and for the sake of his beloved Lan Qier, he could let her be willful and rude, and he also experienced the warmth of his family in Lan Qier's body.
But fate is coming, and it can't be stopped. When Geerdan saw Lan Qier for the first time, he was shocked, and Lan Qier's smile made Geerdan, a rough man, extremely yearning, and the iron man also had tenderness.
In this way, it was love at first sight for Geldan and he fell in love with Lan Qier.
At that time, Geerdan's power expanded dramatically, while the Qing Dynasty was still unstable. In this case, Geerdan directly asked Kangxi, that is, to marry Lan Qier.
Kangxi's anger was beyond words. However, he forcibly calmed himself down. Before giving this order, Kangxi was also extremely heartbroken, but after thinking about it again, he finally decided to make Lan Qier the princess of Heshuo and marry Geerdan.
Lan Qier has a beloved baby, the little jade rabbit that Kangxi rewarded her. This jade rabbit, who had to be taken by her side to sleep, was smashed by Lan Qi'er on this day.
Lan Qi'er cried pear blossoms with rain, but no matter how she asked, her father still would not withdraw the holy decree.
Lan Qi'er didn't understand why her father, who loved her so much, would marry her like a cow and sheep to a strange man she didn't love.
At this time, Lan Qi'er already had a heart, and Kangxi and Concubine Rong also acquiesced to this matter, but everything changed overnight, and Lan Qier didn't understand Kangxi's decision.
But Kangxi, how can he not be heartbroken, the decision he made is more difficult than any previous decision.
Lan Qier Gege is the princess of the Qing Dynasty, as the prince and princess, she has enjoyed the glory and wealth of the unparalleled, how can she not bear the corresponding responsibility.
In fact, in the court, there are not a few princesses who marry far away and are close to each other, and Lan Qier has not seen or heard of it.
It's just that she doesn't want to believe that her father is really willing to use her as a "bargaining chip" for that transaction.
She was angry and puzzled, no matter how much the mother concubine stopped her, Lan Qier had no scruples and smashed the rabbit in front of Kangxi.
Then he turned around and left, and after Lan Qi'er left, he saw Kangxi with an expressionless face, squatting down alone, one by one, and picking up those jade rabbit fragments.
At this time, Concubine Rong wanted to help, but was also stopped by Kangxi, Kangxi said, "This is my own business, I'll come by myself." ”
Kangxi knew in his heart that his move hurt Lan Qi'er.
In fact, it hurts his daughter, and it hurts his father's heart, Kangxi at this time is a helpless father, but he is also an emperor of the Qing Dynasty, and thousands of people in the world are his children.
Even if he has a thousand helplessness, he can only make this decision, he can only order his subordinates to glue this jade rabbit together, and there is no one missing, the integrity of this jade rabbit also represents his love for Lan Qier, and he doesn't want to reduce it.
However, it is difficult to reunite after the broken mirror, Lan Qi'er is gone, and the father and daughter are destined to go to different paths.
The second time, the father-daughter relationship was broken
In fact, it was not the first time Lan Qier had thrown something in front of Kangxi. After many years, Lan Qier returned to the palace again, and still dropped a beloved thing in front of Kangxi, and this time, the father-daughter relationship was completely broken.
After being forced by his father to marry Geerdan, Geerdan was unexpectedly very good to Lan Qier.
He really loved this woman and was not meant to take advantage. Therefore, he gave Lan Qier enough respect and love, and after Lan Qier gave birth to a son and a daughter, Lan Qier also fell in love with this man completely.
The so-called marry a chicken with a chicken, marry a dog with a dog. Lan Qi'er's heart is not made of ice. Under the love of Gerdan, she slowly walked out of the haze and adapted to this life thousands of miles away from home.
But on the side of the couch, how can you allow others to sleep soundly? The contradiction between Geldan and Kangxi is only temporarily eased with Lan Qi'er's marriage, and the contradiction between these two men is destined to break out again.
Lan Qier is in a dilemma, with her father on one side and her husband on the other, how should she choose?
In fact, it is not only Lan Qi'er who has no choice but to contradict, but also her mother Concubine Rong. The two women were in a dilemma, and when they met on the battlefield, the two of them who hugged their heads and cried could not stop the war.
Once the war has begun, it will not stop. In the end, after many wars, Lan Qier's husband Geerdai was still beheaded by the eldest brother, and Lan Qier's heart hurt extremely at this moment.
Lan Qier's hatred for Kangxi accumulated little by little. And it wasn't until she saw her mother being punished by Kangxi for cleaning the toilet that this anger reached its peak.
At this moment, in Lan Qi'er's heart, Kangxi is no longer her father, but a demon who kills people without blinking.
In Lan Qier's mind, Kangxi is a cold-blooded emperor and a person without humanity. In anger, Lan Qi'er broke the music box that Kangxi gave her again. And this time, the father-daughter relationship was completely broken.
He can't have both the country and the family
In fact, Concubine Rong's ending can be regarded as her own fault, Concubine Rong's approach made Kangxi really unable to get off the stage, and she came out to persuade Kangxi with the edict of the Empress Dowager Xiaozhuang, where is Kangxi's dignity?
Kangxi can't disobey Xiaozhuang Yi's will, but the prince must abolish it, and he is in a dilemma, only by forcibly giving Rong Fei'an a charge of "false transmission of Yi's will" with the most severe punishment can it be proved that Kangxi did not resist the decree, and can it be proved that the abolition of the prince is a last resort and must be done.
From this point of view, Concubine Rong, like Lan Qier, was not sacrificed for Kangxi, but for the interests of the country and the Qing Dynasty.
In Kangxi's heart, there is a country before there is a home, and everything Kangxi does is to put the country first!
Kangxi can sacrifice humanity for the so-called great cause of the millennium, Lan Qier confronts her father for the true love of the world, everyone wants differently, the father and daughter, the difference in vision, determines the different approaches.
Kangxi is worthy of the people of the world, he has created a great cause through the ages, but it is destined to be at the cost of eternal loneliness!
A true saint must abandon all affection for his own country or the security of his own power!
The so-called love will lead to hate, hate, blindness, obsession, obsession, loss of principles......
People must seek their own politics in their positions, otherwise, there will be more people who are sorry! Kangxi's overall pattern determined what he did at that time, and of course, contradictions are always opposites, not absolute.
In that situation at that time, Kangxi's approach seemed to be the only choice.
The emperor can't love anyone too much, Xiaozhuang is more like the manipulator behind it, and before she died, she gave Concubine Rong such a decree.
In fact, she can write a copy by herself, there is no need to let Concubine Rong say that this is Kangxi's reverse scale, Xiaozhuang knows, but Concubine Rong didn't expect it.
is the most ruthless emperor, Kangxi actually loves Lan Qier and Concubine Rong very much, but sometimes for the sake of the overall situation, he can't help himself.
When evaluating the historical merits of a generation of emperors, they never take family affection and benevolence as the standard, but look at historical merits.
Kangxi, as an emperor, wants to have supreme power and expands his territory, so he will give up many people. Kangxi's status as an emperor also determined a lot of his helplessness. Many things cannot be explained by affection.
Those who achieve great things are not informal, they must be decisive in killing, how can they do it if they are not ruthless? How many people can achieve great things if they are willing to make promises? Therefore, there are two sides to everything!
Everyone has their own choices, but in principle, there are gains and losses, it is impossible to do everything without giving up, even the gods can't do it!
When a thought arises, fate is born, and when a thought is extinguished, fate ends.
In life, there are always some choices that are unforgettable! Do you support Kangxi's practice of exchanging Lan Qier for a moment of peace for the country?