The happy beginning of Li Yong's beautiful life
Li Yong's dream since childhood is to stand on the stage and present beautiful singing to the audience. When he thinks that he can become a singer one day, he is excited and proud.
However, the problem on the vocal cords ruthlessly destroyed this dream, leaving Li Yong in a state of decadence and loss for a long time.
Later, Li Yong regained his strength and decided to embark on the path of host. He was admitted to the Communication University of China and then worked at CCTV. At first, Li Yong was not Xi to hosting work, and often felt nervous when facing the camera and the audience.
But through hard work and Xi practice, he gradually found the knack of program hosting, and slowly cultivated his own hosting style.
During his tenure at CCTV, Li Yong hosted many high-rated programs. In particular, the talk show "Very 6+1" is almost deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, and Li Yong has also become a well-known star host with this show.
The success of his career also brought him a considerable financial income, which allowed him to buy the sports car house of his dreams.
At the same time as work, there is also Li Yong's married life. When he was in college, he fell in love with Harvin, and the relationship between the two has always been very good. After graduating, he offered to propose to Harvin, which he gladly accepted.
Together, they formed a small family and a lovely daughter. When I went home every night and saw the smiling faces of my wife and daughter, Li Yong felt extremely happy and satisfied.
Living in such a beautiful state, Li Yong feels that he is simply made in heaven. Every day is worth cherishing and reminiscing about, and he and Harvin often fall asleep in their arms, declaring their love for life.
Li Yong's life was an unexpected huge blow
One day in 2017, Li Yong inadvertently touched a small lump on his neck while taking a shower, and at first he didn't pay attention to it, thinking it was just a bruise caused by a cold.
However, after a few days, the bruising did not subside, but tended to get worse. Only then did Li Yong realize the seriousness of the matter and immediately went to the hospital for an examination. When the doctor diagnosed him with throat cancer, this sudden news hit Li Yong like a thunderbolt from the blue, and his whole person fell into a collapse.
At the thought of having cancer, Li Yong trembled with fear, fearing that it would threaten her life. He couldn't bear to tell Harvin the news directly, and he was reluctant to leave his parents, who were exhausted from work.
However, the actual situation did not allow him to hesitate more, in order to fight for the opportunity for treatment, Li Yong could only endure the pain and set off for the United States for medical treatment with Ha Wen.
After coming to the United States, Li Yong actively cooperated with various treatments. But whenever he saw those sick and tormented figures, he still couldn't help but shed tears, worried that he would also step on the same end road.
The year-and-a-half-long treatment process was so torturous that even if Harvin was always by his side, it could not completely dispel the despair in Li Yong's heart. Finally, after a medical check-up, the doctor was dejected and told them that there was no sign of improvement.
At this moment, Li Yong's heart is completely dead. He knew that the end was near, and that he was about to live forever with the world and his loved ones. It seems that the patriarch of Bodhidharma has been facing the wall for nine years, and Li Yong has also seen it, hoping that he can still do his last bit to help those in need after his death.
So, he signed a body donation agreement and left his body in the United States.
Li Yong passed away, and his body remained in the United States, causing controversy
On October 25, 2018, Li Yong ended his 49-year life course in the hospital bed in the United States. The news was quickly made public through his wife, Harvin's social media accounts.
In addition to being shocked, countless people also expressed their condolences and remembered Li Yong's infectious smile before his death.
However, more people's eyes and questions focused on another focus -- why did Li Yong's body remain in the United States and not be shipped back to China? This decision immediately set off an uproar on the Internet, with a large number of voices criticizing him for being "unfilial" and "admiring foreigners."
In fact, Li Yong had already signed a document before his death, agreeing to use his body for medical research and teaching. He hopes that even after death, all parts of the body can bring a glimmer of hope to those who are sick.
This spirit of selfless dedication is incomprehensible to many people.
On the other hand, Li Yong actually took into account that his parents were too old to bear the torture of transporting the corpses back to China and burial. Therefore, directly arranging the aftermath on the spot is also the result of comprehensive consideration.
Li Yong took all this alone, and did not disturb his family too much.
For all kinds of criticism from the outside world, Li Yong's widow Ha Wen has also been silently endured and has never explained anything. She just continued to stay in the United States, raising the only baby daughter of two families, and fulfilling her responsibilities as a daughter-in-law, often returning to China to take care of her in-laws.
His wife, Harvin, took care of the aftermath alone and never remarried
After Li Yong's death, Ha Wen, as his wife, suddenly took on the heavy burden of the family. She had to face the death of her husband alone, raise her young daughter, and often care for her in-laws in China.
In the first days, Harvin wept uncontrollably. She stared at Li Yong's posthumous photos all the time, and many wonderful moments of the two were looped in her mind.
Harvin would often wake up in the middle of the night and reach out to touch the already cold spot, only to realize that it was nothing more than a dream.
Three years later, Harvin is still single, she did not choose to remarry, but devoted herself wholeheartedly to the upbringing of her daughter. She strives to keep her daughter from the pain of losing her father and encourages her to face life with courage and optimism.
After her daughter finally grew up and worked independently, Harvin devoted herself to taking care of her in-laws in China.
My in-laws are getting old and their health is getting worse. Haven put down everything he was in his hands and flew back to China every once in a while to take care of his in-laws' lives. When the in-laws saw that their son-in-law's widow was so filial to her, her eyes were red, and she thought that her son would be very relieved if he had a spirit in heaven.
In fact, Li Yong's death hit her very hard, and Harvin also thought about ending his life directly and going to Li Yong's side. But her daughter and in-laws are still there, and she must hold on and fulfill her responsibilities as a wife and daughter.
Maybe this is the greatness of mothers, even if they are covered in bruises, they have to protect the harbor of a good home.
Life is unexpected, and we must learn to understand and be tolerant
Li Yong unfortunately left this world because of the sudden change of cancer, and also left an unfinished reputation. And his wife, Harvin, also became a victim of this life accident and took on the heavy second half of her life alone.
When we put ourselves in the shoes of a bystander and point fingers at their suffering, we often ignore one point – the fragility of life and accidents happen all the time.
Li Yong, who passed away suddenly, must have fantasized about growing old with his beloved wife. However, when something bad happens, he can only face it and make his own choices in a limited time.
Therefore, when we do not have Li Yong's situation, how can we easily judge his decision, because that will only aggravate the pain of others, not provide comfort.
What we can actually do is to put ourselves in their shoes, cherish life, and spread positive energy.
At the same time, learn to be tolerant of the choices of others. Because everyone's situation and thoughts are different, we can't fully empathize with each other from the other's point of view.
When there are things that we can't understand, we might as well give time and believe that one day we can see through the intentions. Remember not to preconceive and impose your own guesses on others.
Li Yong's story tells us that the fragility of life and accidents happen all the time. We need to learn to face and be tolerant. Cherish the present and convey warmth, this is the most important theme of life.