At the age of 11, Xu Yajun was enlightened in acting, and entered the showbiz at the age of 16
At the age of 11, Xu Yajun played a small role in the movie "Youth Like Fire" for the first time, which became an important turning point in his life. At that time, he was still a child full of curiosity and freshness about movies, and under the guidance of the director and staff, Xu Yajun jerkily completed his first performance in front of the camera.
After a "cut", Xu Yajun burst into tears with excitement. Although it is just a small role, it is of great significance to Xu Yajun. This filming experience strengthened his determination and confidence to become a great actor.
Five years later, 16-year-old Xu Yajun graduated from the Central Academy of Drama majoring in acting and officially entered the showbiz and began his career as an actor. Although the road is long, this enlightening filming experience will always inspire Xu Yajun to continue to strive and become an excellent actor.
At the age of 22, he won the emperor of vision and became famous for a while
At the age of 22, Xu Yajun won the Golden Eagle Award for Best Actor in one fell swoop for his outstanding interpretation of the young villain role of "Earl" in the TV series "Looking for the World Back".
When the news of the award came, Xu Yajun was so excited that he burst into tears, and his dream of being an actor for many years was finally affirmed and recognized. At this moment, he suddenly realized that he was shouldering greater responsibility and pressure.
The former ruffian boy became a household name overnight, and countless fans cheered and screamed for him. However, at the same time of fame and fortune, Xu Yajun also had a trace of self-doubt in his heart, whether all this was too easy, and whether he really deserved such success? This has also become a source of motivation for his continuous progress in the future.
Xu Yajun understands that this is only the first stop on the road of acting, and the glory that truly belongs to him is still ahead.
His first wife, Huang Jianping, died early and remarried Zhang
When Xu Yajun's acting career was in full swing, he also experienced his first marriage. and Huang Jianping, a colleague of the Children's Art Theater, became his first wife.
Both of them are newcomers to the theater, and they accompany each other on stage and in life every day, and the life of the young couple is sweet. However, the good times did not last long, Huang Jianping suddenly suffered from cancer and passed away at a young age, and it was too late to have children with Xu Yajun.
This sudden change made Xu Yajun, who was still in the rising period of his life, suddenly disappear, and he fell into unprecedented grief. After Huang Jianping's death, Zhang Wei, a colleague of the Children's Art Theater, silently took care of and comforted Xu Yajun, who was like ashes.
In this process, the relationship between the two has also warmed up. Later, Xu Yajun and Zhang Wei naturally entered into their second marriage.
met and married He Qing, and his son Xu He was born
During the filming of the TV series "Wind and Lotus Resentment", Xu Yajun met the heroine He Qing. All the interactions between the two in front of and behind the camera are exuding sparks of love, and the crew members are also watching it.
He Qing is knowledgeable, gentle and demure, and Xu Yajun is happy. For the sake of this sincere relationship, Xu Yajun chose to divorce his second wife Zhang Si and enter the palace of marriage hand in hand with He Qing.
After marriage, the two lived a sweet and sweet life, especially when their son Xu He was born in 2001, this small family added infinite vitality and joy.
A family of three often appears in variety shows together, accepts magazine interviews, and is recognized by industry insiders and audiences as the perfect golden boy and girl couple. The time spent with his son also made Xu Yajun realize another meaning of life, and he cherished this simple family happiness even more.
After divorcing He Qing, he regained love and remarried and had children
However, due to differences in life philosophy and values, Xu Yajun's marriage with He Qing ended after 3 years. The divorce was another heavy blow to Xu Yajun, and his son Xu He decided to live with his father.
As a single father, Xu Yajun once fell into a state of depression. Until one day, on the golf course, Xu Yajun met actor Zhang Shu. Zhang Shu was gentle and considerate, taking care of Xu Yajun's injured heart, and the two got closer and closer at work. In 2008, Xu Yajun and Zhang Shu tied the knot. Soon after their marriage, they welcomed a lovely son. Xu Yajun, who regained a happy life, once again found the direction and meaning of being a man.
Four marriages have witnessed growth, and they have always fulfilled their fatherly responsibilities
Today, 57-year-old Xu Yajun has experienced the baptism of four marriages. He and his current wife Zhang Shu are white-headed, and his eldest son Xu He is studying Xi acting at the Central Academy of Drama, and the family of four is happy.
Looking back, although the emotional road was hard and bumpy, Xu Yajun never gave up his fatherly love for his two children, and always tried his best to fulfill the responsibilities of a father.
He watched the children grow up healthy and happy day by day, which is the best reward for his life. Not only that, Xu Yajun can also maintain a friendly relationship with his ex-wife He Qing, and his current wife Zhang Shu also treats his ex-children as his own, so that the father and son can live in a warm and friendly environment.
The four marriages have witnessed Xu Yajun's transformation from young and reckless to mature and steady, and he has always done his duty as a father.
Conclusion, modern parents are encouraged to learn to be tolerant
Xu Yajun's life story provides a reference model for modern parents. We should all learn to be tolerant and understanding like him, and even if we experience emotional divorce, we should try to maintain a friendly relationship and not let our children fall victim to emotional disputes.
In today's society, there are various forms of family, and it is important to create a complete and harmonious environment for children to grow up. I hope that more parents who are lost in emotional pain can find their original intentions, never forget their original intentions, and let their children grow up healthy and happy.