However, one day, I went to my grandfather's house and couldn't find him, only a strange middle-aged man dangling around in the yard. I walked over and asked him what was the matter with my grandfather, and when he heard me ask about him, an unnatural look flashed in his eyes, and he said that he was my grandfather's eldest son, that is, my eldest uncle.
This surprised me, because since I was a child, I had never heard my grandfather mention such an uncle. I hurriedly asked why my uncle was so unfamiliar with my grandfather, but he didn't say a word, just stood there silent.
I began to speculate in my heart that maybe it was the family conflict that caused a rift between this uncle and grandfather. Thinking of this, my mood also became a little heavy.
After a while, I finally found my grandfather in the back of the yard, sitting in the small pavilion with a preoccupied look. I hurried over and told my grandfather what had just happened. He sighed lightly and told me that family conflicts have intensified over the years, and he and his uncle have long been strangers.
When I heard this, I couldn't help but feel a pang in my heart. It is the most wrong decision for siblings to go to the step of "breaking off". I think we should try our best to save this family relationship, and no matter what happens, family members should be tolerant and understanding of each other.
I immediately decided to go to my uncle and do everything I could to help the brothers get back together. Although I don't know about the grievances between them, and I don't know how to resolve them, I believe that with sincerity, all difficulties can be overcome.
So, I first found my uncle's contact information, and after some twists and turns, I finally made an appointment to meet. My uncle didn't seem friendly, and he didn't want to talk to me about my grandfather at first, and even angrily said that he didn't want to talk about the family that had caused him pain.
However, I persevered, trying to communicate with my uncle and make him understand the pain and loss in his heart. Slowly, my uncle's attitude softened and he began to be willing to listen to me. He told me about the ins and outs of family conflicts, and it turned out that my grandfather and uncle had parted ways because of a disagreement and had been strangers ever since.
So, I started looking around for what had happened back then. With the help of my relatives and friends, I gradually learned about the past. It turned out that there was an accident in the family that year, which led to a major rift in the family relationship. And these, grandpa never mentioned.
After knowing these circumstances, I decided to find my grandfather, hoping to have a sincere communication with him and understand their hardships back then. Soon, my grandfather received me at home, and the wrinkles on his face seemed to be a little deeper, and he looked a little tired.
I was honest with my grandfather about everything I had learned, hoping that he would share the experience with me. Grandpa was silent for a while, and finally he took a long breath and began to tell the story.
It turned out that the accident of the year made him suffer a lot, and his heart was extremely remorseful and painful. He has always felt that he can't face his family, and he is even more reluctant to bring up this unbearable past again. Facing my grandfather's story, my heart was full of emotion. I realized that the entanglement of family affection is never simply right or wrong, and it contains more pain and helplessness.
I had a deep exchange with my grandfather, and we both let out the words that were deep in our hearts. Grandpa also frankly admitted his mistakes and expressed his willingness to try to get closer to his uncle again. I realized that this was what I had been looking forward to, the understanding and tolerance between my family.
And now, I am facing an even bigger challenge, that is, how to tell my uncle all this, how to make him willing to accept this sincerity from my grandfather to save family affection. It's a test of family, affection, and revenge, and I have to do everything I can to improve the situation so that my family can untie the knot and get back together.
In the evening of the same day, I came to my uncle's door. I rang the doorbell, and after a while, my uncle opened the door. He looked a little surprised when he saw me, but let me into the house anyway. In the warm living room, I told him in detail about my grandfather's mood and my hopes for family unity.
However, my uncle seemed very indifferent, he did not say anything, but listened to me silently. I felt a little discouraged, but now that I had come, I decided not to give up easily.
After a few days, I went to my uncle several more times, but each time it was the same result, and he had a cold attitude towards me. I started to feel like I was stuck in a dead end and didn't know what to do.
That's when I got a strange phone call. There was a stranger's voice on the other end of the line, who claimed to be my oldest cousin. He said a series of past conflicts between grandfather and uncle in the family, and it turned out that everything started with a family dispute decades ago.
I started to feel a little fluctuating inside of me, and I felt as if I was in the middle of a family mystery, and every detail was gripping. I began to realize that none of this was easy.
In the days that followed, I began to work harder to find clues about the family, hoping to figure out the truth behind it. At the same time, I am also trying to communicate with my uncle, hoping that he can let go of the knots in his heart.
Family relationships are always complicated, and the grievances and hatreds in them are difficult to dissect one by one. I know it's going to be a tough road to repair, but I'm willing to work hard for the sake of the family's feelings.
I didn't know what would happen next, but I was determined to find the answer and do my best to reconcile my family. May everything finally fall into place, and I look forward to the day when the family will unite as soon as possible.
I went to see my uncle the next day. He lives on the edge of town, in a small ordinary building. I knocked on his door, and he hesitated, but opened it anyway. When he saw me appear at the door, he looked a little stunned.
"Uncle, I'm here to find you, and I hope we can sit down and have a good talk. I tried to say in a calm tone.
My uncle was silent for a few seconds, and then he invited me into the house. The room was simply furnished, and it was clear that his life was not rich. We sat down, and I told him about my wish that he would get back together with Grandpa. The uncle was silent for a long time, and there was a trace of complicated emotions in his eyes.
"You may not understand that the contradictions between us cannot be resolved overnight. Uncle's tone was a little heavy, "There are too many entanglements and misunderstandings within the family, I'm afraid it's not something that your grandfather and I can easily solve." ”
I understand what my uncle meant, there must be more inside information behind this matter. However, I was not willing to give up easily, so I said, "Uncle, no matter what happens, please believe that I hope that family affection can be sublimated and the family can be united." I don't want you to agree with each other, I just hope that I can learn the truth of the matter from your mouth, and then find a solution together. ”
The uncle sat there and did not speak for a long time. Eventually, he sighed and slowly began to recount some of the past. He talked about the family fights, the conflicts between the brothers, and some past events that I had never heard of.
In the process of communicating with my uncle, I think I have understood that this conflict is far from as simple as it seems. The grievances and entanglements within the family have been deeply rooted in the bone marrow, and they are not something that I can easily solve alone. However, I have hope in my heart, and I don't want to give up cheaply.
Although my uncle didn't make any promises, he didn't reject my arrival, and he seemed to have struggles and entanglements in his heart. I know it won't happen overnight, but I'm willing to put in the time and effort.
I persuaded myself to persevere, hoping that everything I had done would rekindle the family relationship. I believe that if we listen to each other's voices, we may be able to find a solution. I plan to continue to keep in touch with my uncle and try to gradually dispel the mustard and misunderstandings that have accumulated over the years.
Perhaps, the contradictions between families do need time to dilute and require more understanding and communication. May this family entanglement not continue to continue.
It is not uncommon for the contradictions to be suddenly broken through. The originally harmonious relationship in the family often has conflicts due to some historical problems or outdoor factors. As for me, I am a young family member to outsiders, but within the family, sometimes I play the role of mediator between Cheng and family conflicts.
Before I decided to go looking for my uncle, I decided to have an in-depth conversation with my grandfather. Of course, I also respect the opinions of the elders in the family, but for me, it is crucial to resolve family conflicts. I know it's going to be a tough process, but I'm hopeful about my family's future and determined to give it my all.
The conversation with my grandfather was a long and difficult challenge. However, I found that the conflict between my grandfather and my uncle was not only because of family trivialities, but also because of the distribution of family property rights. The grandfather and the uncle had a major disagreement over property rights, which led to distrust and contradictions between them. On top of this question, it is difficult for grandpa to ignore and respond.
I deeply feel the pressure and difficulties that a person in his 60s endures, and the family problem is not only a generation gap, but also a deep and huge conflict of interests. I understand that I don't know much about the facts of my grandfather's youth, and I understand why he is so obsessed with these issues.
After my unremitting efforts and my aunt's coordination, my grandfather finally agreed to have a sincere conversation with my uncle. I brought my grandfather to my uncle's house, and I knew it was an extremely important moment. I left them, leaving only me and my grandfather's constant blessings.
After walking back along the trail, I stopped. I wasn't in a flurry mood. But I thought, maybe that's already a great start.
However, just when I thought everything was getting better, a new paradoxical event occurred. One day, my grandfather suddenly invited me and my uncle to the small pavilion, and he told him an amazing secret. It turned out that many years ago, for the sake of his own career and interests, his uncle had done something to hurt his grandfather. At that time, the matter was complicated, and the uncle did not hesitate to hurt his relatives in order to achieve his goals. Grandpa forgave him, but the knot in his heart was never unraveled. Grandpa told my uncle and me all this, hoping that we would understand and forgive.
This new truth is shocking. Neither my uncle nor I expected such a thing to happen. I looked at my uncle, his face full of guilt and remorse. All this is what makes the effort between us seem so insignificant. I was silent for a few moments, thinking about what to do. It's all so complicated, I can feel my uncle's inner struggle, and I can understand my grandfather's unrelieved feelings. The contradictions between us, the inner entanglements, have become extremely heavy.
"It's all my fault," the uncle finally couldn't contain the pain in his heart and muttered to himself. "I didn't expect these things to hurt my grandfather. 」
I took a deep breath and tried to calm my heart, "At this point, it is important to apologize, but more importantly, how to make amends. 」
"You don't have to worry about this," Grandpa said, holding our hand, "Home, we need to tolerate and understand each other. Now that it's happened, let's face it together and solve it together. 」