In 1954, Li Chengru was born in an ordinary family in Beijing. His father was a mechanic in a state-owned factory, and his mother was an ordinary housewife. When he was 2 years old, great changes took place in Li Cheng's Confucianism, his father died of illness, and his family had to sell the courtyard house and move his family into a small bungalow in the city.
In a simple living environment, Xiao Li Chengru accepted the baptism of poverty. At first, he, like any other child, lived a carefree life. However, as he grew older, he became aware of his family's difficult situation.
Watching my mother set up a stall on the street during the day and tailor clothes at night, she barely managed to maintain the family's food and clothing. Li Chengru is sensible, and after school, he also does odd jobs everywhere to earn money and help the family.
The harsh living environment did not break the will of the young Li Chengru, on the contrary, it made him active and wanted to change his fate and turn over. He constantly improved his cultural knowledge and often went to second-hand bookstores to flip through books.
At the age of 16, Li Chengru took the initiative to join a state-owned garment factory as an apprentice, accumulating life experience while working.
At the age of 20, Li Chengru was admitted to the amateur acting training class of Beijing Film Academy. Only then did I realize that acting was the career I really loved. Every weekend at school, Li Chengru Xi learned acting knowledge and skills as if he had found a new world.
In order to gain experience, he began to take the initiative to participate in campus drama performances, and gradually took on important roles. Performances can always bring Li Chengru a sense of happiness and satisfaction, which is the true direction of life.
In 1981, 27-year-old Li Chengru officially entered the entertainment industry and began a long career in drama management at the filming site of the TV series "Journey to the West". Run tricks during the day, and work overtime at night to set up scenery cloth props.
Although Li Chengru started from the grassroots level, he was not discouraged, but worked harder. Because he knows very well that this is the first step on the road to acting. 5 years of drama career has given Li Chengru a comprehensive understanding of film and television production, which has laid a solid foundation for his transformation into an actor in the future.
Li Chengru's first wife is Li Shirong, and the two can be said to be a good marriage. Li Shirong was born in a scholarly family, his father was a university professor, and his mother was an attending physician at the hospital.
She grew up in a warm family environment, was well-educated, and had an elegant temperament.
In 1981, Li Shirong met Li Chengru, who was still a nobody at the time, through the arrangement of his parents, and he liked the spirit of hard work of the other party. Soon after the marriage, a son Li Dahai was born.
In order to take care of the family, Li Shirong resolutely gave up his job and devoted himself to his husband and children. Li Chengru was struggling in the film and television industry at that time, and his income was meager.
Li Shirong took the initiative to take on the responsibility of the family regardless of his own education and raised Li Dahai alone.
In the early 90s, Li Chengru went to the sea to do business, and finally ushered in a rising period of his career. One investment after another has been a huge success, and the family's situation has changed dramatically.
There are all kinds of luxury cars and mansions, and Li Chengru has set up a high-end residential area for the whole family to live in. However, the mixed shopping malls have gradually corroded Li Chengru's temperament.
He looked down on his wife Li Shirong and felt that it did not match his current social status, so he began to frequent various social occasions.
In 1995, Li Chengru, who had reached the peak of his career, forcibly filed for divorce from Li Shirong. For a time, the mother and son lost their financial resources and were forced to move out of the mansion and return to the 18-square-meter old house to live.
Li Shirong felt her husband's change of heart, but in order to raise Li Dahai, she reluctantly chose to compromise. Since then, he has lived a difficult life, barely surviving only by painting.
And Li Chengru no longer cares about his abandoned wife and children. Li Chengru and Li Shirong's son, Li Dahai, has shown amazing musical talent since he was a child. He could easily memorize the tunes he had heard and try to imitate them. Li Dahai often sneaks to the school's music classroom alone and teaches himself to play and sing with a simple acoustic guitar.
Music, as if born with instinct, was the most moving part of his young mind. However, Li Chengru did not agree with his son's fanatical pursuit of music. He believes that music is just a hobby, and Li Dahai should devote more time to his studies and find a stable job in the future.
Li Chengru severely criticized and even punished Li Dahai for practicing the piano without permission, and ordered him to concentrate on learning Xi. This brought a huge shadow to Li Dahai's growth, and his beautiful musical dream fell through.
In 1995, Li Dahai graduated from high school, and at this time he faced the first major decision in his life. Li Chengru has repeatedly stressed that it is necessary to choose a stable employment path.
But Li Dahai has made a decision in his heart, and he knows very well that music is where his life lies. In the end, he resolutely decided to give up his studies and enter the entertainment industry to develop his music career.
Li Chengru strongly opposed this decision, and even cut off his financial resources, hoping to force his son to comply. However, Li Dahai did not give up his dream. In the song and dance troupe in Beijing, he started from the basics, pouring tea during the day and doing tricks during the day, and moving props and miscellaneous at night. To deal with the complex and delicate interpersonal relationships in the entertainment industry, Li Dahai has experienced a grind, but he has not given up.
Five years later, in 2000, Li Dahai proved himself with his strength and became an excellent music creator. Every time he thinks of his father's opposition, he is still full of resentment.
In 2002, Li Dahai devoted himself to the life of his family, hoping to improve the living conditions for his hardworking and thrifty mother. He took the initiative to contact Li Chengru and wanted to borrow money to buy a house.
But Li Chengru not only refused to support, but also insulted his son's "self-indulgence". Entering his later years, Li Chengru's body and career fell into a trough at the same time. Frequent physical discomfort kept him in and out of the hospital repeatedly. In his career, one work after another has failed, and the future is bleak.
At this time, Li Chengru suddenly realized that he was old, but he was alone and did not have any relatives by his side. When he thought of abandoning his family and business when he was young, he was filled with remorse.
In order to make up for his mistakes, 68-year-old Li Chengru took the initiative to contact his son Li Dahai, hoping to rebuild the relationship between the two. At first, Li Dahai took a cold attitude towards his father's overtures, because the scars did not heal completely.
But seeing Li Chengru's health deteriorating, he still couldn't bear to keep snubbing his sick-ridden father. In the winter of 2010, Li Chengru was rushed to the hospital due to a sudden cerebral hemorrhage. After the operation, he was bedridden with half of his body, and Li Dahai saw it in his eyes and decided to move in to take care of his father's daily life.
After the day's work, he came to the hospital every night to accompany his father and take care of his emotions. Li Dahai carefully washed his father's body, fed him, and read to him to relieve his boredom.
At this moment, Li Chengru deeply realized the preciousness of family affection. Two months later, Li Chengru finally recovered and was discharged from the hospital. On the day he was discharged from the hospital, he was in a wheelchair, and Li Dahai personally pushed him out of the building step by step. The warm sunlight sprinkled on the faces of the two, and Li Chengru glanced at his son deeply, with tears in the corners of his eyes.
At this moment, the wall of estrangement between father and son collapsed in an instant, and all that remained was endless pity for each other.
In his later years, Li Chengru gained the most precious thing in his life - the company of his family. Every year on important festivals, Li Dahai will take his wife and children home for reunion. The care in the words between father and son always moved Li Chengru.
He was sincerely grateful to his son for his generosity and gave him the opportunity to make amends. Li Chengru, who is close to old age, spent a warm and happy ending in his life surrounded by his family.
The reconciliation of the father-son relationship is undoubtedly a positive signal for Li Dahai. This marks that he is stepping out of his father's shadow and regaining the initiative in life.
However, we must also be soberly aware that the scars will not disappear completely after all, and this will take a process.
Years of family injuries have distorted Li Dahai's inner world to a certain extent. He developed a dependent and passive character in his ignorance. If this kind of trauma is not treated, it is likely to turn into a psychological disorder, which in turn affects Li Dahai's normal interaction with others and society.
Therefore, Li Dahai is facing the test of self-growth. It takes time for him to heal and build a sense of self-identity and values. Through appropriate counselling and therapy, students can learn Xi control their emotions and develop self-confidence.
And take the initiative to break the passive state of the past and gain a dominant position in career and emotion. In this process, it is especially important to re-examine the meaning of family affection. Family affection does provide spiritual sustenance, but over-dependence can also limit self-growth.
Li Dahai should not be defined by his father's expectations, but should find his inner spiritual support. He needs to realize that he is the master of his life and that he is responsible for his choices.
Father-son affection should not be a shackle, but support and encouragement. Looking forward to the future, whether Li Dahai can overcome his inner obstacles and achieve happiness requires the joint action of himself and the external environment. We have reason to be optimistic about Li Dahai.
He has the courage and perseverance to pursue his dreams, and the resilience to face adversity. It's important to believe in yourself and draw strength from everyone around you. The intertwined web of family, friendship and love will become the strongest backing for Li Dahai's growth.
Life is full of unknowns, but as long as you maintain positive energy and a positive attitude, a happy ending will come. This is not only Li Dahai's life, but also the ups and downs that every ordinary person may encounter.
Cherish every relationship and experience in life as they are interwoven into our unique chapter of life.