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My name is Li Fang, I am 47 years old and I am a housewife. I have an 18-year-old son named Li Tian. My husband died of illness a few years ago, and now Li Tian and I are left to rely on each other.
Li Tian has been very well-behaved since he was a child, and his grades are also good. I tried my best to bring him up, hoping that he could study hard and Xi well and have a good future in the future. But since entering high school, Li Tian has become more and more rebellious. He often stayed outside late and didn't tell me where he went. I told him several times to pay attention to the time, but he didn't listen.
I went to the market as usual that day to buy groceries and came home in the evening. As soon as he opened the door, the room was quiet, and Li Tian's door was closed.
"Li Tian?" I knocked on his door a few times, but there was no movement inside.
This is not normal, Li Tian should be at home at this point. I had a bad premonition, and immediately took out the spare key to open the door of Li Tian's room.
Li Tianzheng was sitting at his desk, holding a syringe in his hand, and a small bag of white powder was placed on the table.
I was stunned: "Li Tian, what are you doing here? Is this a drug?"
I stepped forward and grabbed the syringe he was hiding behind me, and my voice was trembling: "I have long felt that something is wrong with you recently, it turns out that you are really taking drugs! Li Tian, how can you do such a thing?"
Li Tian's face turned red and white for a while, and he suddenly jumped up and yelled at me: "What's the matter with you? I'm just taking drugs, what can you do to me?"
I was taken aback by his sudden irritability, and my heart was very sad. I persuaded him with red eyes: "Every day, drugs are very hurtful, you can't touch them anymore." Mom knows that you have been bewitched by others, but for your own sake, you must quit!"
"Shut up!" Li Tian looked excited, "You know what? I like to suck this, it makes me feel so good!"
I looked at the strange child in front of me who was suffering from drug addiction, and my heart was like a knife. I held back my tears and shouted to him with all my strength: "Li Tian, you sober me up! This is not you!
You're a good boy I grew up with, how can you get this kind of thing? Every day, listen to my mother, and throw all this damn thing away. I pleaded.
But Li Tian couldn't listen to it at all, and he shouted hysterically: "I'm going to suck it! What's the matter with you? You're just my mother, you can't control me!"
I looked at the strange son in front of me, and my heart was like a knife. "Every day, how can you say such a thing? Mom is for your good, I hope you stay away from drugs!"
"Don't do this! You're just trying to control my life!" Li Tian yelled at me, "I've had enough of you!"
After saying that, he turned around and took out a kitchen knife from the drawer and pointed it at me!
I was terrified, took a few steps back, and saw Li Tian walking towards me with a kitchen knife.
"Li Tian, calm down and put the knife down!" I clasped my hands in front of me, and my voice was shaking.
"Every day, I'm your mother!" With tears in my eyes, I begged, "You can't be the one you vent to!"
Li Tian's hand raising the knife suddenly paused, and I hurriedly asked: "Tiantian, tell Mom, what difficulties have you encountered? Mom will definitely help you." ”
The hideous expression on Li Tian's face slowly softened, and the tip of the knife gradually drooped.
After a while, he suddenly choked up, and the knife fell to the ground. Li Tian held his head in his hands and squatted on the ground, his shoulders shrugged.
I walked over slowly, crouched down, and hugged my son into my arms. "Every day, tell your mother, what is it that makes you so miserable?"
Li Tian cried heartbreakingly in my arms. I whispered comfort, stroking his back one at a time.
After a long time, Li Tian gradually calmed down. "Mom, I'm sorry, I was wrong. He choked up.
I stroked his hair and asked him to tell him slowly.
It turned out that Li Tian was bullied by some delinquent teenagers at school, and was also lured by them to take drugs. At first, Li Tian refused, but then slowly became addicted. He knew it was wrong, but he couldn't control himself and could only hide it from me.
Today I suddenly realized that he felt ashamed and embarrassed, which is why he was so irritable.
"Every day, I'm sorry, it's your mother who didn't give you enough care and care that made you go on this path. From now on, no matter what difficulties you encounter, you have to tell your mother, you know?" I stroked Li Tian's hair and said apologetically.
Li Tian sobbed and nodded: "Mom, I know it's wrong, I shouldn't have taken drugs, and I shouldn't have lost my temper with you, I'm sorry." ”
I looked at him distressedly and wiped away the tears from his face: "Every day, as long as you are willing to correct it, my mother will always be with you." We will be able to get through this. ”
"Hmm. Li Tian nodded heavily, "I'll quit my addiction, I promise you." ”
"Good boy, take one step at a time, and we will solve any difficulties slowly. I smiled and encouraged him.
"Every day, get up and eat!" I knocked on his door.
"Here comes Mom!" After a while, Li Tian finished washing up and came to the dining table.
"Wow, that's so good!" He looked at the dishes on the table, his eyes lit up, and then he looked at me a little embarrassed, "Mom, I'm sorry, I shouldn't have done that to you yesterday." ”
I walked over and patted him on the shoulder: "Every day, Mom has long stopped holding grudges. Let's have a good meal and figure out how to deal with your addiction together, okay?"
"Good!" Li Tian nodded heavily.
After breakfast, I accompanied Li Tian to do a drug rehabilitation plan. I will always be with him during the day; In the evening I put away all possible dangerous items; Exercise every day to strengthen his willpower.
In the days that followed, my mother and son began to carry out this plan. In the first few days, Li Tian's drug addiction was severe and his mood was very unstable. At his worst, I hugged him and said:
"Every day, mom is here with you. You can beat addiction, believe in yourself!"
Li Tian nodded, cried in my arms for a long time, and finally calmed down.
In this way, with my company and encouragement, Li Tian gradually passed the most difficult stage, and the number of drug addiction episodes became less and less. I've come to feel at ease with having him home alone, but I'll always be back early every night to be with him.
Finally, after a month of drug rehabilitation, Li Tian ran up to me excitedly: "Mom, I haven't had a drug addiction for a week! ”
I hugged him with relief: "Every day, Mom is so proud of you! You are indeed a brave and good boy." ”
"It's all thanks to your company and support, Mom, thank you. Li Tian was full of gratitude.
"Our mother and son supported each other to get to where we are today. I laughed.
To celebrate Li Tian's progress, I made a sumptuous table of good dishes. After dinner, Li Tian offered to talk to me about how he felt during this time.
"Mom, in the process of detoxification, I experienced great pain, and even had moments when I wanted to give up. Thankfully, you have been there for me, giving me the confidence and strength to get through. Li Tian said.
"Mom is also very hard, always having to take care of your emotional ups and downs. But that's my responsibility as a mother. I held Li Tian's hand and said.
Li Tian nodded: "I know, I will definitely cherish you and stop worrying about you." ”
"Well, as long as our mother and son communicate more and support each other, there is no hurdle that cannot be overcome. I laughed.
"I'll remember. Li Tian said solemnly.
Since then, Li Tian has gradually returned to normal life and Xi order, and he has also regained his strength and is no longer depressed.
I always pay attention to Li Tian's state. At one point, he came back from school and seemed very unhappy.
"Every day, did something happen?" I asked with concern.
Li Tian hesitated for a moment, but still said: "Today, those people who once tempted me to take drugs came to provoke me again, and I am very sad. ”
Hearing this, my heart tightened, and I quickly said, "Tiantian, you did a good job and didn't listen to them. In the future, you must tell your mother when you encounter this situation, you know?"
Li Tian nodded: "I know, Mom." With you, I have the courage to face them. ”
I hugged Li Tian and felt extremely relieved. The relationship between mother and child is stronger than in the past, and I believe that with this relationship, we will be able to overcome all difficulties and usher in a bright future.
Time flies, and in a blink of an eye, Li Tian has successfully quit drug addiction for two years. He gradually grew up and became more and more mature and steady.
One day, Li Tianxing came to me and said, "Mom, I have been admitted to the university of my choice! My dream has come true!"
"Great, every day!" I gave him a big hug and said, "Mommy is so proud of you!"
"Thank you for nurturing me all these years. Li Tian said sincerely.
I smiled and shook my head: "Every day, you can be admitted to the ideal university today, it all depends on your own efforts, it has nothing to do with my mother." You have chosen the path of life for good, and this is the most important thing. ”
Li Tian nodded: "I'll remember, Mom." Based on my life experience, I will try to help more young people who are in trouble and give them strength. ”
"Mom believes you can do it. I said with a smile.
In this way, Li Tian went to college smoothly. Before the start of school, we had a warm goodbye.
"Mom, I'll take care of myself, don't worry. Li Tian hugged me and said.
"I know, every day, you've grown up. Remember to call home often. ”
"I will, Mom. Li Tian nodded solemnly.
Seeing my son leave home and embark on a new journey in life, my heart is filled with relief and blessings.
Four years of college passed in a flash, and Li Tian successfully graduated. He chose a career as a teacher, became an excellent teacher, and actively helped students with problems.
One day, Li Tianxing came to me and said, "Mom, I'm getting married! ”
"Great, every day!" I hugged him excitedly and couldn't be happier for him.
"Mom, I'm really lucky to have met you, a great mother. Li Tian said sincerely, "It was because you didn't give up on me that I was able to get back on track and embark on today's sunny road." ”
I was moved to tears. I know that the mother-son relationship between me and Li Tian will always be strong and last until the end of time.
Today, I am in my 70s, Li Tian is almost 40, and he has also become a father.
On this day, Li Tian brought his wife and children to visit me, and the children happily called me "grandma".
"Mom, are you okay? Li Tian asked me with concern.
"I'm fine, every day, you don't have to worry. I have a good and fulfilling life. I laughed.
"That's good. Mom, I will never forget your kindness to me and pass it on to my children. Li Tian said solemnly.
I touched Li Tian's head, like when I was a child: "Every day, I just want you to be happy." You have your own family now, and you should cherish it too. ”
"I know, Mom. Li Tian nodded.
I turned to Li Tian's children again: "Baby, listen to your parents and be a good child." ”
"Got it, Grandma!" The children smiled and agreed.
Looking at their innocent smiling faces, I felt extremely gratified.
Before leaving, Li Tian hugged me again and said, "Mom, I will continue to work hard to help children in difficulty and pass on your mother's love." ”
"Good boy, mommy is so proud of you!" I hugged him tightly.
Seeing the three of them leave, my heart was filled with happiness.
However, my physical condition has gradually deteriorated recently and I need to be hospitalized.
After Li Tian learned about it, he came to the hospital every day to see me, and called his wife and children.
"Mom, if you need anything, you must tell me. Li Tian held my hand.
I smiled and nodded, "I'm fine, Tiantian, don't worry too much." ”
During my days in the hospital, Li Tian's family chatted and played chess with me, which made me feel very warm.
One day, when Li Tian came, I was dying.
"Mom, you hold on!" Li Tian held my hand, his eyes filled with tears.
"Mom!" Li Tian couldn't cry.