Wang Xinjun and Tang Jing's marriage
One day in 1999, Wang Xinjun, who had just graduated from university, received the first job offer as an actor in his life, the second male lead in an urban romance drama. To his surprise, his female lead in the crew was veteran actor Tang Jing, a star that Wang Xinjun had admired for a long time before entering the industry.
It just so happened that the first rivalry between the two was a young couple, which made Wang Xinjun even more nervous and excited.
Facing the mature and beautiful sister-like goddess in his mind, Wang Xinjun was a little embarrassed, but Tang Jing quickly dispelled his uneasiness with a gentle and considerate professional attitude.
In many chats, Wang Xinjun was gradually attracted by the inner charm of Tang Jing's wisdom and humor, and a student's admiration for a teacher sprouted in his heart. Finally, Wang Xinjun mustered up all the courage to confess to Tang Jing, fortunately, this sincere love touched Tang Jing, and she gladly accepted the pursuit of this immature junior.
In 1999, Tang Jing, who had a little love experience, soon entered the palace of marriage with Wang Xinjun, who had just entered the industry. At the beginning of his marriage, Wang Xinjun wanted to catch up with his wife as soon as possible and gain a place in the entertainment industry.
He was running around, constantly fighting for his chances. Tang Jing felt sorry for her husband's rush and decided to lend a hand - she would use her connections and resources to help Wang Xinjun win more performance opportunities.
However, Wang Xinjun's self-esteem did not allow him to rely only on his wife. Although Tang Jing's kindness touched him very much, not having the ability to take charge alone would still make him feel inferior.
So when he encounters problems at work, he can't help but lose his temper in front of his wife. 7 years after marriage, in order to take care of the children, Tang Jing took the initiative to file for divorce from Wang Xinjun, who still went his own way.
Changes between the parties after the divorce
In 2009, the divorce of Wang Xinjun and Tang Jing caused a sensation in the entertainment industry. Countless people speculated about who was responsible, but the husband and wife did not say a word. After the divorce, Tang Jing resolutely decided to quit the entertainment industry, and she no longer appeared on the big screen, because her 7-year-old son needed his mother's company more.
Faced with the role of a single mother, Tang Jing showed amazing willpower and perseverance. During the day, she devotes herself to taking care of her children, and at night, she works her own business.
She realized that it was difficult to gain a foothold in this circle by relying only on acting skills, so she transformed into a producer. With her rich connections and vision in the entertainment industry, Tang Jing has shown super ability in the production of many works, and has become a model of a successful strong woman on her own.
In 2014, Tang Jing won the top ten TV series producers of the year for the costume drama "Farewell to Red Mansions". She reached the pinnacle of her career and became one of the best in the industry.
At the same time, the scandalous sweet relationship between her ex-husband Wang Xinjun and young actor Qin Hailu was also exposed. It turned out that the two had fallen in love 3 years ago and were now preparing to get married in a flash.
Wang Xinjun's career after the divorce was not satisfactory, and he did not have any masterpieces for several years. In order to save face and fame, he chose to make his relationship with Qin Hailu public and get married.
Facing Qin Hailu, who is 4 years younger than him and sexy, Wang Xinjun once again regained his sense of happiness. Their married life is full of sweetness and pampering. Wang Xinjun hopes that through this relationship, he will regain the peak state of his career.
Analyze the motivation of Wang Xinjun's marriage choice
Back then, Wang Xinjun chose to abandon Tang Jing, who helped him become famous, and in a blink of an eye, he fell in love with Qin Hailu again.
As an actor, Wang Xinjun's heart is actually very fragile. Despite Tang Jing's support, it is still difficult to gain a firm foothold in the entertainment industry. Repeated failed attempts will make him feel inferior and timid.
Tang Jing's support was unbearable pressure for him. So he chose to escape from reality and not face his wife.
Three years after the divorce, Wang Xinjun met Qin Hailu, the savior. Facing the hot and sexy actress, Wang Xinjun's vanity swelled. Maybe through this relationship, he can start again and return to the top.
So Wang Xinjun stumbled in and pursued Qin Hailu recklessly. Wang Xinjun, who successfully harvested the fruits of love in 2014, was enthusiastic and spoiled Qin Hailu to the sky, in a vain attempt to fill the regrets of his career through this sweetness.
However, the reality is brutal. Wang Xinjun found that his acting skills did not increase because of love, and his career was still in a slump. What's worse is that Tang Jing, the former backstage, has become the top strong woman in the industry.
Feeling more and more that he has nothing, will Wang Xinjun regret his choice? Obviously, he could have had a smooth ride, but he gave up the most precious thing because of his greed for pleasure.
In fact, Tang Jing and Qin Hailu are just people Wang Xinjun met on the road of life. The key is to see how you cherish it. We should not drift with the flow and be fooled by temporary external conditions.
Learn to reflect, recognize yourself, and make choices that are truly conducive to growth. Maybe Tang Jing is not the most shining one, but the support she gives is the most sincere. It is hoped that Wang Xinjun will find his own direction in the future.
Story revelation
Wang Xinjun's life experience provides us with inspiration worthy of reflection. First, when choosing a partner, you should not only look at the outside, but also consider the inner qualities.
Second, you need to be cautious on the emotional road and not give up lightly. Third, there are bumps and bumps on the road to growth, and we must dare to face problems head-on in order to become a better version of ourselves.
Wang Xinjun's story warns us not to be deceived by appearances. We must cherish those who truly support us, and don't look down on our superiors. At the same time, we need to learn to be tolerant and reflective.
I believe that as long as you work hard to find your inner balance, you will one day find your own happiness.