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It's been ten years since I divorced my ex-wife, Li Mei. For ten years, I have always thought that Li Mei resolutely divorced me because she really wanted me to be free and didn't want to be a burden to me. It wasn't until one day ten years later that I realized that Li Mei's divorce back then was actually a revenge on me.
On the day of the divorce, I still remember Li Mei saying to me with red eyes: "Lao Wang, I want you to be free, I don't want to be a burden to you, let's divorce." I don't want any property, just a divorce agreement. ”
I was a little surprised, and asked her tentatively: "Meimei, are you sure you want a divorce?" I'm sorry for you all these years, I can correct it." ”
Li Mei shook her head and said resolutely: "No need, I have figured it out." You and I don't have compatible personalities, and the relationship is long gone. Let's set ourselves free. ”
I saw that Li Mei was so resolute, so I stopped persuading and signed the divorce directly. I thought Li Mei would cry bitterly, but I didn't expect her to leave after signing with a blank face.
After the divorce, I felt relieved and continued my flirtatious single life. And Li Mei seems to have evaporated from the world, and I have never heard anything from her again.
It wasn't until ten years later that I met Li Mei in the park. I haven't seen her for ten years, and she seems to have the same appearance, and her figure is more tall and shapely. I went up to say hello, and Li Mei obviously recognized me, and a hint of surprise flashed across her face.
"Li Mei, what a coincidence, I haven't seen you for ten years, and you don't look the same at all. I laughed.
Li Mei replied politely: "Oh, Lao Wang, you are okay." ”
"I heard that you went abroad to develop?" I tried to say hello to Li Mei.
"Well, I went to the United States. Li Mei said.
"And how are you doing?" I asked.
Li Mei smiled silently, and then said, "Lao Wang, let's find a place to sit down and talk, there are some things I want to make clear to you." ”
I was a little confused about Li Mei's intentions, but I still followed her to a nearby café and sat down face to face.
Li Mei ordered two cups of coffee first, then looked at me and said, "Lao Wang, it has been ten years since we divorced, and I want to make it clear to you why I filed for divorce back then." ”
I looked at Li Mei in surprise, her expression was calm, not joking.
"It wasn't because I wanted you to be free. "It's because I want to take revenge on you, because I want you to taste the pain of abandonment. ”
My eyes widened in surprise: "What? You said to take revenge on me? For so many years, I always thought that you really thought that you were really thinking about me, so it turns out that you still have such a big grudge in your heart?"
Li Mei sneered: "Why should I think about the cheating scumbag? I just don't want to be hurt by you anymore, so I chose to leave." ”
Li Mei took a sip of coffee and continued: "Lao Wang, when you cheated, every time I found out, I would cry bitterly, please don't hurt me again." But you're once, twice, three times, or the number of times I've found out. I know you have no intention of correcting it at all, and it will only become more and more rampant. ”
"At that time, I was really desperate and even thought about suicide. Later, I figured out that instead of being hurt by you, it is better to take the initiative to leave and let you taste the pain of being abandoned. ”
I still wanted to say something, Li Mei waved her hand: "Don't explain, I don't care about those excuses." The important thing is that in the past ten years, I have lived well, had a successful career, and found a better other half. And you? Have you had a good 10 years?"
I was silent, looking back on my life in the past ten years, it was indeed empty and lonely. Li Mei looked at me and sneered: "I think too, people like you are destined to only rely on affairs for fun, and will never really be happy." ”
"I just want you to taste my pain. Now it seems that I have succeeded in revenge. Li Mei finished her coffee and stood up.
"Come on, what's the use of introspection?" Li Mei interrupted me, "People won't change, you will always be that selfish scumbag." Forget it, that's it, I just want you to know the truth today. Goodbye, Wang. ”
After saying that, Li Mei left without looking back, leaving me to sit alone in the café, and my mind was a mess.
It turned out that Li Mei's "generosity" back then was just revenge on me. She didn't really forgive and forget at all, she just calmly chose to leave, and then through her own efforts to live better, to prove my mistakes, so as to take revenge on me.
I think of our married life, my infidelity and hurt, and the way Li Mei endured humiliation. Now that I think about it, how selfish and hateful I am. Li Mei's revenge, I really did it myself.
In the past ten years, I have spent my life in vain, wandering around the flowers all day, and I have no real happiness. And Li Mei not only has a successful career, but also found a better other half. Thinking about this, I can't help but feel ashamed of what I did.
Just then, the waitress at the café came to me and said, "Sir, your friend has paid, let me tell you that you don't have to pay her share." ”
I was stunned for a moment, nodded and thanked him. Li Mei is still that kind and considerate woman, even if she hates me in her heart, she still doesn't forget to pay me for coffee.
I sat alone for a long time, and my mind was full of the scene from the day of Li Mei's divorce. I remember her saying to me with red eyes, "Let you be free", I just thought she didn't want to be a burden to me, who knew that this simple sentence actually concealed her plans and revenge.
"Li Mei, we need to talk again. "I put it bluntly.
Li Mei frowned and looked at me: "Lao Wang, I thought we had made it clear, and there was no need to talk about it again." ”
"Please, give me a chance to be a new person. I pleaded, "I know you hate me, but please don't walk away." ”
Li Mei looked at me and finally nodded: "Then go to the park near the company and say." ”
When we came to the park, I took a deep breath and looked at Li Mei seriously: "I'm sorry, I've been misunderstanding you for the past ten years, and I'm still immersed in my own mistakes and can't extricate myself." It was only when I heard you tell the truth yesterday that I suddenly woke up. ”
Li Mei listened quietly and did not speak.
I continued: "I figured it out, I shouldn't be grateful to Dade for not revealing the truth. What I did was wrong, and you have the right to choose revenge. It's just that I didn't expect the pain in your heart to be so deep. ”
"Li Mei, I really know that I was wrong. You could have called me a scumbag, but you still calmly chose to leave. You've been doing so well for the past ten years, and I've achieved nothing. This is the retribution I deserve. ”
Li Mei finally spoke: "Lao Wang, I can hear your introspection, and I am already very satisfied." It's just that something can't make up for it, and we can't be together again. ”
"I understand. I nodded, "It's just that I want to apologize again and wish you well for the rest of your life." This time, I will really reflect and stop repeating my mistakes.
Li Mei's words made me think deeply. It is true that the mistakes of the past cannot be remedied, and we cannot be together again.
"Li Mei, although it is irretrievable, I still have one more thing I want to ask you. I plucked up the courage to say.
"You say. Li Mei looked at me.
"Back then, why did you sign the divorce without any pain and reluctance, but so peaceful?" I asked the question that had been bothering me.
Li Mei was silent for a while before she slowly spoke: "Because my heart is dead." ”
"Every time I find out that you cheat and come back, I have an emotional breakdown. Later, I suddenly realized that no matter how much I cry and make trouble, I can't change you, it will only make myself more miserable. I understand that our relationship has completely broken down. So I chose to let go. ”
A trace of sadness flashed in Li Mei's eyes: "I thought, if my heart is still alive, how can I sign the divorce with a blank face?"
My heart suddenly tightened, it turned out that before I knew it, Li Mei had already experienced so much pain and despair.
Li Mei shook her head: "It's over, I won't suffer from it anymore." It was only then that I met Zhang Wei in the United States, and he made me learn to believe and love people again. Lao Wang, I am very happy now, I hope you can also find your own happiness. ”
I nodded: "Thank you Li Mei, I will." This time, I really knew where the error was. I will correct myself, and I wish you and Zhang Wei happiness. ”
"Well, I wish you the best of luck. Li Mei smiled slightly.
We chatted for a while, and the conversation lightened. Before leaving, Li Mei said to me, "Lao Wang, we are friends now. If you need any help, just feel free to come to me. ”
I nodded gratefully. This time, Li Mei finally took off her guard and blessed me sincerely. I know, she forgave me.
I put Li Mei in a taxi and watched her leave. During this conversation, I finally understood a lot of things. I will not repeat the mistakes of the past, but will cherish the people in front of me and live in the present.
Life is still long, and I believe that happiness will come knocking on my door. The ending is no longer important, what matters is the process and the present.
I followed Li Mei's advice and started actively looking for a stable job. Through my own efforts, I finally found a suitable position in a company. After work, I no longer linger in the flowers all day long, but strive to do my job well, which has been recognized by my leaders and colleagues.
One day, I received a call from Li Mei, who said that she and Zhang Wei were getting married and wanted to invite me to their wedding. I readily agreed.
On the day of the wedding, I put on a formal suit and came to the scene. Li Mei wore a beautiful wedding dress and exchanged rings and hugs with Zhang Wei on stage. The scene was filled with a happy atmosphere.
After the wedding, I went up to hug the couple and wished them well. Li Mei said to me happily: "Lao Wang, I'm glad that you can come to my wedding. It proves that we have really started a new life. ”
I nodded: "I'm glad to be here too." I wish you all happiness and happiness!"
"Thank you!" Li Mei's eyes flashed with happiness.
Later, under the witness of Li Mei and Zhang Wei, I also met my new girlfriend Xiaolin. She is cheerful and lively, and she fits my personality perfectly.
"Lao Wang, I think Xiaolin is a good girl, you have to cherish it. Li Mei said to me with a smile.
"Thank you, I will. "I also sincerely thank Li Mei.
Now we have all found our own happiness and home. Every festival, we will also get together, chat happily, eat, and the atmosphere is harmonious and warm.
Trust and understanding between people are the cornerstones of relationships. In the past, I was selfish and disregarded Li Mei's feelings, which led to the failure of my marriage. Now I finally understand that a relationship can only last if you respect and cherish the people you love.
I am grateful to Li Mei for making me a new person, and I am also grateful for life for giving me the opportunity to start over. I will keep the lessons in mind and live a new version of myself.
On the road of life, Li Mei and I have already gone through a while. Although there were misunderstandings and pains, I finally found my happiness, which is the best result.
My relationship with Kobayashi is getting more and more stable, and now we are engaged. At the engagement ceremony, Li Mei and Zhang Wei also came to give us blessings.
"Congratulations!" Li Mei smiled and hugged me and Xiaolin.
"Thank you!" I also say it from the bottom of my heart.
"Lao Wang, this time you have to treat Xiaolin well. Don't repeat the mistakes of the past. Li Mei instructed me earnestly.
I nodded, "I will, I'm not who I used to be." ”
Xiao Lin also smiled and said, "Sister Li Mei, don't worry, I will discipline him well." ”
"Haha, then I'm relieved. You must be happy!" Li Mei smiled happily.
The wedding day is getting closer and closer, and Kobayashi and I are busy preparing. Li Mei and Zhang Wei also often came to help and give us advice.
Finally, on a sunny day, Xiaolin and I entered the palace of marriage. At the ceremony, Li Mei, as our witness, witnessed our wedding with a smile.
"You have to cherish each other forever and live every moment of your life. Li Mei said with emotion.
I glanced at Li Mei deeply, nodded, and took Xiao Lin's hand.
After marriage, Kobayashi and I lived happily. Li Mei and Zhang Wei occasionally come to the house as guests, and we chatted about the bits and pieces of work and life, and we had a good time.
One day, Li Mei said to me: "Lao Wang, I have let go of what happened back then, and I no longer hold grudges. We are all masters of our own lives now. ”
I shook her hand gratefully: "Thank you Li Mei, and I wish you and Zhang Wei eternal happiness." ”
"Well, let it pass. We live in the moment and enjoy the life of the present. Li Mei said with a smile.
I nodded, feeling more peace and satisfaction than I had ever felt before. Life is still long, the mistakes of the past cannot define a person, what matters is the present and the future. I will spend my life hand in hand with Xiaolin, and I will always cherish Li Mei as a good friend.
I am grateful to everyone in my life for showing up and making me grow and reflect. I will always remember the past, and I will definitely be better in the future.