The 65-year-old uncle's blind date asked the woman to "have nothing", matchmaker: You still play singles
Our story has to start with a 65-year-old uncle. This uncle, surnamed Li, let's call him Uncle Li. Uncle Li is a very energetic old man, although he is a little older, his body is still strong. No, he went to a marriage agency a few days ago to find an old wife to spend his old age with. But this trip to the marriage agency made a lot of noise.
As soon as Uncle Li walked into the marriage agency, the matchmaker greeted him warmly. After a few words of greeting, the matchmaker began to ask Uncle Li about his blind date requirements. Uncle Li didn't beat around the bush, and directly said his "three nothings" principle.
What are the "three nos"? First, there are no children and no daughters, second, no burdens, and third, no bad habits. As for this "one being", it is necessary to have a good body. Uncle Li said that these points are his bottom line, and none of them can be missing.
As soon as the matchmaker heard this, she muttered in her heart: This Uncle Li's requirements are too harsh, right? There are no children and no daughters, so many suitable candidates have been excluded; plus there are no burdens and no bad habits, how many people are left? Not to mention having a good body. Where is this looking for a wife, it's just picking a saint!
But the matchmaker is also a smart person, she didn't tell Uncle Li about this directly. She thought about it and decided to introduce Uncle Li to a few things with relatively close conditions. So, she picked a few old ladies who had no children and no daughters and were quite strong to meet Uncle Li.
But these few blind dates have not been successful. Why? Because although those old ladies meet the conditions of the "three nos", in the eyes of Uncle Li, they always feel that they are still a little bit meaningless. Either he thinks that the old lady is not energetic enough, or he thinks that other people's interests and hobbies do not match him. Anyway, I just couldn't find the person who made him excited.
The matchmaker saw it in her eyes and was anxious in her heart. She felt that Uncle Li's "three nothings" principle was too limiting the range of choices. She couldn't help but say to Uncle Li: "Uncle, your requirements are too high, right? Look at your age, you're not too young, aren't you?
Uncle Li was not happy when he heard this: "What's the matter? I can't ask for anything when I'm old, I have to find a wife who I like?"
The matchmaker hurriedly explained: "Oh, uncle, don't be angry! I didn't mean that." I mean, you're so demanding that you can't find the right person!
Uncle Li thought for a while and said, "Then that's it, matchmaker, forget about the childless and daughterless in the 'three nos'." As long as the other two conditions are met, it will be fine. ”
When the matchmaker heard this, she immediately felt hopeful: "Oh, that's great, uncle! I'll look for you!"
In the following days, the matchmaker was not idle, she gave Uncle Li a blind date, and finally one day she found a qualified old lady, this old lady's surname is Wang, let's call her Mrs. Wang, although Mrs. Wang has a daughter, but she is already married, don't worry about her, and she has a tough body, cheerful personality, wide range of hobbies, and Uncle Li's interests and hobbies are quite similar
As soon as the two met, they were like old friends for many years, chatting enthusiastically, from hobbies to trivial matters in life, from the experience of their youth to their current later life, there seemed to be endless topics, and the matchmaker was happy for them in her eyes, and felt that this time there was a play!
Sure enough, after the two got along for a while, they felt very suitable for each other, so they decided to hold hands to spend their old age together.
And Uncle Li finally found the person who made him excited, although his "three nothings" principle felt a little harsh at the beginning, but when he met the right person, he was still willing to make some changes and compromises, this may be the power of love! It can make people adhere to principles while also learning to tolerate and understand!
So, let's say, this is looking for a wife, or it depends on fate and feelings, and you can't be too harsh and picky, otherwise I'm afraid you can really only beat a single!