Wang Yan, who was from an ordinary background, married into a wealthy family and experienced ups and downs
In 1974, Wang Yan, a girl from an ordinary family, was born in Qingdao, Shandong. She has lived a simple life since she was a child, but she has shown a strong sense of self-motivation. At the age of 6, he began to learn Xi dance, eager to change his destiny through his own efforts.
As she wished, at the age of 10, she successfully entered the Beijing Dance Academy and received five years of arduous professional training. At the age of 21, Wang Yan, who had just joined the work, quickly became a little star in the troupe with her outstanding dancing skills and cheerful and lively personality, and was loved by everyone.
Just when Wang Yan was enjoying her youth and chasing her dreams, a teacher from the art troupe suddenly introduced her to an object - a wealthy Wang Zhicai who was several years older than her.
At first, in the face of the teacher's kindness, the simple Wang Yan chose to go to the appointment with a respectful attitude. Unexpectedly, Wang Zhicai fell in love at first sight and began a crazy pursuit.
Faced with sudden love, Wang Yan had mixed feelings in her heart. Wang Zhicai's meticulous consideration for her moved her, and gradually moved her longing for love; And the age gap between the two made her feel insurmountable.
Just when Wang Yan was hesitating, a serious illness accelerated her choice of love and future - at the age of 23, she finally accepted Wang Zhicai's pursuit.
In 1997, the romantic wedding took place in Australia. When the bride Wang Yan, dressed in a white wedding dress, walked into the hall with a happy smile and a bald rich man's hand, she firmly believed that she had found true love.
Little did she know, however, that an even more brutal "reality education" was coming.
The wife became Iron Man, and Wang Yan suffered internal and external troubles
After marriage, Wang Yan was immersed in sweet happiness and full of longing for a better life in the future. However, the good times did not last long, and from the moment she officially stepped into the door of the royal family, the honeymoon quickly collapsed.
Wang Zhicai's mother, an old lady with a strange temper and high Xi habits, did not take her daughter-in-law seriously in the slightest. In her eyes, the newlywed daughter-in-law should take on all the housework, and it is her duty to serve her mother-in-law.
Wang Yan, who has just become a wife, is gentle and considerate by nature, and wanted to please her mother-in-law through her own efforts. She wakes up early and goes to bed late every day, takes on all the housework, and pleases her mother-in-law properly.
Even after the operation, she did not disturb her mother-in-law's recuperation, but just endured the pain silently. The opportunity to star in the hit drama "Huanzhu Gege" was also missed for such reasons.
Watching her peers bloom on the screen, Wang Yan couldn't help but redden. "Why can't I have the opportunity to make my dreams come true?" She would secretly wipe tears from the corners of her eyes in the middle of the night.
Just when Wang Yan thought that her mother-in-law's temper might improve, in 2006, she gave birth to her son Wang Hongqin. I thought that this child would let himself gain a foothold in this family, but I didn't expect that this son was not only arrogant and willful, but also like his mother-in-law, who often bullied his mother unreasonably to vent his temper.
"Why did I come to this house for......" Every time she saw the back of her son leaving, Wang Yan would ask herself.
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After many years of marriage, Wang Yan gradually accepted the role of a housewife and rarely appeared in public again. It wasn't until 2019 that a piece of news suddenly shattered her peaceful life - her husband Wang Zhicai privately owed a huge debt of 69 million!
"Finances have been a mess for so many years!" A bill unveiled the tip of the iceberg hidden under Wang Zhicai's life. Only then did Wang Yan realize that she was just an ornament of the family and had never participated in any financial decisions.
Now this mess has fallen on the head of a weak woman.
In desperation, Wang Yan could only go out of the mountain again and appear in a variety show to help her husband pay off his debts. "For the sake of this home, I had to regain my dreams. The lights in the audience were brilliant, and Wang Yan under the spotlight smiled strongly, hiding the bitterness in her heart.
Seeing her like this, her friends persuaded her to divorce decisively. "I swore to grow old with him, and that's my duty as a wife. Wang Yan smiled and politely declined their suggestion.
For the sake of her son, who was still in kindergarten, she decided to hold on to the last bastion.
Facing everything peacefully, Wang Yan talks about her attitude towards life
After so many ups and downs, when asked about her views on life, Wang Yan just sighed softly. She didn't complain, she didn't blame her husband, she just said softly: "I don't regret my original choice, if I meet Wang Zhicai again in the next life, I will marry him again."
"It's impressive. It turns out that in our eyes, she has a bearing that is difficult for ordinary people to achieve.
Maybe many people can't understand Wang Yan's choice, but she knows in her heart that marriage is not only a combination of feelings, but also a responsibility. The impulse to pity Hongchen when he was young is not sincere.
Now that people are Xi to the weight of this pair of burdens, they naturally will not complain about discomfort. She is reluctant to give up easily, because the dream of the little girl in her heart has never changed - to have a warm home.
Wang Yan did not blame her parents who gave birth to her and raised her, nor did she complain about the hardships of childhood, because she knew that it was the nutrient for her growth; Wang Yan didn't blame Wang Zhicai for being irresponsible, and didn't ask him about his financial whereabouts, because she knew in her heart that marriage was about understanding each other; Wang Yan doesn't hate her mother-in-law for being harsh on herself, and she doesn't blame her son for being willful, because they are part of her family.
She tolerated all the imperfections of this family with her broad motherhood, and even sacrificed herself to protect this last harbor.
"If I meet him again in the next life, I will marry him. This is Wang Yan's most cherished waiting for love. She filled the gaps of the past 24 years with the sincerity of her youth, even if she was devastated, she was still sticking to her original intention.
This stubbornness is the indelible aura on her body.
Warning actress: Be cautious about marriage and wealthy
Looking back now, "Qing Gege" Wang Yan's 24-year married life is full of unknown ups and downs. How many ulterior secrets are hidden behind that splendid wealthy family.
It used money and packaging to deceive Wang Yan's young heart, and finally gave her a life far from imagining.
We all yearn for a happy marriage, but before stepping into the marriage hall, we must recognize ourselves and each other. A money marriage without an emotional foundation is destined to perish in reality.
When Wang Yan married Wang Zhicai, perhaps the temptation of wealth surpassed reason. She could have had her own career and love, but in the end she fell victim to this family.
In the same way, when we are faced with the external appearance of a wealthy family, we must also objectively examine its inner nature. Those seemingly glamorous wealthy families, their family education and principles are unpredictable.
Just as Wang Yan discovered after marriage, her husband and son are the same, preferring sons over daughters, and Xi women fill the gaps in the family. Her feelings and dedication are always the most important thing in this family.
can obviously live the life of a strong woman, but Wang Yan eventually became an accessory to the family.
The wealth of the world cannot be exchanged for the heart of a child, and the fine clothes and jade food cannot buy true love. If she could do it all over again, would Wang Yan choose to be a treasure of youth again? I'm afraid she can't answer herself.
However, history can only prove the decisions she once had, not rewrite the established life for her.
Now what happened to Wang Yan makes us worry and sympathize with her, and it makes countless inspirational actresses introspect and be vigilant. When you and I stand at the crossroads of life, please also remember the original intention.
Those seemingly tall cages may make you regret it.