After reading Zhou Yiwei in Zhang Songwen's eyes, I understood how exceptional Zhu Dan was in Zhou Yiwei's heart

In 2000, Zhang Songwen was 24 years old.

This year, he met a "weirdo" at the Beijing Film Academy.

This person has just turned 18, but his heart is comparable to that of the elderly, and everyone else is jumping around, but he cherishes words like gold.

What impressed Zhang Songwen the most was that this person was lonely and arrogant.

The thing he recognizes is "a tendon", and he will never be swayed by others, nor will he bow his head because of the outside world's opinion.

At that time, Zhang Songwen never thought that this person who has always been determined would break the bottom line and endure to become gold because of a woman in the future.

This "weirdo" is none other than Zhang Songwen's friend of 23 years, Zhou Yiwei.

01 boasted of being "upside down", but gave Zhu Dan a stable life

In the interview, Zhang Songwen talked about his first impression of Zhou Yiwei.

"Zhou Zhouwei, big and tall, his face had not grown at that time, he didn't talk much, and his personality was very unique. Because I think I'm older than him, I'll take care of him as a brother. ”

At that time, the two lived in bunk beds, and for this little brother, Zhang Songwen was "crying and laughing" many times.

Because many times, Zhou Yiwei is a "weirdo".

For example, Zhou Yiwei had just turned 18 years old at the time, which was the age of high spirits, but he didn't have much smile on his face, and he preferred to recite Su Dongpo.

To say that young people like Su Dongpo's poems, it's nothing, but the reason why Zhou Yiwei likes Su Dongpo is because he feels like Su Dongpo, who has gone through ups and downs and been displaced for half his life.

Later, Zhang Songwen learned that Zhou Zhouwei had such a heart, which was related to his family environment.

Zhou Yiwei, ancestral home in Xiangxi, Hunan.

He was born into a family of artists, and his parents were both literary and artistic workers.

His mother, Yu Daming, was a national first-class choreographer and had won the rank of colonel, and his father was proficient in music and was the pillar of the theater.

According to the eyes of ordinary people, with such a pair of excellent parents, Zhou Yiwei can naturally be regarded as the "pride of the sky", but in fact, Zhou Yiwei's childhood was not as happy and leisurely as he imagined.

Mother Yu Daming once said in an interview that Zhou Yiwei has been a child who "hangs a key" around his neck since he was a child.

Because his parents were busy outside all the year round, Zhou Yiwei was fostered at his uncle's house at first, and then followed his parents to settle in Beijing.

Although he settled in Beijing, what Zhou Yiwei missed most in his heart was still Xiangxi, Hunan, where he grew up, so he boasted that he was like Su Dongpo, far away from his hometown and displaced.

In this regard, Zhang Songwen commented on Zhou Yiwei: At a young age, there is an "old soul" living in his heart.

For another example, Zhou Zhouwei has a withdrawn personality and is very "picky" about his deep friends.

Zhang Songwen once said: When he was in school at Nortel, he had two best friends.

One is Zhou Zhouwei, and the other is Lin Jiachuan.

Later, with Zhang Songwen's extensive experience, he made more and more friends.

But Zhou Yiwei is different, even now, his best friends are still Zhang Songwen and Lin Jiachuan.

There are few friends around Monday, not because there are few opportunities to make friends, but because he is really "picky".

In his words: "My blood is cold, and it is not easy to make friends. ”

When I was a child, I didn't make many friends on Monday, "People who eat pencil heads can't be friends, people who swear can't, sloppy, and don't get along with conversation." ”

As an adult, Zhou Yiwei adheres to the principles even more, the circles are different, never strong integration, and those who can't talk to him will never go together.

In this regard, Zhang Songwen also persuaded Zhou Zhouwei not to be so "face-hanging" to people, can you promise not to meet again for the rest of your life?

As a result, Zhou Yiwei said: "Of course, if you meet the wrong person, this will be the last time in this life." ”

Who would have thought that such a person would be such an exception for Zhu Dan.

He said that he was very slow to heat, but he "fell in love at first sight" with Zhu Dan.

In 2013, on the set of "Embroidered Spring Knife", Zhou Yiwei saw Zhu Dan crying while "practicing swords".

Seeing Zhu Dan so aggrieved that he had a handful of snot and tears, in an instant, Zhou Yiwei felt that this girl was quite "stupid", but "stupid" and cute.

Later, Zhou Zhouwei began to encourage Zhu Dan, but he didn't expect that he would be "trapped" in this "encouragement" for the rest of his life.

He will not easily make friends with people, let alone trust people easily, but he has repaid nearly 20 million debts for Zhu Dan.

In the early days of love, Zhu Dan was deceived by his friends for nearly 20 million, and if he was an ordinary man, he would have fled long ago when he encountered this situation.

But Zhou Zhouwei didn't run, not only did he not run, but he also comforted Zhu Dan, let's pay back this money together, and we can pay it back.

Let's ask, which man can do it, and he is willing to share tens of millions of arrears for his girlfriend as soon as he is dating?

He prides himself on being "upside down", but he gives Zhu Dan a stable home.

Zhou Yiwei often boasts of being "upside down", but in fact, his family is well-off and his parents are open-minded, but his parents are too busy to care about him.

And Zhu Dan, his father died very early, and his mother subsequently remarried, because of the original family, Zhu Dan has always had no sense of security, even if he becomes the "host sister" in the future, he still can't escape the shadow of his childhood.

In the face of such Zhu Dan, Zhou Yiwei did not dislike it, but tried his best to make up for Zhu Dan's past shortcomings and regrets.

For example, Zhu Dan was worried that her in-laws would question her "second marriage", but she didn't expect Zhou Yiwei to directly pass through her parents. Let Zhu Dan arrive smoothly, and when he sees Zhou Zhouwei's parents for the first time, he can naturally shout "Mom and Dad".

Who doesn't love such a man, such a week?

02 never bowed his head to the outside world, but broke the bottom line for Zhu Dan

Zhang Songwen has been friends with Zhou Yiwei for more than 20 years, and has always felt that Zhou Yiwei is a very principled person.

For example, Zhou Yiwei has some social phobia, and he is very awkward in front of strangers, so he resists socializing;

For example, Zhou Yiwei is low-key, even if he becomes an actor in the future, he still doesn't like to show his head;

For another example, Zhou Yiwei has his own set of "rules of doing things" and never cares about the eyes of the outside world.

In this regard, Zhou Yiwei also said in an interview:

"I don't have the energy, I don't have the ability to cater to everyone, and naturally I don't care about some voices or things that people don't approve of me. ”

Because Zhou Zhouwei's biggest wish is to be an actor and be an actor quietly.

He pursues noble sentiments, noble art, and superb skills.

He said, the rivers and lakes are dangerous, keep my heart, who I love, who loves black and who is black, I am worthy of it, and I will not retreat!

He just wants to live in his own world, and he doesn't want to go along with the world or cater to this noisy environment.

But as we all know, to be an actor, you have to show your head.

Not only that, but you also have to get through all kinds of relationships and strive for various resources in order to make yourself have a scene to film, otherwise, no matter how good your acting skills are, you will not be discovered.

In the face of Zhou Yiwei's "twisting", Zhang Songwen persuaded and enlightened, and even "forced" Zhou Yiwei to let go of himself.

He told Zhou Yiwei not to be lonely and self-appreciative, not to drill the horns of the bull, not to accept this era, will only be abandoned by the times, bustling, for fame and profit, in the final analysis, for his own heart.

But Zhang Songwen at that time, it is estimated that he could not have imagined that he worked hard to enlighten Zhou Yiwei to open himself a little, but Zhu Dan could make Zhou Yiwei, even if he knew that there was a "cliff" in front of him, he was willing to jump by himself!

2023 is the year that Zhou Yiwei calls himself a "turning point in life".

Because this year, he followed his wife Zhu Dan, showed up, appeared on a reality show, and spread out his private life to the audience.

This was unimaginable for him before.

After all, from his debut to the present, Zhou Yiwei has always had a principle, that is, no matter what the outside world is, he will never deliberately show himself.

Even in 2019, he was ridiculed by the whole network as "PUA Zhu Dan", but there was no explanation.

Because he said: "Other people's comments are other people's comments, whether we see sixpence or moonshine, it is our own choice, and do not care about other people's voices." ”

But no one expected that for Zhu Dan, he came.

Because he saw that "there is no light on Zhu Dan", this is absolutely not good!

In order to let Zhu Dan resume his career, and to fulfill Zhu Dan's dream, even if he is unwilling, even if there is a "cliff" in front of him, he said that he will "jump"!

In fact, in the show, the audience can still see that Zhou Yiwei is very uncomfortable with such a reality show.

In the words of netizens: On Monday, when you go around the show, you will either "shrink your head", hide behind Zhu Dan and snicker, or bury your head in cooking, a typical "social phobia".

Seeing such a week, some people may think that he violated his principles, but more people see a man's responsibility and responsibility to a woman.

Perhaps it is precisely because of this that Zhu Dan said such a paragraph when he confessed to Zhou Zhouwei.

She said: "If it weren't for me, you might have been able to be an actor quietly, but because of me, you were on the show and violated a lot of your principles, so I felt guilty and felt that I should say sorry to you."

But you told me that we don't have to say thank you or say sorry in love, because as long as we hold hands, we have decided everything, we bear it together, we experience it together, we are husband and wife, and this is all as it should be."

Seeing Zhu Dan's heartfelt words, let's ask, in the face of such a week, which woman is not moved?

But what about Monday Wai, what do you do?

He is not the kind of man who "talks sweetly", but he can carry a thermos cup anytime and anywhere, looking for various angles to take pictures of his wife;

He said that he was not romantic at all, but even if it was a note written by Zhu Dan, he would secretly frame it;

He said that he and Zhu Dan never give each other gifts, and they don't like holidays, but as long as he is at home, he will help blow Zhu Dan's hair after washing his hair;

He said that his blood was very cold and he didn't like to put certain things on the table, but in the face of Zhu Dan, the doting in his eyes really couldn't be hidden;

The most admirable thing is the pattern of Monday Wai.

Let's ask, when his girlfriend was cheated of tens of millions, he didn't blame or complain, but tried his best to help repay?

Even when Zhu Dan couldn't let go of it for a while, do you remember what Zhou Yiwei said?

"Things in the world are still unfinished, and they can't be resolved", I felt that this person was very patterned at that time.

Let's ask, which man can do it, because of his wife's words, he was misunderstood and reprimanded, and he has been infamous for many years, but he can still be calm and spoil his wife and son, and he doesn't care?

In the words of netizens, if it weren't for the show on Monday to "clear up grievances", everyone probably still thinks Zhu Dan is "humble"!

Seeing such a week, I suddenly understood:

Why Zhang Songwen has been friends with him for 23 years, and the friendship between the two is as good as ever;

Why did Zhu Dan stand up to the "ridicule and humbleness" of the whole network back then, and also supported Mr. Zhou's courage to take responsibility;

Because Zhou Yiwei is a good person in his own right, he deserves it!

It's just that even though the hero is alone, he is also sad to pass Zhu Dan's "beauty pass".