Wu Zongxian molested his daughter: deviant speech, physical touch
Wu Zongxian, the "problem father", bore the brunt of being exposed to the public eye. After his daughter Wu Shanyi gave birth, his behavior became even more rampant, and he repeatedly used his hands and feet on his adult daughter in front of the camera, making people blush and heartbeat.
In an interview, when Wu Shanyi was embarrassingly answering a reporter's question about her body after giving birth, Wu Zongxian suddenly interjected loudly and shouted, "Shangwei has exploded", completely ignoring his daughter's feelings.
Wu Shanyi immediately scolded angrily: "You are very perverted, I am your daughter!" But the "lewd father" seemed to turn a deaf ear and continued to comment obscenely on his daughter's physical changes and breastfeeding.
Even in a program recording, Wu Zongxian actually publicly said that he could "touch" his daughter's body at will, the reason was simply "You are the only one I can touch among all the girls on stage".
Later, the two also attended the red carpet of an important event. Wu Zongxian may have put his hand directly into his daughter's bandeau dress because he was worried that his daughter's clothes would be gone, and helped her adjust her underwear in front of reporters and fans.
We can imagine that under the live camera, Wu Shanyi's eyes widened in astonishment, and she was extremely embarrassed but had to swallow her anger.
All kinds of behaviors reveal Wu Zongxian's disordered paternal love and distortion. He thought that he loved his daughter deeply, but he didn't know that this deformed way would only make people disgusted and unacceptable.
Even if the daughter is the father's little lover, the obscene words and physical contact must not exceed the bottom line. Wu Zongxian must understand that this is not patriarchy, but only patriarchy.
Di Ying's doting becomes poisonous: breastfeeding causes difficulties
Di Ying's doting on her son can be described as poisonous. In order to realize her ideal of maternal love, she holds on to the idea that she must feed her son as an adult. Di Ying continued to breastfeed for 12 years, and shared a bed with her son until he reached puberty.
It is hard to imagine how a 15-year-old's physical and mental development could go astrays in such a distorted environment.
This kind of sick attachment relationship really can't make a healthy and independent son. Di Ying's "heart and liver baby" was arrested for possession of guns and ammunition while studying abroad, and faced the danger of being expelled from the country.
We saw that even if Di Ying had exhausted all her money, she couldn't dispel the anger in her son's heart, and her attitude was not relieved.
In fact, Di Ying's wishful motherly love has long exceeded the normal range. She used the doting poison to erode the child little by little, and finally caused such an uncontrollable evil result.
Looking back now, what she did was nothing less than a knife to kill a child.
We can no longer find the innocent child, Di Ying's doting has ruined him to the ground. She herself finally preferred to go back to the past and give her son more sunny companionship instead of this poison-like twisted "affection".
Li Jiaxin's nude swimming photos exposed: mother and son are very close
The photo of Li Jiaxin being exposed bathing naked with her adolescent son at home appeared on the hot search, and the picture of being too close to her son once again became the target of public criticism. We see that in the photo, Li Jiaxin is barely covering her private parts, while her son is already strong, and the two are playing in the same bath.
Many netizens questioned whether it was appropriate for a teenager who was in the period of adolescent restlessness to be honest with his mother.
Indeed, Li Jiaxin and her son have a deep relationship, which is obvious to all. But in our opinion, this is beyond the normal mother-child system, and is more inclined to attachment than maternal love.
Her behavior will be criticized by anyone else, and if she changes to other artists, I am afraid it has caused an uproar.
We have to make Li Jiaxin reflect on what is the boundary of love. The most important concern of a mother is not to declare intimacy, but to give her child the space to grow independently. As an adult, she should lead by example and guide her son to establish a normal gender identity, rather than being so ambiguous and reverie.
Le Jia called the woman "girlfriend": so ridiculous that it is extremely difficult to agree
Le Jia has spoken out in public several times and called his daughter "my girlfriend". We really can't understand this almost delusional father-daughter relationship.
In fact, what Lejia did has long been out of the ordinary. He also unilaterally wrote a love letter to express his love for his daughter, saying that he must marry her when he grows up. Such a crazy patriarchy is rampant, which has made countless viewers red-faced and excited.
Le Jia's behavior completely subverted the normal father-daughter system, and we really can't understand how he dared to openly speak disrespectfully to his daughter under the name of "father" in human skin.
Indeed, there is nothing wrong with the pampering of parents for their children. But Le Jia's reckless behavior can only make ordinary audiences uncomfortable and ashamed, and they really can't agree with it.
Dong Jie forced her son to propose: the teasing was unbearable
Dong Jie's absurd "mother-son marriage proposal farce" also made everyone look at it and it was difficult to look at it directly. Ignoring her son's feelings, she first forced him to call herself a "little baby", and then repeatedly forced the teenager to propose to her in public, filming this embarrassing scene.
When we look at the camera, the grievance and helplessness in Dingding's eyes are really sad.
What's even more ridiculous is that Dong Jie also emphasized for the Nth time in front of everyone that she must grow up and PK with her daughter-in-law to see who is more beautiful. Such arrogant teasing techniques are simply ridiculous.
When an adult woman uses her own son as a plaything to please herself, we are really uncomfortable to watch, and we can't bear to see it.
Indeed, it is understandable that mother and son are close, but Dong Jie's nonsense can only bring embarrassment and shame to the audience. This kind of teasing and "mother-son affection" is more like her wishful thinking, and she doesn't take into account her son's feelings.
We must make a solemn appeal to stop such absurd acts and stop satisfying our own desires under the pretext of "maternal love".
Reflection and review: We should distinguish between right and wrong and be vigilant against going astray
We need to face up to the fact that the behavior of these celebrity parents has seriously exceeded the bottom line of normal ethical relationships, and is far from the true nature of the parent-child system.
Their misdeeds are a desecration of the sacred name of "parental love".
However, what is even more puzzling is that the parties still go their own way, talk to themselves, and have no self-knowledge at all. We must warn and guide them to reflect deeply and prevent them from continuing to go astray and harm nature and reason.
The so-called "love" must not be an excuse for self-indulgence. They urgently need to establish a sense of boundaries, distinguish between right and wrong, and be a decent and principled person who understands.
Of course, we should not encourage their mistakes. In the face of such a distorted performance of "parental love", we have the right to say "no" and refuse to cooperate with the recording and dissemination of these absurd farces.
Only when the public no longer tolerates and encourages such out-of-control behavior will celebrities truly realize the seriousness of the problem.
The world has been like this since ancient times, and no one is perfect. While we condemn, we should also be given a chance to make amends. Let's work together to guide and correct the behavior of these "problem parents", help them regain their sense of proportion and bottom line, and regain healthy and natural family relationships.
This is also the greatest love for children.