Text丨 Weisheng Xiaoyun
Editor丨Weisheng Xiaoyun
Preface
Nepal is a country that is close to China and India, and is not very developed.
And some travelers are also curious about this South Asian country, so they embark on a journey.
There is a Chinese guy who met his wife here, and his wife does not want a bride price garage at home, and gives him another dowry, many people are curious about whether this is true?
An amazing trip to Nepal
Now that everyone's living conditions are better, some people not only travel abroad, but also settle abroad.
In the past, most people might choose to go to the more developed Britain and the United States, but now fewer and fewer people go abroad, and they all think that China is the best.
However, there is a Chinese young man who does not play his cards according to common sense and goes to settle in Nepal, a relatively backward country with a relatively poor environment.
This guy I met on a trip because I'm a travel blogger and I like to go to places the most.
Sometimes I play at home, sometimes I go abroad, and this lad was met when I was traveling in Nepal.
Because Nepal and China are relatively close, I see this amazing place in Nepal on the Internet every day, and I also have the idea to find an opportunity to see it.
At that time, I had just arrived in Nepal, and I happened to meet this young man, the young man's surname is Lee, let's call him Xiao Lee.
Xiao Li's experience is still very legendary, and after listening to his experience, I think it is not surprising that he married a Nepalese wife.
This Xiao Li used to be a manager in a domestic factory, and he talked about his girlfriend for several years, and finally got married when he was old, but his mother-in-law opened his mouth.
At this time, although Xiao Li has also worked for some years, he is under a lot of pressure for the woman's family to ask for a car, a house and a bride price.
The incident was very unpleasant, and in the end his girlfriend who had been talking for many years collapsed.
After this incident, he also wanted to open up, instead of taking on debts to marry a wife and working hard every day, it was better to live according to his own heart.
So he quit his job and prepared to travel, because he had a girlfriend who had made money all these years and had not enjoyed life properly.
After figuring it out, he began to play in China, and after playing, he began to prepare to play abroad, during which he would also publish his travel diary, so there were also some people on the Internet.
Nepal was the first foreign tourist spot he chose, and at that time, he didn't know that Nepal's network was poor, so he couldn't go back to the hotel without a mobile phone signal, so he was in a hurry.
At this time, he saw me, and at first he was afraid that I was Korean or Japanese, after all, Asians have a lot of skin color.
I saw that his coat was written in Chinese, so I took the initiative to talk to him.
As a person with a lot of travel experience, I told him that when he came to foreign countries, he should remember to download the map offline, otherwise it would be really troublesome.
Both of us also travel casually, and Xiao Li is afraid that there will be any more problems, and he can't even go back to China when he turns back, so he said that he wanted to travel with me.
I'm traveling alone anyway, and it's okay to have more than one person, so I agreed, Xiao Li was very grateful, and said a lot of my own things, and I was also very emotional.
In fact, for the matter of marrying a wife, many places are different, and everyone's thoughts are different, maybe his girlfriend's family requirements are indeed too high, like this high, naturally there are other people who are qualified, ordinary people like us don't think too much.
Moreover, there are many places in China where young people pay attention to love and affection, and it is not very important whether they want this or not.
After we visited Nepal, I was going to go back to China, but he said that he didn't want to go back yet, saying that he wanted to see it abroad.
For his safety, I offered to keep us online and ask me if there was anything I didn't understand about traveling, and he was very grateful, so we chatted every day.
Nepal meets love
At that time, it had been a while since I returned to China, and Xiao Li suddenly told me one day that he was getting married, in Nepal.
I'm not very surprised by this, I know the situation there when I traveled in Nepal before.
Nepalese people do not accept such things as bride price and rules, but the woman's family has to take the initiative to give the man a dowry.
I knew that Xiao Li still had a problem with his previous relationship, so I asked him if he had thought it through, but Xiao Li said that he had met true love.
At that time, Xiao Li continued to travel in Nepal alone, the people here are simple, the prices are cheap, and there are many festivals, and I feel that I am very happy.
Talking about how he met a Nepalese beauty, it was when he was shopping for something, a Nepalese beauty forgot to bring change, so he generously helped her pay for it.
The Nepalese beauty felt embarrassed and had to invite him to dinner, but Xiao Li felt that it would be bad to refuse, so he agreed.
The two of them ate at a roadside stall, and the food was quite cheap, but he still didn't want the girl to pay, so he paid first.
The Nepalese beauty was a little shy at this time and asked Xiao Li why she paid again.
The two of them communicated through translation software, because the Nepalese beauty spoke with a bit of an accent, so the meaning was also translated several times before it became clear.
Xiao Li said that he felt that it was not good to make the girl pay, and the Nepalese beauty smiled at him.
The two were together so naturally, and the family of the Nepalese beauty saw that Xiao Li was Chinese at first, and felt that it was not good for their daughter to marry abroad.
Xiao Li then helped their family work again, and took Nepalese beauties to eat delicious food, and the two of them also took a car to the town for a big meal.
Nepalese beauty's family conditions are not very good, she used to come to the town to sell things, and she has not eaten the food in the restaurant, she thinks that Xiao Li is really good to her.
And the Nepalese beauty is not the kind of person who is insatiable, after deciding to be with Xiao Li, she always asks Xiao Li to keep the money and not to spend it on her all the time.
However, the more this happens, the more Xiao Li wants to marry her home, because she is so good.
Nepalese beauties say that there are two weddings for girls in their place, one is the "Nepalese Girl Marriage", that is, the girl has to marry the "Luo Han Guo" once when she is a minor, so that she can hold a second real wedding when she is an adult.
Xiao Li knew about this for the first time and thought it was amazing, so he asked the girl if she would like to marry her, and the girl shook her head.
In Nepal, the shaking head represents agree, and we in China are the opposite, so Xiao Li was overjoyed to learn that the girl was willing to marry her.
In order to show sincerity, Xiao Li seriously went to visit the home of a Nepalese beauty, and prepared betel nuts, powder and new clothes according to local etiquette.
During this time, Xiao Li put a lot of effort into learning Xi Nepalese language, and then knew that they believed in Hinduism and carefully followed all the rules of Nepal.
Nepalese people are similar to Indians, and their left hand is called filth, so they generally don't use it to pick up things, so Xiao Li accepts things from the girl's family with both hands.
Regarding the questions of the Nepalese beauty's family, Xiao Li asked and answered, and repeatedly emphasized that he would take good care of her in the future.
The family of the Nepalese beauty saw that Xiao Li was a foreigner, and they were really attentive, so they finally agreed.
In Nepal, the wedding will be held for several days, and the woman's family has also sent all kinds of dowries, although Xiao Li knows that there is, but he doesn't know so much.
He thought that he would not get married in the future, but who knew that he came to Nepal by accident and met his beloved, not only did he not spend much money, but his wife's family also gave a lot of dowry.
He felt that he was so happy that coming to Nepal was the right decision for him in his life.
epilogue
Although life in Nepal is a bit worse than in China, spiritual happiness may outweigh material happiness.
Although that region is relatively backward, and many Xi and customs are different from China's, as long as he feels happy, it is the best.