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My name is Li Xiaoming, I am 35 years old this year, and I have been married to my wife Li Li for 7 years. Our marriage can be said to be more formal than substantial, the wife works in the field all the year round, we get together less and leave more, and the relationship has become weaker and weaker.
A few days ago, Lili suddenly said that she was going to quit her job and go home with me. I was a little surprised, but readily agreed. When Lili came back, I found that she was much colder to me, often finding fault for no reason, and always looking dissatisfied. For example, when you eat today:
"It's so unpalatable that I can't swallow it. Can't you learn to make good food?" Lili said with a look of disgust.
"I think it tastes okay, and I did my best. I explained.
"With your craft, I'd better go out to eat. Lili put down the dishes and chopsticks and was about to leave.
"Well, I'll improve next time. I sighed.
This little friction grew, and I felt that Lili's dissatisfaction with me seemed to be deepening. Yesterday, she even filed for divorce!
"Our relationship has changed, so why bother to maintain this form of marriage anymore?" Lili said.
"Lili, we can slowly adjust and regain our feelings. I persuaded.
"It may be too late. Lili said coldly.
I was sad, but I also wondered if Lili had someone else outside. To test my conjecture, I decided to design a test.
I found a handsome young man, Wang Jin, and asked him to pursue the married Lili. Wang Jin hesitated at first: "Brother, it's not good to do this, I don't want to ruin your marriage." ”
"Don't worry, I just want to test my wife, you can talk to her, nothing real will happen. I assured Wang Jin.
Wang Jin thought about it and agreed: "Okay, since you say so, I'll help you with this." ”
So, Wang Jin began to frequently "meet" Lili, give her flowers, and ask her to dinner. At first, Lili refused, but gradually she was also moved by Wang Jin's rhetoric. I often see the two of them talking and laughing together, and I feel very uncomfortable.
One day, Wang Jin suddenly said to me: "Brother, things seem to be a little out of control. I think your wife might really be attracted to me. ”
I was surprised and firmly believed that Lili could not cheat: "I know my wife's personality, and she will never go beyond the thunder pool." ”
"Lili is a little temperamental, but she is a kind and virtuous woman at heart. Trust me, as long as you don't take a step beyond the thunder pool, there will be no major problems. I said to Wang Jin.
"Well, I'll be mindful. Wang Jin said.
In the days that followed, I often saw Wang Jin appear by Lili's side. At one point, I even saw them walking in the park arm in arm!
"You seem to be on good terms, huh?" I stepped forward to say hello.
"Oh, it's Xiaoming. We're just chatting. Lili was a little flustered.
"yes, just chatting, your wife is very nice. Wang Jin also explained.
I smiled and nodded, thinking to myself that their relationship seemed to have exceeded my expectations.
"What's the matter?" I asked nervously.
"Your wife offered to make love to me yesterday, and I couldn't refuse, so we had a relationship. Wang Jin said.
I was shocked: "What? Did you? I don't believe it!"
"I'm really sorry bro, things are out of my control. But your wife does crave the company of a man. Wang Jin said.
I was so angry that I punched Wang Jin directly, and then rushed home to question Lili.
"Wang Jin told me that you had a relationship, is this true?" I roared.
Lili cried: "I'm sorry, it's me who is not good, I shouldn't have crossed the bottom line." Don't be angry, let me explain. ”
"What's there to explain? "I turned around and was about to leave.
Lili grabbed me: "We drank too much that day, and I took the initiative, but there was no substantive relationship." Please believe me!"
I shook off her hand: "I don't want to listen to your explanation anymore, it's over between us!"
With that, I left the house without looking back. A seemingly simple test of planning turns out to be a huge rift in the marriage. How do I deal with this? I need time to think calmly
After running away from home, I stayed in a hotel alone. The chaos in my head kept me from sleeping. I wondered, when did my marriage with Lili start to decline?
Is there any room for redemption of our relationship? How should this farce end? I called Wang Jin: "Hey, Wang Jin, this is the end of the matter, don't contact my wife again." It's as if it never happened. ”
Wang Jin hesitated for a moment and said, "Okay brother, then I won't appear again in the future." But the problem between you and your wife still needs to be solved. ”
"We can solve our problems by ourselves. I said firmly.
I hung up the phone and continued to fall into deep thought. It all stemmed from my mistake that I shouldn't have devised this ridiculous test. Perhaps, there is still hope between us, as long as I face the problem with sincerity.
"Xiaoming, you're finally calling! I want to kill you. Lili said excitedly.
"Let's talk face to face. I said.
After meeting, Lili couldn't cry: "I'm sorry, it's all my fault, you must not leave me!"
I was silent for a while, and then said, "It's not all your fault, I'm also responsible for this farce." Problems arise between us and are the result of a long period of accumulation. ”
Lili nodded: "Yes, I have been very empty and anxious in my heart during this time, maybe I am looking for other sustenance intentionally or unintentionally. But I swear, nothing happened between me and Wang Jin!"
"I believe in you. I shook her hand, "We've all done something wrong, and the most important thing now is to find a way to repair our relationship." ”
"I'll pay again. Lili said firmly.
"Me too. I said.
So, after this oolong farce, Lili and I re-established a relationship of mutual understanding and trust. We started to communicate actively and get to know each other's ideas. I also try to spend as much time as possible with Lili.
We go out to the movies together, go to the park, and go on dates like we did when we were in love. Gradually, our friendship sprouted again.
"In the future, we must support each other through the ups and downs of life. "Lili said to me one day.
"Yes, we will always be together. I said, holding her hand.
This misunderstanding made me realize that marriage needs to be cared for by both parties.
After this turmoil, my relationship with Lili seems to be back together. But just when it was developing in a good direction, an accident happened.
One day, Wang Jin suddenly came to me with a tough attitude.
"Brother, you can't just leave me out like that. I have a relationship with your wife, and you shouldn't obstruct it. Wang Jin said.
I was surprised: "What are you talking about? That's just a misunderstanding, my wife has chosen to be with me again." ”
"No, she still loves me, it's just that you limit her. Wang Jin said, "If you don't give in, I'll tell you about the old marital affair!"
I was furious: "Wang Jin, you are going too far! Are you threatening me? Do you think you can get my wife in this way?"
"I'm just fighting for my own happiness. Wang Jin sneered.
"Don't try to get close to my wife again, or I'll call the police!" I roared.
"Okay, you win. Wang Jin shook his hand and left.
I don't feel good. In case Wang Jin really went to find Lili, it would bring a lot of trouble.
I sighed and said, "Lili, that's not the case. It was Wang Jin who had bad intentions and wanted to destroy our relationship. Don't listen to him. ”
"Then why did he say we were still in love?" Lili asked.
"He just wants to achieve his goal, don't believe his nonsense. I said, holding Lili's hand.
"Alright then, I trust you. Lili finally said.
"Wang Jin, let's draw a line between this matter. I can give you a sum of compensation, but you must promise not to contact my wife again. I said.
Wang Jin thought for a while: "Okay, give me 100,000 yuan, and I'll disappear." ”
I gritted my teeth and agreed to his request. Finally, Wang Jin signed the guarantee and disappeared. Lili and I are gradually returning to our normal lives.
But just as we were about to go abroad for our honeymoon, Lili suddenly said something to break up: "Xiaoming, I thought about it a lot, and I think we are still."
"Xiaoming, I've thought about it a lot, and I think it's better for us to be apart for a while. Lili said.
I was shocked: "Separated, did something happen?"
Lili sighed: "All these things during this period of time made me realize that there are many problems in our relationship. I need time to think. ”
"But we've rebuilt trust. I said puzzled.
"I know, but I still have a lot of doubts. "I need to face these problems alone. ”
I could see that Lili was resolute and felt very uncomfortable, but I didn't want to force her.
"Alright then, contact me when you figure it out yourself. I said in frustration.
Since then, Lili and I have separated. I miss her so much and often worry that our relationship will end.
After a month, I took the initiative to contact Lili: "Let's meet, I really miss you." ”
Lili hesitated, but agreed.
After meeting, Lili spoke first: "Xiaoming, I have done a lot of thinking during this time. ”
"Figured it out?" I asked cautiously.
"I've found that I've been running away from my own problems. Lili said.
I listened and didn't interject.
"I'm not 100% committed to this marriage. When I married you, there were also practical factors to consider. Lili said.
I nodded, "I understand that we may have been inconsiderate at first. ”
"That's why I've always been empty in my heart, and I'm going to be easily shaken. Lili said.
"Yes, there was a problem with that test itself. I said.
I shook her hand excitedly: "I have always loved you, and it will not change in this life!"
"Give me some time and I'll slowly regain my confidence in the relationship. Lili said.
"Okay, I'll always be with you. I said.
Since then, I've been more mindful of the relationship. Lili also gradually opened her heart, and our relationship became deeper and deeper.
Looking back on those turmoil now, it seems like a matter of a lifetime. We still quarrel over small things, but we always sit down and talk about it. Some problems take time to heal, but as long as we don't give up, we can slowly repair the cracks.
I am confident that in the days to come, we will build stronger relationships. I will make Lili feel happy and secure.
After reconciling with Lili, I made up my mind to give her happiness. I began to learn to cook Lili's favorite dishes and often took her out on trips. We have also restored intimacy between husband and wife.
One night, we happily went home from watching a movie. Lili suddenly said, "Honey, I have good news for you. ”
"What's the good news?" I asked with a smile.
"I'm pregnant!" Lili said happily.
I was so excited that I immediately picked up Lili and spun around: "Great! We're going to be parents!"
"yes, we'll have a lovely baby!" Lili is also happy.
"I love you, Lili. I said affectionately looking her in the eye.
"I love you the most, too. Lili smiled sweetly.
We began to actively prepare for the arrival of the baby. We take care of the purchase of baby products and the renovation of the children's room.
Just as we were waiting for the baby to be born, an accident happened. One day, Wang Jin suddenly knocked on our door.
I opened the door vigilantly: "What are you doing here?"
"Brother, I have something important to do. Wang Jinshen said mysteriously, "Can you go in and say?"
I hesitated, but let him in.
"I've made a big discovery!" Wang Jin said, "Your wife's child may not be yours." ”
Lili and I were both taken aback: "What?!" What nonsense are you talking about?"
"In terms of time, this child is likely mine. Wang Jinyi was righteous.
"You're spreading rumors!" Lili said angrily, "Our baby has nothing to do with you!"
"Nothing to do? Wouldn't it be clear if you did a test?" Wang Jin said.
"You!" I was furious and punched Wang Jin in the face. Lili also hit him with a vase.
"Okay, you're shameless, if you dare to show up again, I'll call the police!" I threw Wang Jin out.
Closing the door, Lili was very emotional. I comforted her and said, "We don't have to pay attention to his nonsense." This child must be ours. ”
Lili nodded, tears rolling in her eyes: "Yes, we will always be together and give the baby a happy home." ”
I hugged Lili, and my heart was full of anticipation and joy for the future. We have finally come out of the shadows, and life will get better and better.