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My name is Sister Li Feng, I am 38 years old this year, and I am an ordinary full-time housewife. I have a 14-year-old daughter named Li Xiaoyun, who is the most precious person in my life. Xiaoyun has been well-behaved and obedient since she was a child, with excellent grades, and is a good boy for me.
Just yesterday, I got a phone call, one that caught me off guard. On the other end of the phone was my mother-in-law, Zhang Yuqin: "Hey, Sister Feng, are you at home? ”
I was a little puzzled, and replied softly: "Mother-in-law, I'm at home, what can you say?"
The mother-in-law continued: "Next month is the date of your cousin Li Tiancai's surgery, but he has not yet found a suitable liver donor. I want Xiaoyun to do a matching test to see if I can donate my liver to the genius. ”
I was momentarily stunned and said in surprise, "What?!" Mother-in-law, Xiaoyun is still young, how can she be asked to donate her liver!"
The mother-in-law said impatiently: "Tiancai is in critical condition now, and there are no other relatives at home. Xiaoyun is in good health, young and strong, and it will be fine to donate a part of her liver. Just think of it as a life extension for genius, and you agree. ”
I became emotional, raised my voice and said, "Mother-in-law, genius is not Xiaoyun's responsibility! She is still young, how can she let a child take such a risk! I will never agree!"
The mother-in-law was also annoyed, and said sharply: "Sister Li Feng, you are unfilial! The genius is your cousin, and now only Xiaoyun can save him, and your mother and daughter are not willing to help you with this little favor? I still treat you as a good daughter-in-law with a conscience!"
When I heard my mother-in-law say this, I was angry and sad in my heart. I couldn't help but raise my voice and say, "Mother-in-law, I have always been filial to you, how can you say that I am not filial! Xiaoyun is my daughter, and I have the responsibility to protect her! I will never agree to this matter!"
After that, I just hung up the phone. Mother-in-law's request is simply ridiculous!
When I hung up, my mind was a mess. My mother-in-law's request is too much, and I must protect my daughter Xiaoyun. But I also know that if I refuse my mother-in-law directly, she will definitely hate me and Xiaoyun. For so many years, I have been very filial to my mother-in-law, but she is still so unreasonable.
I hugged my daughter in distress and comforted her softly: "Mom is here, she will definitely protect you and won't let you go for surgery." Don't worry, everything will be fine. ”
Xiaoyun cried in my arms for a while, and then stopped crying. I poured her a cup of hot water, and then we sat down on the couch and discussed what to do. Xiaoyun suggested that she explain her attitude to her mother-in-law directly, but I know my mother-in-law's personality, and it may not be useful to explain it clearly.
I hurriedly asked Xiaoyun to go back to the room, and then opened the door to greet my mother-in-law. Without saying a word, the mother-in-law sat on the sofa, slapped the folder on the coffee table, and said, "Sister Feng, this is a consent form for organ donation, you and Xiaoyun are going to sign it quickly." The date of the genius surgery is approaching, and the documents should be submitted to the hospital as soon as possible. ”
I tried to keep my composure and said, "Mother-in-law, calm down. Xiaoyun is still young, and our mother and daughter need time to think about this big thing. Go back and we'll get back to you. ”
The mother-in-law immediately roared angrily: "What to consider! The genius is dying now, and he needs Xiaoyun to save him! If you don't sign, you will kill your own relatives, and I must have an explanation today!"
I saw my mother-in-law like this, and I knew that she was determined to ask Xiaoyun to donate her liver. I have to protect my daughter! My mother-in-law's vexatious behavior has exceeded my bottom line
Seeing my mother-in-law forcing Xiaoyun to donate her organs like this, I couldn't hold back the anger in my heart anymore.
"Mother-in-law, I'll give you three seconds to put this document away immediately! If you push Xiaoyun again, I promise you'll regret it!" I said in a calm and resolute tone.
But my mother-in-law didn't take my words to heart at all, she stood up and shouted loudly: "Sister Feng, you unfilial daughter! I have already opened my mouth to beg you, and you dare to refuse! You are the sinner who killed your own relatives!"
I looked at my mother-in-law's hysterical appearance and couldn't hold back any longer. I snatched the consent form from her hand, tore it to shreds, and slapped my mother-in-law in the face!
With a loud "bang", I pushed too hard and knocked my mother-in-law down on the sofa. She covered the swollen left side of her face and looked at me in horror.
"Mother-in-law, I warn you, if you dare to hurt my daughter again, I will definitely make you pay!" I said this with a trembling voice, my heart beating as fast as a drum.
At this time, Xiaoyun heard movement and ran out of the room. When she saw her mother-in-law being knocked down on the sofa by me, she instantly cried: "Mom, don't hurt your mother-in-law, please stop!"
Xiaoyun's crying calmed me down a little. I looked at the fragments of papers on the ground and my mother-in-law's swollen face, and then I realized that I had just lost control.
I was taken to the police station for interrogation. The police sternly asked me why I beat the old man, and I could only honestly confess that my mother-in-law forced Xiaoyun to donate her organs. The police asked me to take a note and informed me that I might be sentenced to detention.
Although I regretted beating my mother-in-law, I was still angry when I thought that she almost killed Xiaoyun. I begged the police to inform Xiaoyun to come and see me, she must have been scared to be home alone.
The experience of this day was too much to accept. I never thought I would be taken away by the police and possibly go to jail. I'm really worried about Xiaoyun
After a day of interrogation at the police station, I finally met Xiaoyun. She ran over and hugged me with red eyes, crying and saying, "Mom, are you okay?
I patted her on the back and said distressedly, "Mommy is fine, don't worry." It's you, there's nothing wrong with being home alone, right?"
Xiaoyun wiped away her tears and said, "I called my aunt, and she came to the house to accompany me." Mom, my mother-in-law's face is so swollen, don't go to jail for this!"
I sighed, "I know, mom is too impulsive. But my mother-in-law forced you to donate your liver, and my mother absolutely couldn't tolerate it. I'll figure it out, don't worry. ”
Xiaoyun nodded, clasped my hand and said, "Mom, I believe in you." You're going to be fine!"
The police came over and told Xiaoyun that the time was up and she had to leave. I hugged her and watched her leave.
After two days of detention at the police station, I was finally released on bail and returned home. My mother-in-law didn't make a formal charge in the end, which was already the best outcome for me.
When I returned home, Xiaoyun greeted me happily. But when she saw my haggard appearance, she couldn't help crying: "Mom, you've lost a lot of weight! You must not have eaten well and slept well in the past two days." It's all my fault for causing you so much trouble!"
I hugged my daughter and comforted her softly: "Mom is fine, it's all my fault, I shouldn't have beaten my mother-in-law." You've worked hard alone during this time, so let's take a good rest. ”
Xiaoyun nodded and went to the kitchen to heat up the meal. I watched her busy and remorseful, and I felt both relieved and self-reproachful.
After dinner, Xiaoyun came to my side and said hesitantly, "Mom, I want to go see my mother-in-law." She was so angry before, I wanted to meet her and see her injuries. Do you think you can?"
I was silent. I know Xiaoyun's kindness, but I still can't let go of what my mother-in-law did before. But for Xiaoyun's sake, I finally nodded.
The mother-in-law said softly: "Xiaoyun, it's not your fault, it's your mother-in-law's fault, you shouldn't be forced to donate your liver." Come on, don't cry, my mother-in-law doesn't hurt. ”
When I saw my mother-in-law's appearance, I had mixed feelings in my heart. I knew that this time it was my fault first, and I hit my mother-in-law. I plucked up the courage to speak, "Mother-in-law, I'm sorry, I shouldn't have beaten you up, I was too impulsive." Does your injury still hurt?"
The mother-in-law shook her head, sighed and said, "Sister Feng, we are all at fault. I shouldn't force Xiaoyun to donate her liver, but you shouldn't hit people either. But I can understand your impulsiveness, so let this matter pass. ”
I nodded, relieved inside. At least my mother-in-law didn't think too much about it this time.
Xiaoyun saw that we had reconciled, and she also stopped her tears. She helped her mother-in-law to sit down on the sofa and brought her hot water and medicine.
"Mother-in-law, your injuries are not completely healed, I will take care of you every day and make some nutritious meals. Don't talk about donating your liver again, okay?" Xiaoyun said cautiously.
The mother-in-law nodded, touched Xiaoyun's head and said, "Good boy, I will listen to you in the future." Mother-in-law was just confused for a while, and she drove you and Sister Feng to death. I'm old and confused. ”
When I saw my mother-in-law's appearance, most of the resentment in my heart disappeared. Maybe our mother and daughter can forgive her this time.
From that day on, Xiaoyun came to take care of her mother-in-law every day after school, helping her cook and change her dressing. I will also come over to see my mother-in-law's injuries. Gradually, the relationship between our mother and daughter and my mother-in-law returned to the same as before.
A month later, my mother-in-law's injuries were finally healed. She smiled and said to us, "Sister Feng, Xiaoyun, thank you for taking care of me during this time. I'm really confused, and I've caused you so much trouble. Forgive your mother-in-law this time. ”
I nodded and said, "Mother-in-law, I am also at fault first, and our mother and daughter will not hold grudges." From now on, we will still be a family. ”
Xiaoyun happily took her mother-in-law's hand and said, "Mother-in-law, we will be more united in the future! I will take good care of you and my mother." ”
Seeing my daughter's kindness and maturity, I feel relieved and at the same time deeply blame myself. I shouldn't have beaten my mother-in-law, this has a bad impact on Xiaoyun's growth.
That night, I sat on the edge of Xiaoyun's bed and asked her softly, "Xiaoyun, you must be very disappointed about your mother-in-law's beating before, right?"
Xiaoyun shook her head and said, "Mom, I understand your mood at that time. You're just protecting me, and although it's not the right thing, I know your good intentions. ”
I couldn't help but cry: "Mom is wrong, she shouldn't fight violence with violence." From now on, I will use reason and wisdom to resolve problems, and I will never hit people again. ”
Xiaoyun held my hand and said, "Mom, you've tried your best to give me the best." We mothers and daughters will learn from this incident and become better people. I love you, mom. ”
"I love you too, my good daughter. "I hugged Xiaoyun and thanked God for giving me such an understanding child.
After this experience, my relationship with my mother-in-law has become better than before. My mother-in-law stopped making things difficult for me, and I learned to be tolerant and understanding of my mother-in-law's temper. Xiaoyun has become the emotional bond between our mother and daughter and her mother-in-law.
Now I live a peaceful and happy life, relying on my daughter for my life, and treating my mother-in-law with filial piety. When I think about what happened, I still feel scared and blame myself. But it has allowed me to grow and it has strengthened our relationship. I will always remember this experience and pass on these truths to Xiaoyun.
On the road of life, we will inevitably encounter misunderstandings and disputes. However, as long as we have a tolerant and kind heart and understand and tolerate each other, we will be able to resolve problems and rebuild a harmonious family. This is what I want to say to Xiaoyun the most.