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If you don't have a job, you can find it again, you can make it again when your money is gone, but if your health is gone, or even your life is gone, then it's really too late.
Song Chunli beat her child in order to develop her career, resulting in lifelong infertility, she was busy with work and had no idea about her father's death, and her status as a national first-class actor was the thing she was most proud of, but it was also the thing she hated the most.
Fortunately, Song Chunli has a good husband who loves her and understands her enough, and in her eyes, her husband is the most perfect man in the world, and there is no one.
The couple couldn't have children for 40 years after marriage, and Song Chunli planned to train her nephew to support herself, but she raised her nephew into an "enemy".
The old couple finally had a daughter when they were over sixty years old, but for Song Chunli, the regrets they once had could no longer be made up......
Love comes from the depths of love
In the past, the car was slow, and there was only enough to love one person in a lifetime.
Song Chunli's husband Sun Weixi is 7 years older than her, and at that time, it was very important to pay attention to "men should marry women when they were married", and Song Chunli and Sun Weixi were both urged to get married.
Neither of them had much hope for each other, but when they saw each other for the first time, they confirmed that the other party was the other half worthy of their life.
Sun Weixi, who was born in 1944, has a very good family condition, has been studying in a private school since he was a child, and has an artistic cell, and has a lot of insights into playing the pipa.
After coming out of school, Sun Weixi was admitted to the High School Affiliated to the Central Conservatory of Music and went straight to the Central Academy of Arts.
Sun Weixi devoted all his time and energy to education, and did not marry until he was 33 years old, which was extremely unusual in those days, and it can be said that it is almost impossible to find a partner at this age.
Sun Weixi has lost his illusions about marriage and just wants to do his own business, but the appearance of Song Chunli made him feel the taste of first love again.
Song Chunli is from Hebei, and her family life is much more ordinary than that of Sun Weixi, the family is crammed into one room, and there is not even a decent piece of furniture at home.
On the National Day of the year when she was 13 years old, Song Chunli went to Beijing to enter the literary and artistic army, where she learned Xi engaged in art work.
At that time, there were still many people whose marriage was dominated by their parents, and they regarded marriage as a task that must be done after the age of 20, but Song Chunli was very disgusted with such thoughts.
Song Chunli insisted that marriage should be free, as long as she didn't meet someone she really liked, she would never get married, so everyone else around her became a family early, and only Song Chunli was still single.
Until the age of 26, a colleague who likes to be a matchmaker insisted on giving Song Chunli an object, although she repeatedly shirked and said that she wanted to wait for fate, but in the end she couldn't resist the matchmaker.
The matchmaker sent a letter to a man, and the general content of the letter was: "I found you a partner, called Song Chunli, the family is very beautiful, and you are still peers, when will I have time to introduce you to each other." ”
The man the matchmaker said was the university teacher Sun Weixi, under the guidance of the matchmaker, Song Chunli also knew the basic information of the other party, and Song Chunli, who had always insisted on free love, suddenly became very interested in this man.
She knew that Sun Weixi was very good at playing the pipa, and the conditions were very good, and he was a university teacher, so she wanted to know what Sun Weixi looked like and whether he would be very handsome?
But both of them already got to know each other in general, but neither of them wrote to anyone, are they both embarrassed and want to wait for the other party to speak first?
So Song Chunli took the initiative to write a letter to Sun Weixi, explaining her general situation and telling him what she knew about him, so she wanted to get to know him.
People in the past were not as bold as they are now, especially in terms of feelings, one by one is more reserved than the other, Sun Weixi saw that the girls took the initiative to write letters, and he quickly replied to the letter.
The two talked about their dreams from life, from their artistic careers to national development, they actually have a lot of common language, and they are becoming more and more energetic in writing letters, just like a young couple engaged in online dating.
The more they talked, the deeper their emotional investment became, and they wanted to make an appointment to meet, but Sun Weixi said: "I am busy with business, I have no time to rush, and I want to see each other, but it can be scheduled at the end of the year. ”
Sun Weixi's literary literacy made Song Chunli's heart even more restless, and she took the initiative to go to the Central Conservatory of Music to meet the other party.
How can two people who have never met before and only know each other's two eyes and one mouth recognize each other?
You can't have a career and a family at the same time
At that time, Sun Weixi was working in the office, and a student knocked on the door and told Sun Weixi that someone outside called him, and Sun Weixi was confused.
But when he saw a strange woman standing outside looking at him, he immediately reacted, this person was probably Song Chunli, who wrote letters to him every day.
It turned out that although Song Chunli didn't know where Sun Weixi was, she could ask, she found the security office and claimed that she was here to meet her friend Sun Weixi, so she asked for Sun Weixi's office address.
The two met late, Sun Weixi took her for a walk on campus, the two were not restrained at all, but as cordial as friends who hadn't seen each other for a long time, and the two quickly confirmed their relationship.
After getting along for more than a year, the two were not young and didn't want to drag it out any longer, so they got married soon, but the two couldn't live together because of their respective jobs.
Sun Weixi can't leave school often, and Song Chunli often has to perform with the art troupe, after thinking about it, Song Chunli decided to quit this job and change careers in order to live a good life with her husband.
Song Chunli changed careers to Bayi Studios in Beijing, although it was a career change, but this also belonged to the same industry as her usual work, and the process was not difficult.
thought they would finally be able to live happily, but work still hindered the two from getting along.
Song Chunli often filmed for several months, filming movies such as "The Romance of Blacksmith Zhang" and "Family Trivia", and gained some fame.
Two years later, Song Chunli won the Golden Rooster Award with "Mandarin Duck Tower", and her career was thriving, but at this time, she suddenly remembered her debt to her family.
The parents on both sides are urging them to have a child, but Song Chunli is on the rise in her career, how can she lose her career because of her child?
When she simulated how to convince her husband countless times in her heart, Sun Weixi took the initiative to support her idea and was willing not to have children first, which moved Song Chunli.
Song Chunli devoted herself to the movie in a new way, she didn't even know that her father had passed away, and the family chose to temporarily hide it in order not to affect her work, and was told by her sister after the movie was filmed.
It became a big regret for her to not be able to send her father to the end, and she still regretted it until her later years.
But two months later, when filming the movie "The Spy", Song Chunli suddenly suffered from frequent nausea, and she immediately realized that she might be pregnant, and it turned out to be true.
This is a good thing, but Song Chunli can't sleep because of this, she doesn't want to lose her career and go home to have children, but she also doesn't want to lose her flesh and blood.
At this time, Sun Weixi was 36 years old, and he really looked like he had a child, but in order to respect his wife, they finally decided to have an abortion.
Song Chunli returned to the crew after only half a month of rest after the operation, and she began to think about preparing for pregnancy and childbirth two years later, but after several months, there was no movement in her stomach.
After going to the hospital for an examination, the doctor told them that because of that abortion operation, Song Chunli was likely to be infertile, and the chances of getting pregnant again in the future were almost none.
After hearing this answer, the husband and wife were heartbroken, could it be true that they would never have offspring?
After many years, they were finally able to accept this reality, and Song Chunli decided to treat her nephew Song Chuyan well, bring him into the entertainment industry to help him develop, and let him retire in the future.
But Song Chuyan has not made any achievements in the film and television industry at all, and some people say that "Song Chuyan relies on Song Chunli to eat", which made his self-esteem seriously frustrated.
In order to get rid of Song Chunli's influence, he began to deliberately keep a distance from Song Chunli, and he didn't even pay attention to talking, like a pair of strangers.
It wasn't until 2012 that 61-year-old Song Chunli and 68-year-old Sun Weixi adopted a daughter, and they finally realized their wish to be parents.
Write at the end
Until this year, Song Chunli was 72 years old, she was still very affectionate with her husband, and raised her youngest daughter well, and her nephew finally gained a firm foothold in the film and television industry on his own.
Song Chunli is still working in the film and television industry and has not retired, and she is still starring in this year's TV series "Our Days".
Even when it comes to her husband now, Song Chunli still says: "He loves me and helps me, I can have today, all thanks to him." ”
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