Recently watched "Let Go of My North Nose", the heart of the old aunt of Tangerine Jun has been cute by these small pot friends~
However, after watching the two programs, I feel that this is not just a small fresh meat with a baby program, but more like a family education program
In the show, the educational concepts of the three guests are different, but after watching the show, it is estimated that everyone will say, we want a little brother like Yi Qianxi, and we don't want a brother like Yu Xiaotong!
First of all, let's talk about Yu Xiaotong, as a veteran guest in the first season, Xiao Tong with a baby can already be said to be very skilled.
You see he was still dreaming early in the morning, he heard the child crying and calling him, and immediately got up ↓
Bring out the crying child so as not to disturb the other children sleeping.↓
Soaking milk powder, feeding the child, the whole process is smooth, in one go, skilled enough to not do it, even if he did not even have time to get his hair ↓ at that time
So Xiao Tong is actually a boy who has a lot of responsibility and loves children.
But he also insisted on his own set of educational philosophies: boys are not allowed to cry!
Maybe Yu Xiaotong wants to cultivate the boy's strong character, but a mouthful of "boys are not allowed to cry" is also considered sexism Oh...
Xiao Tong, who felt that boys should strictly discipline him, even made some bad demonstrations, such as casually saying that pu pu was "lazy".↓
In the mission link, you need the specialty of puff to start the egg machine, Lin Xin just came, did not know the specialty of poof, asked "Does he have a specialty?" ”
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Yu Xiaotong didn't even think about it and said, "He has no specialty"...
Even mended the knife: "Poof, I won't do anything but eat"....
Completely out of mind about the poof that's right next to them...
Xiao Tong's behavior of casually labeling Pu Pu as "lazy" and "no specialty" actually inadvertently hit Pu Pu's self-confidence and self-esteem.
Children have their own personality and the value of existence, do not underestimate every child, not to mention that the poof is so big, how can you not go to the heart?
This also indirectly led to dinner time, puff because he could not find a small chair and exploded a long backlog of small emotions ....
At this time, Xiao Tong first pushed the child outward, then raised his own volume, and began to educate the puff with a serious face.
From beginning to end, I didn't ask a single question about why the child was crying.
After eating, The mood of Puff was still very down, and I couldn't help but cry....
The child has obviously been very wronged, Xiao Tong still put on a strict father's appearance, constantly saying that pu pu is "shameful", and using other children and pu pu ratio, "You see other children do not cry"
Xiao Tong said that he wanted to be friends with the little boys and be a buddy, but from the perspective of the show, his unreasonable strictness definitely belongs to the typical "strict father" education.
This may also be related to his family, Xiao Tong was born in a family of high-level intellectuals, his parents are university professors, and he has been strictly managed by his parents since he was a child.
No wonder he passes on the strict requirements of his parents to the next generation.
In the first episode, Lin Xinxin showed everyone perfectly what is called "the neighbor's strange Shu Huang".
Believe him in the little onion flower's sentence "your mother doesn't want you anymore" You all remember, although the big new brother is cute the whole time, but this boring and hurtful joke loses points...
You must know that the lethality of this sentence to Xiao Pengyou is nuclear bomb-level...
In order to comfort the little green onion who was crying and looking for her mother, Lin Xinxin casually said, "Mother is in the car." ", deceitful *1.....
But until I got out of the car, I didn't find my mother's figure of the little green onion, and the green onion cried again.
Subconsciously, Lin updated the children with frequent routines:
"Mom will come when you have lunch", deceitful *2.....
"Mom will come after lunch", deceitful *3...
"Mom may be napping", deceitful *4.....
After being cheated so many times, Xiao Onion no longer believed him, and finally broke down and cried...
Finally, by calling her mother, her mother explained to her why she did not come, and after letting her play with her brother and sister for a few days, Xiao Onion never mentioned looking for her mother again.
So you see, it's useless to lie to a child, the child is much more sensible than you think, as long as you tell her well, she will understand.
You see, after the "contradiction" between her and Xiao Onion was lifted, how cute the dialogue between the two was, "What's in your bag?" "Don't tell you, I'm afraid you're hungry," 2333333.
When Lin Xinxin first arrived, he just hadn't learned how to be a good father, so there were cunning laziness, jokes, and clumsy efforts in the process.
If the first two are false demonstrations with children, then Yi Qianxi's education method can definitely be said to be textbook-level!
For example, when he talks to a child, he will always crouch down and look at the child at a glance.↓
The posture of holding the child is skilled enough to be incompetent, and the sense of security is full.
In particular, he went out with Harlene in his arms and covered Harrin's feet with his hands, which was so warm that it couldn't be done!
He said very little, always said nothing, and then silently did a lot of things ↓
In just two episodes, you can find too many shining points in educating children from this teenager who is less than 17 years old.
Treat children with encouragement, gentleness and patience
At dinner, Pu Pu felt that he could not do anything, plus he was frightened by Yu Xiaotong's "can't cry", and the tears were rushing.....
QianXi first squatted down to pat him, comfort him, and then praised Pu Pu, "You cleaned up the tableware very well at noon", telling Pu Pu that you are not useless, you are great.
Then Shunshi diverts Puff's attention and lets Puff clean up the tableware with himself.
Successfully resolved the contradiction between Pu Pu and Xiao Tong.
As long as the child does a small thing, Qianxi will encourage a "awesome".
In the two episodes, these two words alone, Qianxi said to the children no less than 10 times.
Never lie to children and solve problems through communication
Unlike Lin Xinxin, who likes to routine children, Qianxi never cheats on children.
Harrin said she wanted to sleep with her mother, and Qianxi said that as long as you slept obediently at night, her mother would come in two days.
Cher missed her mother and cried uncontrollably.
Qianxi did not choose to be perfunctory and cajoling, but sincerely said to Xue'er that her mother would not come today, but as long as you performed well in these two days, her mother was happy and would come in two days.
He also told Xue'er that his brother could not see his mother, and his brother slept alone.
Not only has patience, Qianxi also knows empathy, will look at the problem from the child's point of view, and consider the problem from the child's situation.
Also when planting the land, because I told the children that the seeds would grow vegetables, Qianxi said that she could buy ready-made vegetables and bury them in the soil to let them know that they could really grow.
Because you can't lie to your babies.
In the second issue, Apple accidentally kicked over the cup containing milk on the sofa, and qianxi did not get angry when she saw it, but first asked him if he made it.
Apple didn't speak, and Qianxi didn't blame her, but said to Apple, if you kicked, then we both wiped together and solved the problem together.
Obviously, Apple actually knew that he was wrong, and it just happened that Qianxi's brother also gave him a step down, and he was more willing to make up for it.
The clever and witty Brother Qianxi even does this kind of super problem of helping girls change their clothes.
When she got up to get dressed, because Harrin was a girl, Qianxi, who had always been hands-on, chose to let Harrin change herself.
Harrin herself can't change it, and asks Qianxi for help, and Qianxi cleverly finds Xue'er to help her.
Such a witty and clever little brother, I don't know how to praise you.
I believe everyone also knows that the reason why Qianxi and The Baby is so skilled is of course related to the fact that he has a brother Nannan.
Flipping through his Weibo photo album, in addition to selfies, almost all of them are photos with Nannan, full of brother control ah ~
Qianxi Jia Nan's daily life, just ask you whether you are satisfied!
In short, fortunately, with Yi Qianxi, otherwise this show will soon be filmed by Lin Xinxin and Yu Xiaotong into "100 Kinds of Error Demonstration with Children".....
Tangerine Jun has reason to believe that many young fathers now may not be doing as well as Qianxi, this little brother who was born in 2000, but he can play the correct way to open with a baby, Anda Zijun is obedient!
Speaking of which, I feel that Nannan is the winner in life
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