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Preface
My hometown is in Guangzhou, very close to Shenzhen, and it is very easy to go home, and every time I go home, my mother can tell me some gossip.
When I went back this time, my mother told me that a new family had moved in the next building, and the man was actually a black man, and there were three children at home.
Mom's social skills are quite strong, and not long after the family moved in, Mom was already familiar with the hostess and talked about a lot of things.
It can be said that the black man was quite satisfied with the marriage and his life in China, and said more than once that he never wanted to go back to Africa.
I can't help but wonder how this black man married a Chinese girl, and what kind of charm does China have that would make him reluctant to return to his homeland?
Comfortable climate
This black man's name is Garka, and his wife's surname is Zhao, so let's call her Xiao Zhao.
The two met in college, and when they did group work, they were often divided into a group, and they became familiar with each other.
Garka is not as lazy as other blacks, and although his grades are not as good as those of his classmates, he still works hard, and he will complete the tasks assigned to him conscientiously.
Facing the tall and serious Garka, Xiao Zhao was immediately moved, and the two were together like this, and after graduating from college, they also successfully got married.
It wasn't until after getting married that Xiao Zhao knew that Garka originally pursued Xiao Zhao in order to be able to stay in China through marriage.
But the wood was already in the boat, Xiao Zhao was pregnant at that time, and in order for the child to have a complete home, she could only admit it.
However, after marriage, Galka didn't do anything other than refuse to do anything, at least he didn't think about tricking Xiao Zhao back to Africa.
Xiao Zhao also asked Garca why he didn't do this, after all, it is written in many social news, a black African lied to his girlfriend that he was the chief of a certain tribe, and then his girlfriend stupidly followed him to Africa, only to know that he had been deceived.
When Garka heard Xiao Zhao's words, he expressed some disdain, saying that China is so easy to mix, why should he go back?
In Garka's eyes, China's climate is quite comfortable, and it is precisely because of this suitable climate that the Chinese will live so nourishingly.
Galka's hometown is very dry, and there is little rain all year round, so it is difficult to develop farming.
In addition, most of the people in my hometown are lazy, and they can get by with the cooking of the fields, so life is quite difficult.
Garka was the only one there who was able to study in China, and his parents were lucky enough to make a fortune.
Galka was reluctant to leave his homeland at first, but he fell in love with China as soon as he set foot on it.
There's plenty of moisture in the air, and the temperature isn't unbearably hot, making it a paradise for Galka.
Although Guangdong can breed a lot of mosquitoes due to humidity, in Galka's eyes, these creatures are lovely, after all, Africa has more dangerous things.
China has a vast land and vast land, spanning a particularly large latitude and longitude, so the climate in many parts of the country is different.
Garka has also traveled to other cities, and in his opinion, every place is very suitable for living, except for the plateau area, which is difficult to survive.
In the end, he chose to stay in Guangzhou, where there were many of his compatriots, and the temperature was relatively high throughout the year, which made him feel more familiar.
Worry-free life
One of the biggest reasons why Garca doesn't want to go back is that living in China is so convenient, as long as you have a mobile phone, you can solve almost everything in life.
After coming to China, Galka realized how rough his previous life was, especially materially, and almost never satisfied.
But China has almost everything, eating, drinking, and having fun, and Galka can satisfy almost everything he wants.
Garka likes the sense of security in China, which is far better than in other countries.
Although it is said that these fights cannot be completely stopped, the frequency of occurrence in China is very low, far less than in Africa.
Galka also rarely feels racist in China, because the country is strong enough to be inclusive.
Not only are they not stereotyped because of their skin color, but they are also able to get some preferential treatment because of their nationality, which makes him very moved.
And you don't need to carry cash when you live in China, you can scan the code to pay everywhere, and you don't have to carry your wallet when you go out, which is very convenient.
Because everyone doesn't take anything with them when they go out, and they always hold their mobile phones in their hands, the number of thieves has nothing to steal, and the number has dropped dramatically.
But in Africa, it's different, walking on the road can't reveal that you are rich, either stolen or robbed.
Larger African cities are better, and smaller cities, especially villages, are quite chaotic.
Of course, in Galka's eyes, online shopping and takeaway are the most amazing inventions in China, and they are also the gospel of lazy people like him.
As long as you download the software, you can buy things from all over the country without leaving your home, and you can get your hands on them in a very short time.
This is something that is unimaginable in Africa, Galka is really fed up with the days he used to want, how can he go back to hell after going through heaven?
African cuisine is also far less rich and delicious than China's, where life is rougher, especially when it comes to food.
Not to mention Africa, there are few countries in the world that can match the sophistication of Chinese cuisine.
Although many takeaways are now using pre-made dishes, for Galka, even pre-made dishes are quite delicious, after all, the seasoning has been done very well.
Generally, Xiao Zhao cooks at home, and when Xiao Zhao is pregnant, he is quite sensitive to the smell of oil smoke, so he can't cook.
Garca was not very good at cooking, let alone cooking Chinese food, and before Xiao Zhao's parents came, they all ate takeout until the doctor warned them to eat less heavy oil and salt.
Speaking of Xiao Zhao's parents, this is one of the reasons why Garka wants to stay in China.
Friendly sociability
Garka said that he likes Chinese interpersonal relationships very much, especially the Chinese human society, where parents' love for their children is indestructible.
Xiao Zhao is an only child, which means that all the eyes and resources of his parents are invested in Xiao Zhao alone.
If it weren't for Garka's smarter and harder work harder than others, he wouldn't have had the opportunity to study in China.
When Xiao Zhao was pregnant with her first child, her parents would always call from time to time to inquire, and later learned that their little couple could not cook, so they directly packed up their things and came to the house to take care of Xiao Zhao.
This made Garka feel a lot more relaxed, after all, pregnant women are still relatively difficult to serve.
Later, after the child was born, Xiao Zhao's parents were also able to help take care of the child, which made Garka feel very trouble-free.
Anyway, as long as he and Xiao Zhao are born, they will be raised by someone when they are born.
So after the national policy was liberalized, he and Xiao Zhao gave birth to three children within five years, and basically the two old people were taking care of Xiao Zhao.
Mr. Galka said that the older generation of Chinese parents had such a worrying attitude towards their children that he could not have imagined as an African, where children are dependent on themselves for their own survival, and rarely have access to their parents as adults.
As for the fact that parents will help take care of their grandchildren, it is even more fantastic, and young people are really tired.
So Garka didn't want to go back at all, and only by staying in China could he feel happy.
epilogue
Listening to such a story, I don't know what to say, in my perspective, I always feel that the Chinese girl is living a bit miserable, obviously she has a better choice.
But this kind of thing is like a person drinking water and knowing it, I am not her, and I can't evaluate all this for her, but she seems to be very satisfied.
It's not the first time that an African guy has married a Chinese girl, and I can only sigh at this, thinking that when will I be able to get rid of the single.