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I still remember that day, the sun was shining, the birds were singing, and everything was so beautiful. With joy and anticipation, I walked into my new house and prepared to start a new life with my wife. However, when I noticed the words on the base of her legs, my heart suddenly became heavy. "Force". These two short words seemed to have an invisible force pushing me into the abyss, and I didn't know what to do. I pondered the reason for this as I walked out of the room in a depressed mood. "Xiaoling, what's wrong with you?" I asked at her. She smiled slightly, looked at me and said, "What's wrong, nothing, didn't you just say you were going to help me wash my clothes?" I ignored her words, just stared at her legs. I know that this problem has to be solved. I decided to have a good talk with her. "Xiaoling, how can you have such a word on your leg?" I asked directly. She was stunned for a moment, and then said thoughtfully: "That's the scar left by my fall when I was a child, you see, these two words can actually be spelled 'bravery'." I was stunned, this explanation seemed a bit far-fetched. I don't know if to trust her or my instincts. I felt as if I had been pushed to the edge of a cliff and couldn't control my emotions. "You lied to me. I whispered. She looked at me blankly, her eyes full of disappointment: "I didn't lie to you. "If you don't return the bride price, we'll get a divorce!" I said, and left the room in a rage. I don't know why I made the decision I did, and I don't know how to face my heart. All I know is that I need time to think calmly. A few days later, she told me the ins and outs of the incident. It turned out that she used to be a very lively and active girl when she was a child, playing outside all day long, and often getting hurt. At that time, one of her favorite games was shuttlecock kicking, but she was never skilled enough and always fell, leaving scars. She has said to herself many times, "Never play again." However, whenever she saw others having fun, she couldn't restrain herself and carried on the game to the end, even if she fell down again, the people who cared about her at that time would encourage her and tell her that she would succeed next time, and the scar would not be deeper. She remembers the kindness of these people in her heart, so she won't give up easily, and she won't give up on me now. "I don't have the courage to face my past, but I don't have the courage to leave you," she said. I could feel her deep struggle and helplessness in her words. She is an extremely fragile but extremely strong girl at heart, and what she needs is not my departure, but more understanding and tolerance. I learned that as a husband, I should not only focus on my own feelings, but also be more caring and tolerant. Now when I think back on that time, I deeply understand how blind and impulsive I was at that time. I am grateful that mistake has taught me more maturity and understanding, and I appreciate the happiness in front of me more. Those two seemingly simple words taught me the truth of life and made our marriage closer. Thank you for that time and let us grow together. "Xiaoling, I'm sorry. I was too impulsive. I gently stroked her hand, and this time, my heart was filled with guilt and apologies. She looked at me quietly and smiled gently, "It's okay, I know you actually care about me." Her voice was full of understanding and tolerance. "We got married to shoulder the responsibilities and pressures of the future together. I also have my shortcomings, and your tolerance and love for me make me feel extremely happy, so we need to understand and encourage each other. Although she was a little sad, she did not complain. We started sitting down every night to share our experiences of the day and talk to each other about our troubles and joys. Gradually, our marriage became more happy because we learned more about each other. In the past seven years, we have experienced the trivial troubles and frustrations in life together, and we have also enjoyed happiness and joy together. She always took care of me when I was tired and accompanied me through every lonely and restless night. Until one day, she said to me, "Honey, in fact, I have always wanted to be able to leave a little life by our side. She lowered her head slightly and looked at me expectantly. I froze in place, not knowing how to answer her. I know that as a man, this is a responsibility and a role that I cannot avoid, but there is a fear and pressure inside me. "I understand it's a big decision for you, but I'm sure we can take this responsibility together and we've been trying to grow. She said softly, her eyes revealing incomparable firmness and confidence. I felt a sense of emotion and warmth that I had never felt before. Yes, she is my wife, there is endless love and trust between us, and we can face all the difficulties and challenges in life together. "Thank you, Xiaoling. I'll be with you, no matter what happens. I held her hand tightly, and at that moment, I understood that the love between us had transcended all barriers. This experience has made our marriage stronger and more beautiful. We support each other, achieve each other, and go through the joys and sorrows of life together. In mutual understanding and tolerance, we have been happy until now. Life is not easy, but we have learned how to love and be loved, and how to understand and be understood. I am deeply grateful for this experience, which taught me more maturity and understanding, and made our marriage stronger and more fulfilling. Those two simple words "force" taught me the power of love and made our marriage better. Thank you for that time and let us grow together. Over the next few years, we experienced more ups and downs. Xiaoling was pregnant with the baby we had been waiting for, and I felt more pressure from my busy schedule. In the dead of night, we begin to prepare together for the arrival of a new life. Xiaoling smiled sweetly and happily, while I felt uneasy inside. "Honey, you haven't spoken for so long, what's wrong?" Xiao Ling sensed my uneasiness and asked gently. "I'm worried about everything we're going to face, I'm worried I'm going to be an incompetent father. I said with a little frustration. "Don't worry, the difficulties and problems we encountered before are all faced and solved by us together. We can be good parents, too. Xiaoling looked at me affectionately, her voice full of confidence. The arrival of the baby fills our lives with warmth. Every morning I wake up and see his innocent smile, and I feel happy inside. Every night, Xiaoling and I took turns holding the baby to lull him to sleep, and even though he was exhausted, he was still full of joy. "Look, he's smiling!" Xiao Ling said to me excitedly. "yes, he's such a cute little guy. I smiled, looking at the baby's cute appearance, my heart was full of love. Time flies quickly, and the baby slowly grows up and begins to learn to talk and walk. Our family has experienced many happy times in the company of our baby. His growth has strengthened our responsibility and commitment to our family. Xiaoling and I have also become more mature, and we have learned to be more caring and tolerant in the process of becoming parents. Whenever a baby has a tantrum, we learn to be more patient and understanding. We are immensely proud of our baby every time he makes progress. "Look, my dear, the baby followed me today. Xiaoling told me excitedly. "It was amazing, we were a family, it was like a whole little world. I sighed. Our marriage has gone through ups and downs, but it is still happy. Xiaoling's encouragement and support made me see a bright future. Family is our common responsibility and happiness. With the company of the baby, we grow together and enjoy the bits and pieces of life together. Our marriage has taught me to care and understand, to be resilient and courageous, and to love and be loved. Today, our lives are still good. Xiaoling and I have held hands to go through the ups and downs, and the love between us has become more and more firm and deep. Those two simple words "force" give us more maturity and responsibility, and also make our marriage better. Thank you for that time and let us grow together. Our lives are gradually settling down, and babies bring us more happiness and challenges. The pressure of work also distracted me. Gradually, I began to ignore Xiaoling. Once, when I came home late, Xiaoling sat on the sofa with a melancholy expression. Seeing me come in, she smiled slightly, but revealed helplessness and loss: "You came home late today." "I'm sorry, but I've been really busy lately. I said awkwardly. "Are you really busy, or are you neglecting your family responsibilities?" her tone was filled with sadness and incomprehension. I was stunned, I didn't expect her to react like this. There was hesitation and uneasiness in my heart. "I didn't mean to, but I've been busy lately. I tried to explain. "As the child grows older, he needs our care and companionship even more. You should also dedicate some time to the family. Xiao Ling's tone was firm, admonishing me. Her words struck me in the heart. I began to reflect on my actions and I forgot the most important thing in our marriage. "I'm sorry, I was wrong. I bowed my head and said, "You're right, family is the most important thing." I promise you that I will definitely find more time to be by your side in the future. "My heart is full of remorse and apologies. "I'm sure you'll do it. Xiao Ling smiled slightly, and her voice revealed a deep trust in me. Since then, I have come home as early as possible after work and participated in the baby's growth with Xiaoling. We play and Xi with the baby together, and share the joy and sorrow of raising the child together. We have become closer, and families have become warmer. From Xiaoling, I learned how to be a qualified husband and father. Time passed slowly and our baby was already in school. On this day, I accompanied Xiaoling to send the baby to school. When I stepped onto campus, I felt a lot of joy in my heart. "Mom, Dad, you don't have to accompany me, I'm grown up and can go to school by myself. "The baby looked at us and smiled kindly. "Okay, go ahead, baby. Study hard Xi. Xiao Ling said softly. I also held the baby's hand tightly, "Mommy and dad will be there for you, every moment, baby." "Watching the baby's back gradually leave, I was moved to tears. The baby has grown up, and my marriage with Xiaoling has also experienced growing together, taking responsibility and tolerance together. In the days to come, we will continue to face the challenges and joys of life hand in hand. Xiaoling gradually returned to work, and I paid more attention to the warmth and care of my family. We support each other and go through the ups and downs of life together. On this journey, we have always learned how to love and be loved, and we have always cherished the good things in life. Those two simple words, "force", taught me how to be a better husband and father, and also made our marriage better. Thank you for that time and let us grow together. "Dad, how do you and Mom keep your marriage happy?" the baby asked curiously. I smiled and looked at the baby, "Marital happiness is not static, it requires us to constantly adapt and adjust. "Did you ever argue?" the baby continued. "Of course there is, every family will have conflicts and frictions. The key is to learn to communicate and understand. I took a deep breath and tried to explain it to the baby. "Love is not enough to maintain a marriage, it is more about coping with the ups and downs of reality, reaching consensus and compromise. Xiao Ling walked over and said softly. "So, you're growing and accommodating together. The baby nodded thoughtfully. I am deeply gratified and touched by the communication between our family. In the conversation with the baby, I learned how love lasts, and we both learned to be more understanding and tolerant. On the road of this marriage, we have always cherished the beautiful bits and pieces of life and faced the ups and downs of life together. At the same time, we are also deeply inspired by our babies to know how to love and be loved again. The warmth and love of the family make our marriage more stable and happy. We have experienced the ups and downs of marriage, and we have also learned how to tolerate and understand, to bear and love. To this day, when I see Xiaoling and the baby smiling every day, my heart is full of emotion and satisfaction. Those two simple words, "force", have taught me to be a better husband and father, and also made our family better. Thank you for that time and let us grow together. Now, when I see Xiaoling and the baby smiling every day, my heart is full of emotion and satisfaction. Our family has become better, and my marriage with Xiaoling has become stronger and more satisfying. "Honey, this Friday is our 10th wedding anniversary, why don't we go on a trip together. Xiao Ling smiled and looked at me gently. I smiled and nodded, "Good idea, we should put down work and go and enjoy our happy time together." "On Friday morning, our family set off. Walking in nature, I looked at Xiaoling and the baby's happy smiles, and felt extremely happy and satisfied. "It's such a beautiful landscape, we should have come out and walked more sooner. Xiao Ling looked into the distance and said softly. "yes, we were all so busy that we rarely had time to go out and relax together. I sighed. The baby also ran over, "Mom and Dad, this trip is really fun, thank you for accompanying me." We looked at the baby and couldn't help but smile, "Thank you, baby, for making our marriage more perfect." "The joyful laughter of our family fluttered in the wind. After returning home, our family sat together, and Xiaoling took out the 10th anniversary commemorative book, "The trip in the past few days is really beautiful, but I forgot to take the camera, our baby, you have to take more pictures in the future to keep the beautiful moments." "The next time I go out, I'll remember it." "The baby makes a serious commitment. Our family looked at this commemorative book full of good memories, and our hearts were full of emotion and emotion. To this day, our marriage is still happy and satisfying. Ten years of ups and downs have become a precious treasure in our lives. We are Xi to snuggling up to each other and spending every spring, summer, autumn and winter together. We know how to love and be loved, how to bear and love, which is the most valuable harvest on the road of our marriage. Those two simple words, "force", taught me to be a better husband and father, and also made our marriage better. Thank you for that time and let us grow together.