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My name is Li Xiaoyun, I am 28 years old and I am a secondary school Chinese teacher. On the surface, my life is calm and organized, with a stable job and financial independence, but I always feel that there is a piece missing from my heart. I longed to have a soulmate, but many suitors weren't on the same channel, and I didn't want to force myself to accept the wrong person.
It was a sunny weekend and I went for a walk in the park alone. The park was full of flowers, birds were singing, and I wandered aimlessly along the paths. Suddenly, a man walked past me quickly, looked back at me as he walked, ran so fast that he hit a tree stump on the side of the road.
"Ouch!" He screamed in pain and squatted on the ground with his head in his hands.
I hurriedly ran over and asked, "Are you okay?"
The man raised his head, looked at me with a pair of peach blossom eyes, and said a little embarrassed: "I'm fine, it's just a little embarrassing, don't laugh at me." ”
I saw that his forehead was already a little red and swollen, so I took out a band-aid from his bag and glued it to him, and said with a smile: "What's so funny about this, the stump is so thick, it must hurt to hit it." My family lives nearby, and I'll take you to apply it if I have medicine, so that it doesn't swell too much. ”
The man stood up, he was tall, at least 1.85 meters, wearing sportswear and looking athletic. He smiled shyly and said, "Then I'll trouble you, my name is Lin Jian, I just came to this city not long ago, and I am not very familiar with this road." ”
I nodded: "My name is Li Xiaoyun, I live in the nearby Jianhua Community, let's walk slowly, don't run anymore, be careful of what you bump into." ”
I smiled and didn't pay much attention to his words. Lin Jian looks like a sunny and cheerful person, and he smiles very well, but I have always been cautious and will not believe it easily
Lin Jian followed me to my house, I took out the medicine box for him, found the swelling medicine and gently applied it to his forehead.
"Does it still hurt?" I asked with concern.
"It's much better, thank you so much just now. Lin Jian looked at me, "I just came to this city, and I don't know anyone yet, so it may really be providence to meet you today." ”
I smiled, didn't speak, and continued to help him with his wounds.
Lin Jian saw that I didn't respond, and said, "Xiaoyun, do you live alone?" The home environment is really good, clean and warm. ”
"Well, I'm living alone, so it's good to get used to Xi. I nodded.
"It's good to live alone, but it's warmer and more fulfilling when two people live together. Lin Jian said tentatively, "Did you say yes?"
I glanced up at him and said lightly, "It depends on what kind of person you meet." I'm doing well alone. ”
Lin Jian smiled knowingly and didn't continue the topic.
I put a band-aid on Lin Jian and said, "You can take a break, I'll pour you a glass of water." ”
"Okay, thank you. ”
I went to the kitchen and thought to myself that Lin Jian looked good, but I still wanted to keep my distance so that he wouldn't misunderstand.
When I returned to the living room with the water, I saw Lin Jian standing in front of the bookshelf, looking at my collection of books.
"You like to read?" He asked me.
"Well, reading is my biggest hobby. I nodded.
"I also love to read!" Lin Jian said excitedly, "I especially like history and literature, Xiaoyun, you see that we have so many common languages, this must also be a kind of fate." ”
I looked at Lin Jian with some surprise, he actually liked these books, which was indeed beyond my expectations.
From that day on, Lin Jian began to ask me out frequently. We went to museums, parks, and often talked late at night. Lin Jian is gentle and polite, and knowledgeable, and I feel very comfortable with him.
One day, Lin Jian invited me to his house as a guest. The layout of his house is simple and warm, and there are many calligraphy and paintings hanging on the wall, which shows that he is very cultural.
As we ate his meals, we talked about each other's families.
"My parents are both in their hometown, and I haven't seen them for a long time. Lin Jian said, "I have always wanted to find a girl and go with her to meet my parents." ”
I heard what he was saying, smiled and said, "Yes, getting married is an important thing for everyone." But I don't have any plans to do that right now. ”
Lin Jian nodded, and didn't dwell on this question anymore. I could tell he was real
I could see that he really cared about me. In the days I spent with Lin Jian, I gradually discovered his advantages.
Once, when I was sick and had a fever and resting at home, Lin Jian specially bought fever-reducing medicine and nutritional products for me from a pharmacy near my home, and then came to my house to take care of me personally.
"Xiaoyun, how are you feeling now?" Lin Jian looked at me worriedly.
"I'm fine, maybe I'm just suffering from the cold, just take a rest. I said weakly.
"With me here, you can rest assured. Lin Jian said softly.
That day, Lin Jian accompanied me for 8 hours. He poured water for me, cooked porridge, and told me to take my medicine on time. I felt as if I was being cared for by him, and my heart was touched like never before.
My illness was cured quickly. In order to thank Lin Jian, I invited him to my house for dinner.
"Xiaoyun, thank you for being so kind to me during this time. Lin Jian said.
"No, it's me who wants to thank you. I was sick that day, thanks to you for taking care of me. I laughed.
"That's what I'm supposed to do. You know, before I met you, my life was empty, and now with you, my life is complete. Lin Jian looked into my eyes seriously.
My heartbeat couldn't help but quicken, and I lowered my head and said, "Lin Jian, I'm glad you can say that." But as you know, I'm not ready to further develop our relationship right now. ”
"I understand. Lin Jian nodded, "I can wait, wait until you think about everything clearly." ”
One day, something happened to the family with a child at school, and I was anxious but couldn't do anything about it. When Lin Jian found out, he immediately drove some daily necessities and accompanied me to visit the child.
"There are some things that we can't do, but at least we can make the child feel cared for and warm. Lin Jian said to me.
I nodded, and a deeper admiration for Lin Jian rose in my heart.
I started to take the initiative to ask Lin Jian out and do more things with him. We went to the playground to play the roller coaster, to the beach to watch the sunrise, and we all laughed like two children.
"With you, I feel like I'm ten years younger again. Lin Jian said to me with a smile.
"Actually, you've always been young. I laughed too.
I know that I have been completely conquered by Lin Jian. He was like a light into my world and made my life so exciting.
One night, Lin Jian took me to my doorstep. Under the moonlight, he suddenly looked at me seriously and asked softly, "Xiaoyun, I like you, I like you very, very much." Would you like to stay with me?"
My heart was beating so fast that I couldn't speak, but I still hesitated and said, "Lin Jian, can you give me some time to think about it?" ”
Lin Jian nodded, and didn't force me: "Okay, you think about it slowly, I can wait." Whatever your answer is, it won't affect my feelings for you. ”
When I got home, I couldn't sleep all night. Lin Jian is such an excellent person, and I will be very happy with him. But I still have concerns, mainly because I am worried that it will affect my work.
Lin Jian's understanding and tolerance warmed me. Eventually, I plucked up the courage to say to him, "Lin Jian, I've thought about it." I am willing to be with you and live a happy life with you. ”
Lin Jian was overjoyed, he hugged me tightly and kissed me lightly on the forehead: "Xiaoyun, I promise to make you happy." ”
And just like that, we were officially together. In the days with Lin Jian, I have never been happier. Whether we are traveling or cooking at home, that feeling of sweetness and happiness has never changed.
One night, we suddenly started arguing. The reason was that Lin Jian wanted to move in with me, but I wasn't ready yet.
"Do you love me or not?" Lin Jian's tone was a little excited.
"Of course I love you, but I also need personal space. I tried to explain.
"I've put up with you working so hard for so long, and now I make a small request, and you won't grant me. Lin Jian said.
I also got excited: "My work is important to me, you know. You can't force me to change my lifestyle. ”
The more the two of us talked, the more excited we became, and finally Lin Jian slammed the door and left. I sat in my room and couldn't hold back my tears.
Two days later, Lin Jian sent me a message to apologize. He said he was in too much of a hurry and didn't consider my feelings. I also reflected on whether I was too stubborn and should have been more reasonable.
"Xiaoyun, no matter what happens in the future, I will respect your ideas and give you the space you need. Lin Jian said.
I nodded, "I'm sorry, I should understand your feelings." Let's take our time. ”
After this quarrel, our relationship became stronger. Lin Jian learned to give me more autonomy, and I also learned to think from his point of view. We understand each other, are considerate and support each other.
As the days passed, Lin Jian seemed to me
One day, the school temporarily required me to work overtime to prepare for class until late. I sent a message to Lin Jian to tell him.
At nine o'clock in the evening, in the office where I was preparing for class, Lin Jian suddenly appeared. He smiled and said to me, "I knew you would be home late, so I brought dinner to accompany you." ”
When I saw the food box in his hand, my eyes moistened. We had dinner together in the office, and Lin Jian helped me correct the students' homework.
"Thank you. At 11 p.m., I finally finished grading my last assignment.
Lin Jian stroked my hair and said gently, "With you, nothing is hard. ”
I leaned on Lin Jian's shoulder, and my heart was full of happiness. With him, I felt deeply loved and understood unconditionally.
Again, I was sick and resting at home, and Lin Jian did not hesitate to take leave to take care of me every day.
"Isn't it okay if you don't go to work?" I asked weakly.
"You are more important than any job. Lin Jian held my hand and said.
I looked at Lin Jian and thought to myself that I had really found the best bosom mate in my life.
In this way, we spent two sweet and warm years. Until one day, Lin Jian said that he had to go back to his hometown for a while if he had something at home.
"I'll be back in a month, don't worry. Lin Jian comforted me.
"Okay, you have to pay attention to your body in your hometown. "I can't bear him to leave.
A month later, Lin Jian still hasn't returned. I called him and he said that things were complicated at home and that it would take some time.
I started to get worried. Could it be that his feelings for me have changed? Just as I was thinking nonsense, Lin Jian suddenly came back.
It turned out that his father was in poor health and needed Lin Jian to take care of him in his hometown for a period of time. Now that my father's condition has improved, he has come back to me.
"Xiaoyun, I'm sorry for worrying you during this time. Lin Jian said apologetically.
I shook my head, and the first thing that touched him was how I felt.
"No matter what happens in the future, we have to trust each other. I held Lin Jian's hand and said.
"I promise. Lin Jian said solemnly.
After all this, our relationship has become stronger, and I am completely convinced of Lin Jian's sincerity. When I talk to my friends about my partner, I proudly say, "I found the best in the world." ”
Now I and Lin Jian have entered the palace of marriage. Every day I wake up, I thank God for allowing me to meet him.
"Good morning, my darling. Lin Jian would say this softly in my ear every day.
"Good morning, dear. I smiled in response.
We'll make breakfast together and talk about our plans for the day. Lin Jianhui carefully helped me tie my apron and told me to pay attention to safety at work.
"Be careful on the road, and tell me anything you want. "Lin Jian told me like this every time.
"You know, you have to pay attention to your body, don't work too hard. "I didn't forget to tell him.
When he was working, Lin Jianhui called during his lunch break.
"Have you eaten at noon?" He always cared about me like that.
"Eat, what about you? Don't forget lunch. I instructed.
"With you in mind, how could I forget. Lin Jian's voice was full of smiles.
When I came home from work in the evening, Lin Jian would always greet me at the door and give me a big hug.
"Welcome home, my wife. He said affectionately.
"I'm back, my husband. "I hugged him tightly.
Sometimes when I work too late, Lin Jian will drive to pick me up.
"It's hard work, get in the car, I'll take you to supper. Lin Jian will arrange it so carefully.
Every festival, Lin Jian will carefully prepare gifts and surprises. He would cook my favorite dishes and accompany me to the movies or walk in the park.
"Today is our day, and all the time belongs to you. Lin Jian always said to me like this.
When I feel unwell or in a bad mood, Lin Jian can always find out carefully and then accompany me.
"It's okay, I'm here. "He would comfort me over and over again.
I will tell him all the troubles and grievances in my heart, and Lin Jian will listen patiently and provide me with the most intimate advice.
"You're right, but I didn't think about it well. "He never excuses me, he just wants me to be happy.
In these bits and pieces, I deeply felt the various manifestations of a man who truly loves me. I was lucky to meet Lin Jian, a lifelong confidant.
"We will give him the best life. Lin Jian held my hand and said.
"Well, we're family