Guiguzi, a very mysterious figure in Chinese history, is known as a strange man through the ages. Legend has it that he left the world four guidelines for avoiding disasters before his death, is this true? If so, what are these four guidelines for avoiding disasters?
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Article 1: Trouble in the way
The little brother said: What is the first thing Guiguzi said?
I said: "Trouble in the way means not to block other people's financial paths or affect other people's interests, otherwise it may lead to disaster."
The little brother said: Isn't that just for us not to fight for our own interests?
I said: It's not like this, it's just that we should pay attention to ways and means, and don't go too far, otherwise the gains may outweigh the losses.
For example, if you want to be promoted and raised in the company, you must not only think about yourself, but also consider the interests and feelings of your colleagues and superiors. If they are too flamboyant or selfish, they may be disgusted or jealous, and they will create obstacles or gossip, or even stab them in the back. Instead of a promotion or raise, you lose your job or reputation.
What you have to do is to respect the interests of others and find a balance while pursuing your own interests. Communicate and cooperate with colleagues and superiors to establish good interpersonal relationships. We should learn more Xi improve our abilities and increase our value. Contribute more to the company and the team to win their trust and support. In this way, we will not block the financial path of others or affect the interests of others, but will progress and develop together with them.
Article 2: Misfortune of Misfortune
The little brother said: What about the second one?
I said: "The evil of cherishing is not to reveal your wealth or talent too much, otherwise it may attract the envy or covetousness of others."
The little brother said: Doesn't that just make us all have to be low-key people?
I said: It's not like that, it's just that you have to protect yourself and don't let yourself become the target of others, otherwise you may get into trouble.
For example: a person with a great talent for writing, and his article has received a lot of attention and appreciation on the headlines. But don't let that make you get carried away and go around bragging about your writing achievements or criticizing other people's work. This may cause dissatisfaction or jealousy from others, and some people may even deliberately find trouble, saying that the article is plagiarized or maliciously reported.
Be humble and keep a low profile, and continue to work on improving your writing. Get along with other writers, communicate and Xi more, appreciate and support each other. It is necessary to respect the fruits of other people's labor and creative style, and do not criticize or belittle other people's works at will. In this way, you will be able to win the trust and respect of others, and create a good atmosphere for headline creation.
Article 3: Trouble from the mouth
The little brother said: What about the third one?
I said: The curse of the mouth means that you should pay attention to your words and do not say something that offends or hurts people, otherwise it may cause contradictions or hatred.
The little brother said: Doesn't that just make us all have to be careful when we speak?
I said: It's not like that, it's just that you should respect others and don't easily hurt other people's feelings, otherwise you may be retaliated.
For example: drinking and chatting with friends. One of the friends didn't like the guy and said something demeaning about the guy. said that he often eats and drinks, and has never seen him pay for it or anything like that. The two of them were drunk, and they became more and more intense, and the more noisy they became, the more fierce they became. even started to do it, and finally broke up with a broken head and blood.
When you speak, you must distinguish between the occasion and the person you are talking about. If something inappropriate is said in public, it will put the atmosphere in an awkward situation. Be calm and rational and express your thoughts in an appropriate way. Being able to respect each other. In this way, you will be able to avoid the trouble of mouthing and you will be able to maintain good relationships.
Article 4: The Scourge of Relationships
The little brother said: What about the last one?
I said: The curse of relationships means not to rely too much on or take advantage of interpersonal relationships, otherwise you may lose your freedom or become a pawn of others.
The little brother said: Doesn't that mean we all have to be independent?
I said: It's not like that, it's just that you have to stay sober and don't be swayed by interpersonal relationships, otherwise you may get into trouble.
For example, A borrows money from B, saying that it is urgent and promises to return it as soon as possible. Considering that the relationship between them is good, and the usual character is good and trustworthy, I decided to help A. But B didn't have enough money himself, so B helped A to be a guarantor and borrowed the money from C. Soon after, B found out that A was not in a hurry, but took the money to invest, but the investment failed, and A chose to run away. Now, C starts to collect the debt from B because B is the guarantor.
In life, you need to be careful about the money relationship between friends. Even if you are a very good friend, don't be a guarantor or lend money easily, so as not to cause problems in the relationship. Before borrowing money or acting as a guarantor, you need to carefully consider the creditworthiness and repayment ability of the other party, and sign a relevant loan agreement or guarantee agreement to protect your rights and interests. At the same time, if a friend does not repay the loan as agreed after borrowing money, we need to take timely measures to solve the problem through communication or legal means to avoid further expansion of losses.
The little brother sent out another soul torture question: Are these four guidelines for avoiding disasters really useful?
My point of view: These are all summarized by Guiguzi based on his own life experience, although it cannot be guaranteed to be completely applicable to everyone, but for us ordinary people, there is still a certain reference significance. At least it can make us more vigilant and less troublesome in life.
We should not blindly believe in or deny the wisdom of the ancients, but should think and apply it according to our own actual situation. You must have your own judgment and opinions, and you can't follow the crowd. You have to be a wise and responsible person to gain a foothold in this complex world.
Final Conclusion:
Guiguzi, because of his seclusion in Guigu, calls himself Mr. Guigu. It is said that he was thorough and wise, beyond the reach of man. For more than 2,000 years, the art of war has respected him as a saint, the vertical and horizontal family has respected him as the ancestor, the fortune teller has respected him as the ancestor, the strategist has respected him as the saint, the famous family has respected him as the ancestor, and the Taoists have respected him as the ancestor of Wang Chan. In the history of culture, he is a scholar on a par with Confucius, Mencius, Zhuangzi, Xunzi, Mozi, Han Feizi and other sages.
Guiguzi's four guidelines for avoiding disasters, although they are simple to say, are not easy to do. We should always keep these four principles in mind in our lives in order to avoid unnecessary disasters. However, we should not stick to these four principles entirely, but should apply them flexibly according to specific situations. After all, life is full of variables and challenges, and we must have enough wisdom and courage to face everything. I wonder what everyone thinks about this?
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