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The ancients said: The beloved son of parents has far-reaching plans.
As parents, they all have a common wish, that is, they hope that their sons will become dragons and their daughters will become phoenixes.
The scriptures say: What you sow, what you reap, good and evil are rewarded, and cause and effect are reincarnated.
Whether a child's life is good or not has a lot to do with their parents.
Therefore, parents must pay attention to their words and deeds, because parents are the first teachers of their children, and what you do may affect their children, and perhaps unintentional behaviors will affect their children's blessings.
"Yi" cloud: "The house of goodness will have afterglow, and the house of bad will have aftermath." "Those who do good will accumulate virtue and enjoy blessings and blessings to their descendants, but those who do evil will sow evil and bring misfortune to future generations."
Therefore, it is said that great wealth depends on the sky, and the blessing depends on the family, and a person's wealth and fortune are not all determined by God, what kind of family style there is, what kind of children will be achieved.
Lin Zexu, a national hero, left several family mottos for his children: First, if the children and grandchildren are like me, what to do with the money, and if they are virtuous and rich, they will lose their ambition; That is to say, if my children and grandchildren are better than me, what should I do with them with money? Being smart and rich will make him feel satisfied and unambitious. If my children and grandchildren are not as good as me, then what should I do with them with money? Being stupid and rich will only make them make more mistakes.
The second is that "if your parents are not filial, it is useless to serve the gods", if a person is not filial to his biological parents, it is useless to worship the gods and will not bless you.
The third is that "brothers are not in harmony, and it is useless to make friends" is to tell the sons that if a person has no affection for his brothers and sisters, it is impossible to make friends with such people.
In Lin Zexu's family motto, it can be seen that Lin Zexu has never slackened off on his children's education, no matter how busy he is, he must take time to check his children's studies. Lin Zexu often warned his children that the purpose of reading is to make contributions, not to read dead books, but to apply what they have learned. In addition, he also asked his children to learn to grow crops, so that they could understand that it is not easy to be a farmer and that food is valuable.
It is precisely because of this that Lin Zexu's three sons were deeply influenced by the family, and each of them excelled and became a famous family.
Whether the children and grandchildren of a family are blessed or not comes from the influence and education of their parents and grandparents on their children and grandchildren. As long as the parents in the family know how to accumulate virtue and do good deeds, and accumulate blessings for their children and grandchildren, the children will not be far behind.
If the intention is not good, feng shui is not beneficial, and it is better to stay virtuous at home than ten thousand.
Whether the children are good or not, just look at the parents
My mom was a very kind person, and when we were very young, I saw that my mom was always very busy. My neighbors don't lock their doors at home, and when they go to work in the fields, their little mothers take them with them, and they make dinner and wash their faces in the evening. As long as there is any work at home, as long as my mother can do it, my mother will help when she has time, so my mother's fortune is profound, and my sisters can be admitted to college, and they all have stable jobs after graduation.
The kinder the parents, the more blessed the children
Liang Xiaosheng said: "Kindness is not a deliberate thing to be seen by others, it is a pleasant and natural thing, just like sometimes, kindness is for peace of mind." ”
People have good intentions and kindness is the foundation. Charity mind, virtue and generosity. Let people feel the sunshine in your heart. When you use kindness to live in the world, there will be endless blessings for the rest of your life, and your children will get more blessings.
Buddhism has clouds: people have good thoughts, and God will bless them.